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Six year old left 'Home Alone with Monster Munch & Flat Screen TV'

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,572 ✭✭✭✭brummytom


    Oh, and anyone named Shekinha should be taken off their parents anyway


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 559 ✭✭✭danger mouse


    brummytom wrote: »
    Oh, and anyone named Shekinha should be taken off their parents anyway

    Yeah social workers love these kinds of threads!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,725 ✭✭✭charlemont


    Sick bitch, That's absolutely scandalous to do to any child. If you can't or don't want to look after a child then use some contraception.:mad:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,669 ✭✭✭Riddle101


    Reading that, article my opinion at about what happened was very much the same as everyone else. Angry at the mother and sad for the child.


    However I just want to draw attention to the bit at the end of the article where it says the mom was in a domestic violence refuge and just shut down. Makes me wonder if maybe the woman isn't in the right state of mine and needs help as well. I'd just like to get the full story about the mother and her backround before I judge tbh.

    Still though, it's really shocking and sad.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,923 ✭✭✭pappyodaniel


    KEVIN!!!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 750 ✭✭✭Mr.Biscuits


    Riddle101 wrote: »
    I'd just like to get the full story about the mother and her backround before I judge tbh.

    Yeah, none of the articles on it really go into much detail in that regard, this one is about the best of 'em:
    Natalie Terry, 28, abandoned her daughter for almost a week in the dirty and animal faeces- covered flat in Dartford, Kent, with just a flat-screen television for company and some bags of crisps.
    The cold and terrified child eventually knocked on a neighbour’s door, sobbing hysterically and shaking, and told them: ‘Mum has left me five days and has not come back.’
    When Terry was arrested on her return, she simply told police: ‘I neglected my daughter. End of.’
    At Maidstone crown court, judge Martin Joy jailed the mother for 18 months.
    He told Terry she had subjected her daughter to fear and distress for a ‘considerable time’ during the girl’s ordeal between November 2 and 6, 2010.
    ‘She was living in utterly insanitary conditions,’ he said.
    The girl told police she dressed for school and waited for her mother to come home but, when she did not return, she took off her uniform and watched television.
    She survived by eating Monster Munch and yoghurt, and drinking water.
    Prosecutor Peter Forbes said: ‘She said, when she realised she was on her own, it made her feel sad,’ though he added the girl had not been locked in.
    Officers who entered the flat found it had been left extremely cold, with no carpets and very little furniture. The only luxury item was a flat-screen TV.
    A kitten had left filth in every room and the kitchen was dirty.
    The child, now eight, was taken into care and then placed with her grandmother. Terry admitted child cruelty.
    Her lawyer, Trevor Wright, said she ‘withdrew and shut down’ while struggling with overwhelming money problems following a violent relationship.
    ‘It is difficult for me to convey the depth of her emotional regret,’ he added.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,453 ✭✭✭Shenshen


    What happened to the poor kitten?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 741 ✭✭✭Stripey Cat


    Your parents left you alone in the house for two days when you were eleven?

    Where were they?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 750 ✭✭✭Mr.Biscuits


    Your parents left you alone in the house for two days when you were eleven?

    Where were they?

    Two days, one night and my mom was having my little bro.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Riddle101 wrote: »
    I just want to draw attention to the bit at the end of the article where it says the mom was in a domestic violence refuge and just shut down. Makes me wonder if maybe the woman isn't in the right state of mine and needs help as well. I'd just like to get the full story about the mother and her backround before I judge tbh.
    Still a **** for doing it though, even if she needed help.
    Five days, no proper food, no warning beforehand, no request to neighbours to keep an eye on the little girl, nothing.

    What a bitch.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,511 ✭✭✭Outkast_IRE


    Shenshen wrote: »
    What happened to the poor kitten?
    It ate a bag of monster munch and lived happily ever after


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,173 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    Two days, one night and my mom was having my little bro.
    I'll be perfectly honest; that doesn't sound all that crazy for an eleven-year-old with their head screwed on.

    The least desirable option sure, but in a pinch (such as having to rush into hospital with no-one around to look after the child) my main concern would be that the 11 year old wouldn't get to sleep either because they've OD'ed on coffee or because they're scared out of their wits.

    I wouldn't be that concerned for their safety. 11 year olds aren't stupid. I was using the cooker from the age of 8 FFS, heating up milk and boiling eggs.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 741 ✭✭✭Stripey Cat


    Dudess wrote: »
    Still a **** for doing it though, even if she needed help.
    Five days, no proper food, no warning beforehand, no request to neighbours to keep an eye on the little girl, nothing.

    What a bitch.

    Sounds like she had a breakdown.

    Total remorse, no chance she will do it again, what sounds like mitigating circumstances.

    Seems crazy to lock her up and splash her name all over a rag like the Sun.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Where's the total remorse and guarantee she'll never do it again?
    True about the Sun thing, but I think she should get the help she needs before getting the green light to care for her child again. Yeah I agree just locking her up end of won't solve anything - but hopefully she'll get psychiatric care there, or at least counselling and medication, for her child's sake especially.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,933 ✭✭✭Logical Fallacy


    Sounds like she had a breakdown.

    Agreed. As such, definitely not a suitable time to be looking after a young child.
    Total remorse

    Don't know about that...didn't see anything in the article to make me think such.
    no chance she will do it again, what sounds like mitigating circumstances.

    Definitely didn't see anything to make me think it wouldn't happen again.
    Seems crazy to lock her up and splash her name all over a rag like the Sun.

    Agreed, if she did in fact suffer an emotional breakdown then she certainly won't get the help she needs in the prison system.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 604 ✭✭✭tempura


    seamus wrote: »
    I'll be perfectly honest; that doesn't sound all that crazy for an eleven-year-old with their head screwed on.

    The least desirable option sure, but in a pinch (such as having to rush into hospital with no-one around to look after the child) my main concern would be that the 11 year old wouldn't get to sleep either because they've OD'ed on coffee or because they're scared out of their wits.

    I wouldn't be that concerned for their safety. 11 year olds aren't stupid. I was using the cooker from the age of 8 FFS, heating up milk and boiling eggs.

    Oh were you now ? And did you wash the pots and tidy up after yourself, well, did ya, you scallywag !;)


  • Posts: 81,308 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Corey Fat Doughnut


    okay obviously this was all wrong and neglectful etc

    but um, what's wrong with drinking water? should she have been fed coke? :confused:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,012 ✭✭✭kincsem


    Flat screen TV

    < 21" cruelty
    > 35" good parenting


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,420 ✭✭✭Lollipops23


    Riddle101 wrote: »


    However I just want to draw attention to the bit at the end of the article where it says the mom was in a domestic violence refuge and just shut down. Makes me wonder if maybe the woman isn't in the right state of mine and needs help as well. I'd just like to get the full story about the mother and her backround before I judge tbh.

    That jumped out at me too. She never should have left her child on her own, but it does sound like she simply wasn't coping and cracked. It really doesn't sound like she did it maliciously, and it probably would have said if she'd been out on the tiles during the time the kid was alone.

    Hope she gets the help she needs and the little girl gets a stable and secure home life.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,497 ✭✭✭billybudd


    That jumped out at me too. She never should have left her child on her own, but it does sound like she simply wasn't coping and cracked. It really doesn't sound like she did it maliciously, and it probably would have said if she'd been out on the tiles during the time the kid was alone.

    Hope she gets the help she needs and the little girl gets a stable and secure home life.


    She is obviously not a well woman but if she were that bad she would have been in hospital not returning after five days and having the awareness to ask neighbours where her daughter was.

    Another thing its a bit shameful that neighbours now mind their own business out of fear of reprisal or aggro or being called nosey etc than keep an eye on whats happening with certain families.

    All in all am not that shocked, some English council housing estates and areas make our ones look like the promised land.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,910 ✭✭✭OneArt


    I was left home alone when I was kid although the maid was there so I don't think it counted...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,976 ✭✭✭Brendog


    I'm not condoning what she did, but at least the kid had food.

    plenty of cases where the parents leave the kid with literally nothing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,488 ✭✭✭celtictiger32


    Just two days, but I had BMX Bandits, The Goonies and Gremlins on pirate VHS to watch and tons of Commodore 64 games to play.

    To this day I doubt anyone could beat me at Pitstop.
    :D

    i could i just havent got 4 hours to spend loading it
    Downlinz wrote: »
    I dont get the significance of the TV in this story.

    she was left alone with one
    finbarrk wrote: »
    What's yurt?

    its yoghurt without the OGH additives


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,706 ✭✭✭120_Minutes


    sparsely furnished, but 42" inch flat screen

    Priorites.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 34,567 ✭✭✭✭Biggins


    A very sad and depressing case.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,992 ✭✭✭✭partyatmygaff


    zuroph wrote: »
    It was flat screen.
    It wouldn't have been so bad if it was HD.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 323 ✭✭Underdraft


    Shekinha!!

    Yeah, now I can see why John Hughes picked a simpler name.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,310 ✭✭✭✭the_syco


    Johro wrote: »
    He argued the public interest in knowing the full background to the case outweighed the need to maintain the child's anonymity. And Judge Joy agreed.'
    Because of this, the child will probably be bullied about this for years to come. Because of this, the reporter is a complete and utter arséhole!
    Riddle101 wrote: »
    I'd just like to get the full story
    The sun doesn't do "full stories", it only does "witch hunts". But I agree, and it seems the mother is f**ked in the head, and didn't know how to cope.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,651 ✭✭✭✭El Weirdo


    Terrible story on the face of it and with the information provided...

    ...but can someone please tell me why the following, bolded word needed to be included?
    Scared six-year-old Shekinha Terry was abandoned in a freezing, scruffy council house covered in cat mess.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,310 ✭✭✭✭the_syco


    El Weirdo wrote: »
    ...but can someone please tell me why the following, bolded word needed to be included?
    It's the Sun.


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