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Purchasing of sex will be criminalised (it appears) in the near future in Ireland

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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,579 ✭✭✭aare


    Ruhama was founded as a joint initiative of the Good Shepherd Sisters and Our Lady of Charity Sisters, both of which had a long history of involvement with marginalised women, including those involved in prostitution.

    You do realise that "long history of involvement" ALSO involved one heck of a lot of Magdalen Laundries?


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,798 ✭✭✭goose2005


    NewHillel wrote: »
    With respect, comparing soliciting sex with a prostitute to 'buying a computer' is "absolutely, mind blowingly ludicrous". Equally, pretending that there are "employers", may make the punter feel more comfortable, but we all know that it is no more than a pretence.

    It is well past time to call a spade a spade, and call it as it is. The Gardai and the authorities, have got this one spot on. If nothing else, it wil remove all the bravado from what is a murky, totally unsavoury business. Whether it is 1% or 50% of prostitutes that are working under duress, doesn't really matter. How is the punter to know which ones are, and which ones aren't? He can't!

    This is not a debate about what happens between consenting adults, as the apologists for street prostitution try and pretend. It is about protecting the vulnerable from preying adults - who don't give a $hit, once they get their rocks off. A nice stiff sentence, would quickly help them to refocus.

    But how do you define "duress"? How many people working in supermarkets, sewers, slaughterhouses are only doing it because they "need the money"? Moreover, making prostitution legal would remove most of the illegal coercion.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,579 ✭✭✭aare


    goose2005 wrote: »
    But how do you define "duress"? How many people working in supermarkets, sewers, slaughterhouses are only doing it because they "need the money"? Moreover, making prostitution legal would remove most of the illegal coercion.

    Like all the other, unpleasant, things (slaughterhouses is a good example, as was coal mining, once), particularly in times like these, the "duress" tends to be impending *destitution*...passive coercion...

    ...and I know that there are complete d*cks (a lot of them with Ruhama) who believe there is a magic, money tree out there if you can only be bothered to go out and garner from it. Along with a whole wide world full of Garda cleared, montessori trained, kindly neighbours who will mind the kids for 50 hours every week for half nothing while you are the lucky one in 200 who gets a job in Tesco or McDonalds.

    We have a great society, and one of the most flexible and compassionate welfare states in the world, but nothing is perfect. People slip through the cracks, and the further we get into recession, the more of them slip.

    Now, I agree, a guy who KNOWS all that, probably, does, AND SHOULD, feel like a rapist and stay away, but that doesn't pay the bills and keep the kids fed, which is probably a major factor in discouraging people caught in prostitution from shouting that particular truth from the rooftops.

    It makes me feel ill to see two reprehensible lobbies tearing the lives of people caught in prostitution apart between them like a couple of hounds with a hare:
    • A sanctimonious Ruhama based lobby who want to decriminalise prostitutes (because if they didn't at least do that they couldn't even pretend to have the support of the women any more) but make it impossible for those in protitution to go on making a living by criminalising the clients instead...the few clients still left (at least for a while) are liable to be into a dangerous and abusive kind of financial and sexual edgeplay, with a potential for absolute disaster. Ruhama claim to be "user lead", thus donning the latest fashion in "grant harvesting", but they are nothing of the sort. Most people actually *in* prostitution regard them as a hypocritical and harmful nuisance, but there Ruhama have the advantage, because very few people in prostitution can afford to identify themselves at all let alone just to set the record straight on the reality of their relationship with Ruhama or the validity of the statistics they pull out of thin air to suit themselves and justify their own existance and funding.
    • A stable of glorified pimps who want to see the most readily accessible forms of independent prostituion outlawed, and controlled prostitution legalised - also, very much, to suit themselves. Leading to a situation where active (rather than passive) coercion becomes far more common and harder to avoid

    What we need to do is stand down the penalties that obstruct and identify independent prostitutes in the '93 act (literally forcing them under the control of pimps), and pur in place the zoming that should have been established in '93 instead.

    A red light district is free, nightime security whether for people (which would *YOU* prefer? To be mistaken for a hooker for 5 minutes...or mugged?) or premises (trust me, people often go into prostitution because they are absent warm, fuzzy feeling about, far less personally invasive activities like theft and fraud. Free, safe and legal, they are no more going to stand and watch them happen than you would at home.

    ...and when that is established we do what we as a nation do best and avert our eyes and let them get on with preserving their lives, as we, as a nation, have failed to do, while they make their own way back to safety and the "vrai monde" without a stain on their characters.

    Ruhama's Government funding should be withdrawn and put into a fund for very sick children where it will be of more use than harm for a change.

    The other lobby should be diced and donated to the stray animals in our pounds, though I understand it would require further legislation to expedite this, I feel sure that will not be a problem. :D


  • Registered Users Posts: 736 ✭✭✭NewHillel


    goose2005 wrote: »
    But how do you define "duress"? How many people working in supermarkets, sewers, slaughterhouses are only doing it because they "need the money"? Moreover, making prostitution legal would remove most of the illegal coercion.

    For a definition of duress, check out my previous link.

    Thank you for acknowledging that illegal coercion is implicit in prostitution. If more people acknowledged this they might see why criminalising the punter is long overdue.

    It is disingenuous to compare prostitution with the occupations mentioned above. (Or maybe you have evidence of supermarkets trafficking in people to work in their checkouts?)

    There is a case to be made for legalising prostitution, in controlled environments. I would support this.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,579 ✭✭✭aare


    NewHillel wrote: »
    For a definition of duress, check out my previous link
    Thank you for acknowledging that illegal coercion is implicit in prostitution.

    Absolute rubbish...as a matter of hard fact "illegal coercion" was effectively unheard of prior to the '93 act, and though it increased significantly since AS A DIRECT RESULT OF THAT ACT is, in reality, at nowhere near the levels Ruhama claim.

    Criminalising prostitution in any way actually encourages illegal coercion.
    NewHillel wrote: »
    If more people acknowledged this they might see why criminalising the punter is long overdue.

    WHAT ON EARTH FOR?

    Let me tell you what would happen if you criminalise the customers.
    • The wealthy, organised pimps would find ways to circumvent that in order to increase both their market share and the coercive power they had over the women who work for them.
    • The more informal and personal pimps would try to "resolve the income deficit" by bullying their victim.
    • The independent prostitutes, usually already financially desperate, would suffer a devastating drop in income, be unable to pay bills, buy groceries and even lose the roofs over their (and their childrens) heads...and this being a recession they would have no other recourse left, because prostitution WAS the last resort.

    Oh yes, THAT would really solve the whole problem of coercion in prostitution. :rolleyes:

    If you want to solve the problem of illegal coercion in prostitution all you have to do is decriminalise it again, so that, once more, the women can call the guards for protection at the first sign of ANY form of active coercion.

    The only reason you legislate to zone prostitution is to avoid conflict with the wider society who, like you, haven't got the first clue about the harsh and irresolveable reality of it and mostly have too many problems of their own at present to be able to take that on board.
    NewHillel wrote: »
    It is disingenuous to compare prostitution with the occupations mentioned above.

    No it isn't, it seems fairly realistic to me...

    I am not going to sugarcoat it, prostitution is deeply unpleasant and emotionally distressing, but no more so than a lot of other things, if only for specific individuals inspecific circumstances...I can remember a close friend having to work in a slaughterhouse at minimum wage...and worse, because they did not "fit in" they were constantly bullied...it was a bloody nightmare that no-one should ever have to go through, but there was no other work available...THAT was easily as bad and damaging as prostitution.
    NewHillel wrote: »
    (Or maybe you have evidence of supermarkets trafficking in people to work in their checkouts?)

    Let us lose this fictional association between prostitution and "being trafficked" shall we?

    "Being trafficked" is actually quite rare. SWAI tried to come up with some real statistics last year to counter the Ruhama propaganda and, so far, couldn't actually find anyone who had been trafficked!

    But let's keep it real, in boom times people from poor countries are trafficked to rich countries, and not just for the purposes of prostitution, they wind up doing a lot of other unpleasant jobs for slave wages, in terrible conditions - but once the boom is over the opportunity to traffic people (usually willing migrants who have been mislead), and the profit in so doing dries up and it is over.
    NewHillel wrote: »
    There is a case to be made for legalising prostitution, in controlled environments. I would support this.

    I hope you don't mean as in "controlled by pimps", because, of course that is another way to eradicate illegal coercion...you simply legalise it.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 736 ✭✭✭NewHillel


    aare wrote: »

    I hope you don't mean as in "controlled by pimps", because, of course that is another way to eradicate illegal coercion...you simply legalise it.

    Yeah, right - is this the best you can do. Pathetic.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,579 ✭✭✭aare


    I get the point your trying to make and I agree that often people get driven into prostitution not because they want to but because they have to. But you seem to be presupposing (I think; correct me if I'm wrong) that the welfare system will solve these problems if the prostitutes stop their job and move onto benefits.

    Anyone who is driven to prostitution surely weighs up the fact they could go on the dole and get other benefits and decide that isn't a viable option. If it was the more attractive option, then people wouldn't be choosing prostitution over it. Meanwhile, we cannot afford to increase welfare options in this country at the moment. Making it further illegal won't encourage prostitutes to stop doing that job and look into welfare; if that was an option, surely they'd have taken it already.

    I think it should be legalised mainly because if it was, there'd be more room to protect people. It could be discussed then as well; thats the big problem imo. It's impossible to discuss this in a public forum as being pro-legalisation without exposing yourself to the social scorn and people thinking your a sick pervert or something...

    Very much earlier in the thread but what a brilliant, insightful, down to earth post...plugged into reality ALL THE WAY.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,579 ✭✭✭aare


    rodento wrote: »
    I always wondered what would happen to prositutes and their families if you suddenly cut off their bread line.

    Do people care that they'll be making people suffer even more

    Another superb and concise post.

    Don't get me wrong, I hate the idea of prostitution and find it hard to believe anyone could possibly want to do it, which rather tends to support the contention that most of the women who do it only do it because they have no other realistic choice (for what seems to be a variety of complex individual reasons, that could happen to anyone, but actually happened to them)...and cutting off that last resort will not, magically, give them other options.

    Cut off their lifeline, they drown.

    The chilling part is that it is absolutely impossible that organisations like Ruhama that have been dealing with women in prostitution for 25 years are totally unaware of this reality.

    They just do not care.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,579 ✭✭✭aare


    rodento wrote: »

    Now how can you protect someone by cutting off their income stream...

    I know it is old, but this is too good to waste too...that is just the bottom line here.

    YOU NEVER HELP OR EMPOWER ANYONE BY CUTTING OFF THEIR INCOME STREAM.

    There is also a sly, underlying message in this:

    That prostitutes are only selling sex because they were too lazy to find anything else...and if you take their incomes away they will HAVE to pull their socks up and get their fingers out...

    I cannot even find words to tell you how insulting and degrading that implication is.


  • Registered Users Posts: 17,797 ✭✭✭✭hatrickpatrick


    NewHillel wrote: »
    With respect, comparing soliciting sex with a prostitute to 'buying a computer' is "absolutely, mind blowingly ludicrous".

    Of course it is, which is why it's a good thing that's not what I was actually comparing. I was comparing the idea of criminalizing a customer based on the potential behaviour of an employer, when in fact it's those employers who should be prosecuted (and prosecuted to the absolute, harshest possible extent of the law, indeed)
    Equally, pretending that there are "employers", may make the punter feel more comfortable, but we all know that it is no more than a pretence.

    How so? Elaborate?

    [qupte]It is well past time to call a spade a spade, and call it as it is. The Gardai and the authorities, have got this one spot on. If nothing else, it wil remove all the bravado from what is a murky, totally unsavoury business.[/quote]

    Why not make it less murky and unsavoury? If it didn't have to hide underground then it might not be, perhaps? How about creating a respectable, legitimate avenue for it, and then coming down doubly hard on the murky, unsavoury avenues?
    Whether it is 1% or 50% of prostitutes that are working under duress, doesn't really matter. How is the punter to know which ones are, and which ones aren't? He can't!

    So again, because some people are forced into it that means the people who do it of their own free will should be considered criminals, as should their customers? Sounds like a typically Irish solution to me, ban something altogether instead of putting in the work to regulate it. Shouldn't surprise me I suppose. But I put it to you that in this case it's a lot more serious. Prostitution will always happen whether it's illegal or not, and if you accept that basic reality then surely you must see that trying to make it as safe and dignified as possible is far more important than enforcing some sort of uniform zero tolerance policy which will never, ever actually work?
    This is not a debate about what happens between consenting adults, as the apologists for street prostitution try and pretend. It is about protecting the vulnerable from preying adults - who don't give a $hit, once they get their rocks off. A nice stiff sentence, would quickly help them to refocus.

    Ah, so then by extension are you saying that when it IS between consenting adults it's perfectly ok then? And you're ok with jailing people who have not harmed anyone, just because in other cases other people might have?

    Uniform, one glove fits all policies in cases like this simply don't work. Criminalizing victimless behaviour in order to supplement criminalizing a real crime only causes more problems than it solves, as history has repeatedly shown us time and again.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,728 ✭✭✭rodento




  • Registered Users Posts: 1,476 ✭✭✭sarkozy


    I heard this woman's interview on Finucane yesterday. I do not believe she represents the norm. I don't believe she's setting out to normalise prostitution but her memoir will no doubt present an image of 'escorting' as a means of income that is economically lucrative, physically safe and psychologically non-damaging.

    The reality even of the off-street 'escort' business is very different. Domination by criminal gangs, threats of or actually physical violence, psychological scarring, etc.

    This said, it's very important we can discuss this issue openly and calmly.


  • Registered Users Posts: 4,798 ✭✭✭goose2005


    NewHillel wrote: »
    With respect, comparing soliciting sex with a prostitute to 'buying a computer' is "absolutely, mind blowingly ludicrous". Equally, pretending that there are "employers", may make the punter feel more comfortable, but we all know that it is no more than a pretence.

    It is well past time to call a spade a spade, and call it as it is. The Gardai and the authorities, have got this one spot on. If nothing else, it wil remove all the bravado from what is a murky, totally unsavoury business. Whether it is 1% or 50% of prostitutes that are working under duress, doesn't really matter. How is the punter to know which ones are, and which ones aren't? He can't!

    This is not a debate about what happens between consenting adults, as the apologists for street prostitution try and pretend. It is about protecting the vulnerable from preying adults - who don't give a $hit, once they get their rocks off. A nice stiff sentence, would quickly help them to refocus.
    But one could apply exactly the same logic to agency cleaners - you don't know if the cleaner you hire has had her passport confiscated by the boss and is only being paid €2 an hour - are you just as responsible as the head of the cleaning company? Should all cleaning companies be made illegal if a few workers in the industry turn out to be exploited?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 134 ✭✭Eileen_Lang


    rodento wrote: »

    Just read that article, and, once again, you have a load of people who have never been prostitutes cheerfully, and cluelessly, contradicting the statements of someone who, at least apparently, has...with a predictable, sly, shot at invalidating her through her essential anonymity...when they know, as well as I do, that BECAUSE of the stigma they are at pains to subtly enhance to suit their own agenda, if a person in prostitution speaks out, under their own name, all normal life is over, for not only them, but their children. and families.

    There is ample reason to believe that the same organisations are trying to to prevent anonymous submissions to the Department of Justice on the proposals for a new law using exactly that rationale, knowing, that, in so doing, they will effectively block the vast majority of people in prostitution from having a say at all...except through whatever statements they choose to attribute to them (as usual :rolleyes:)

    I found out recently that the Immigrant Council of Ireland is controlled by the same order of nuns (Siters of Charity) that once controlled several Magdalene Laundries, and still control half of Ruhama (The other half is controlled by the Good Shepherd Sisters who controlled more magdalene laundries, including the last one, in Waterford, that didn't close until 1996, 7 years after Ruhama was founded).

    How inappropriate is that?

    As for the book, I am never exactly thrilled to bits with "Happy Hooker" memoirs...whenever I know the writer, or their background, personally they really do seem to be veering to a remarkable distance from the facts, but that is what sells.

    I will have to reserve judgement until I have read it. I do not like the publicity shots...but on the other hand, they sell books, and who knows but the author, in real life, has a straight choice between selling the book and having to go on selling sex?

    But of course, hookers do not have to be happy in their work to find increased legal persecution and the destruction of their capacity to earn, in a deep recession, distinctly unhelpful, if not down right destructive.

    If you want to know what someone who has really been a prostitute actually thinks of prostitution, this proposed legislation, and the organisations involved please visit this website http://www.stop-the-lights.com (no X rated or commercial content whatsoever, but not, in my opinion, suitable for under 18s)


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,355 ✭✭✭Belfast


    "A discussion document on the possibility of such legislation criminalising the purchase of sex will be issued by the end of the month, according to the Department of Justice.

    Although it is an offence to solicit prostitution in a public place, it is not an offence to sell or purchase sex, except in the case where someone knowingly solicits a person who has been trafficked for the purpose of prostitution."

    "A group including representatives of the Department of Justice and gardaí travelled to Sweden last September to meet officials and experts to examine 1999 Swedish legislation which provides that a person who obtains or attempts to obtain a casual sexual relation, in any place, in return for payment commits an offence.

    A report on the visit was published by the department at which time Minister for Justice Alan Shatter said a consultation document would be prepared to inform future legislation in this area."

    http://www.irishtimes.com/newspaper/ireland/2012/0123/1224310626760.html

    if we are going to ban prostitution why?

    Or will it be another "Pious aspiration" law like it is illegal to cycle on footpaths. Once it is banned we can say put in our normal token effort to enforce it.

    How many more laws are we going to pass the in Dáil that we are not will or able to enforce.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,630 ✭✭✭RichardAnd


    I would have thought it already was illegal. In either case, prostitution is just like drugs, illegal or nay, it will always happen.


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,678 ✭✭✭Crooked Jack


    I honestly think that when it comes to the likes of prostitution and drugs they should just be legalised, regulated and taxed. Criminalising them only creates a new revenue stream for criminal gangs and doesnt do anything to stop them from happening.
    At least if they're legalised they can be controlled, the people involved in them can be better cared for and the state can benefit from some of the proceeds.
    look at Amsterdam, one of the most modern, prosperous cities in Europe. Relaxed drug laws, regulated prostitution and yet it hasnt descended into a den of iniquity.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,630 ✭✭✭RichardAnd


    I honestly think that when it comes to the likes of prostitution and drugs they should just be legalised, regulated and taxed. Criminalising them only creates a new revenue stream for criminal gangs and doesnt do anything to stop them from happening.
    At least if they're legalised they can be controlled, the people involved in them can be better cared for and the state can benefit from some of the proceeds.
    look at Amsterdam, one of the most modern, prosperous cities in Europe. Relaxed drug laws, regulated prostitution and yet it hasnt descended into a den of iniquity.


    It's a good point. If people are foolish enough to part with good money for the sake of such time consuming distractions as sex and drugs, I suppose it would be possible to shut down the crime bosses by legalising their trade. However, having known a girl who worked legally as a prostitute in Europe, I wouldn't recommend it as a career to any girl in a million years.


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,678 ✭✭✭Crooked Jack


    I see your point but i imagine working as an illegal one would be much worse.


  • Registered Users Posts: 3,630 ✭✭✭RichardAnd


    Illegal would be worse alright. Legalising it however, might have the added drawback of glamorising it somewhat. If girls see it as a legal means of gaining income, some might allow themselves to get involved without fully understanding what they're getting themselves into. That's what happened to the woman I knew and she was affected by the experiences for years after she left the sex industry.


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  • Registered Users Posts: 5,678 ✭✭✭Crooked Jack


    yeah id say it's an industry full of horror stories. Legalisation is by no means the perfect solution i just think its preferable to girls in back alleys getting beaten by pimps, catching god knows what, facing multiple rapes in a day, underage girls getting involved and of course the horror of human trafficking, a modern form of slavery.
    Of course legalisation probably wouldnt end all that but if it would even put a dent in it it would be worth it.


  • Registered Users Posts: 8,934 ✭✭✭20Cent


    Good idea going after the purchasers, publish photo's while they are at it.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,355 ✭✭✭Belfast


    I was talking prostitution in a private place where it is legal now.
    No sure why whey would let you in to take photographs.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,355 ✭✭✭Belfast


    yeah id say it's an industry full of horror stories. Legalisation is by no means the perfect solution i just think its preferable to girls in back alleys getting beaten by pimps, catching god knows what, facing multiple rapes in a day, underage girls getting involved and of course the horror of human trafficking, a modern form of slavery.
    Of course legalisation probably wouldnt end all that but if it would even put a dent in it it would be worth it.

    Why do they call it "human trafficking"? Why not just call it slavery?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,700 ✭✭✭irishh_bob


    RichardAnd wrote: »
    Illegal would be worse alright. Legalising it however, might have the added drawback of glamorising it somewhat. If girls see it as a legal means of gaining income, some might allow themselves to get involved without fully understanding what they're getting themselves into. That's what happened to the woman I knew and she was affected by the experiences for years after she left the sex industry.

    completley agree , you could legalise everything and anything but that wouldnt reduce the impact on people , prostitution is IMO something that should never be legitimised under any circumstances


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Politics Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 81,309 CMod ✭✭✭✭coffee_cake


    merging to existing thread


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,678 ✭✭✭Crooked Jack


    irishh_bob wrote: »
    completley agree , you could legalise everything and anything but that wouldnt reduce the impact on people , prostitution is IMO something that should never be legitimised under any circumstances

    I was only making the point that if it was legalised it could be regulated. You could put certain laws in place to ensure people's lives arent put in jeopardy. Security, screening, testing etc...
    It would also take it out of the hands of criminals, which would have the twofold effect of removing a revenue stream from organised criminals and benefiting the state in the form or taxation.
    Like i said it wouldnt solve the problem completely, but as you said yourself, it's about the impact on the individual, so if it helped even one person it would be worth it.


  • Registered Users Posts: 1,211 ✭✭✭gaffer91


    This thread has been done to death now and I'm pleased to see the majority of people have their head screwed on and realise it should be legalised.

    Same as any other 'vice' industry (drink, fags, drugs, gambling) the sensible thing to do would be to legalise and let people who are opposed to it just not partake in it.


  • Registered Users Posts: 6,166 ✭✭✭Stereomaniac


    Yes, but it needs to be legalised properly, so as "to protect the kids" :)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,700 ✭✭✭irishh_bob


    gaffer91 wrote: »
    This thread has been done to death now and I'm pleased to see the majority of people have their head screwed on and realise it should be legalised.

    Same as any other 'vice' industry (drink, fags, drugs, gambling) the sensible thing to do would be to legalise and let people who are opposed to it just not partake in it.

    i dont think legalising it will reduce the impact on those forced to engage in prostitution , according to gardai , the number of women in the sex business who are the victims of crime is extremley low but that doesnt in anyway negate the other effects


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