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Ever gotten revenge on your bullies?

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  • #62
    astonaidan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,456 ✭✭✭astonaidan


    Well when I was in secondary school up till 3rd year when they left school I was picked on by a group of lads, One more so than the rest, The thing is I would never back down to them and that pissed them off, The leader of the muppets stole a cheque book of a teacher and put my name on it but got caught and had to go to therapy over it, He got away with it cause of his parents seperating, But he left school so I didnt care, I saw him about 3 years later in the shop I worked and he came in with a big dickhead smile on him showing he still hadnt grown up but I had a "Lovely to see you richard" for him, The funny thing he thought I was still the same 3rd year he had last seen, Sadly he died in an accident which even when he was bullying me i wouldnt have wished on him, Then there was this other guy in the group who I played soccer with, I had tried to get on with him but he just kept saying stuff which at first I laughed off, He then tried to break my leg in a tackle when I calmly told him if he does it again itll be his last, next time i got the ball same thing when i got up he was there with a smile on his face, I walked up and decked him and just kept hitting him took 4 lads to stop it, But it was the same thing he thought I was the same person he had known in 3rd year, The 3rd person was one of the lads playing that day and realised I would flake him had he tried, The fourth person was part of that gang but he grew up and I talk to him now so much that when the 2nd guy tried to get back at me with aload of his friends him and his brother sided with me, Like I would never hold a grudge I tried they didnt so why should i bother with people who want to stay like its still secondary school


  • #63
    padd b1975
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,910 ✭✭✭✭padd b1975


    Show Time wrote: »
    Sitting across a desk two weeks before Christmas i encounter a lad who made my life hell in School but the lad did not remember me(He always was a bit slow)and proceeded to give me the whole sob story out of work a few years three kids wife up the duff with another one. I nodded and smile away and then just as he was walking out the door i reminded him of a hammering himself and a few of his buddies handed out to me when i was 14. The look on his face when i informed him he would have to give his brats a social welfare Christmas made my year.:D
    Cold as ice.
    Like it.


  • #64
    theg81der
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,644 ✭✭✭theg81der


    No revenge just grew up and realised their bad behaviour came from somewhere. Your can`t tell what other people go through in life and I don`t think wishing bad luck ont hem will bring me any closer to happiness.


  • #65
    theg81der
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,644 ✭✭✭theg81der


    Carter P Fly wrote: »
    Apparently such thoughts arent healthy, but hey, The practice hookers went well.

    Not funny!


  • #66
    theg81der
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,644 ✭✭✭theg81der


    Show Time wrote: »
    The look on his face when i informed him he would have to give his brats a social welfare Christmas made my year.:D

    Hardly his kids fault who their dad is, is it?!!


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  • #67
    MoonDancer
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 706 ✭✭✭MoonDancer


    theg81der wrote: »
    No revenge just grew up and realised their bad behaviour came from somewhere. Your can`t tell what other people go through in life and I don`t think wishing bad luck ont hem will bring me any closer to happiness.

    While I see where you're coming from, but I don't see it being used as an excuse. Plenty of people have gone through a rough time and they didn't torment people and make their lives a living hell.


  • #68
    Show Time
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,637 ✭✭✭Show Time


    padd b1975 wrote: »
    Cold as ice.
    Like it.
    Best way to dish it out.


  • #69
    Jemmy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,385 ✭✭✭Jemmy


    Many moons ago...a girl on my school bus was a right cow, always giving ppl hassle. She threw a big lump of chewing gum into the back of my hair one day, I had a bottle of nice sticky club orange walked down the back dumped the whole bottle over her long blonde haired head and just turned to walk away but the best part was when she ran after me to knock my head off me she slipped in it and fell back flat on her arse! :p Very funny looking back to see everyone laughing at her, well deserved & noone had any trouble from her after that!


  • #70
    RichieC
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,331 ✭✭✭RichieC


    I was never bullied but if i was here's what Id do.

    Scott tenerman.


  • #71
    checkcheek
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 223 ✭✭checkcheek


    i was bullied a while ago by ago, it wasnt bad just annoying, then i ended up giving him a bj. so the tide kinda turned and he was pretty sound


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  • #72
    ROCKMAN
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,246 ✭✭✭ROCKMAN


    Show Time wrote: »
    Sitting across a desk two weeks before Christmas i encounter a lad who made my life hell in School but the lad did not remember me(He always was a bit slow)and proceeded to give me the whole sob story out of work a few years three kids wife up the duff with another one. I nodded and smile away and then just as he was walking out the door i reminded him of a hammering himself and a few of his buddies handed out to me when i was 14. The look on his face when i informed him he would have to give his brats a social welfare Christmas made my year.:D

    If Karma has anything to do with it ,
    You'll meet him again ,He'll kick the s**t out of you again ,
    Feeling proud of making Kids suffer at Christmas Well done :rolleyes:
    A little bit of power and you have become the bully ,

    maybe some people deserved a few slaps in school ......


  • #73
    ItsAWindUp
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,325 ✭✭✭ItsAWindUp


    Show Time wrote: »
    Sitting across a desk two weeks before Christmas i encounter a lad who made my life hell in School but the lad did not remember me(He always was a bit slow)and proceeded to give me the whole sob story out of work a few years three kids wife up the duff with another one. I nodded and smile away and then just as he was walking out the door i reminded him of a hammering himself and a few of his buddies handed out to me when i was 14. The look on his face when i informed him he would have to give his brats a social welfare Christmas made my year.:D

    What, he gave you a beating years, probably decades ago, and you take pleasure in the fact that his kids are going to have a bad Christmas?:confused:


  • #74
    jonnyfingers
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,333 ✭✭✭jonnyfingers


    checkcheek wrote: »
    i was bullied a while ago by ago, it wasnt bad just annoying, then i ended up giving him a bj. so the tide kinda turned and he was pretty sound

    Wait. Does bullying girls get you blowjobs?

    It really doesn't pay to be a nice guy. :(


  • #75
    Cantona's Collars
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,709 ✭✭✭✭Cantona's Collars


    Never really got bullied,3 lads tried picking on me when I was in school,I hammered the shit out of one of them and got a few clouts at the other two one day.Guess who got into trouble for picking on the poor innocent boys who wouldn't pick on anyone:rolleyes: because their parents were on the school board??

    They never came near me again after that though.


  • #76
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 3,598 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    ItsAWindUp wrote: »
    What, he gave you a beating years, probably decades ago, and you take pleasure in the fact that his kids are going to have a bad Christmas?:confused:

    Yeah sins of the father and that.

    Could have employed him and made his working life a living hell.


  • #77
    padd b1975
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,910 ✭✭✭✭padd b1975


    ROCKMAN wrote: »
    If Karma has anything to do with it ,
    You'll meet him again ,He'll kick the s**t out of you again ,
    Feeling proud of making Kids suffer at Christmas Well done :rolleyes:
    A little bit of power and you have become the bully ,

    maybe some people deserved a few slaps in school ......
    The only reason the children are suffering at Christmas is because their father was too busy beating the crap out of those physically weaker than him instead of getting a good education.

    From reading Showtime's post, I think he acted professionally and showed admirable restraint in the circumstances.


  • #78
    Galtee
    Closed Accounts Posts: 577 ✭✭✭Galtee


    padd b1975 wrote: »
    The only reason the children are suffering at Christmas is because their father was too busy beating the crap out of those physically weaker than him instead of getting a good education.

    From reading Showtime's post, I think he acted professionally and showed admirable restraint in the circumstances.

    :eek: WTF? :eek: Telling him after what I can only assume as implied was an interview that he'll be giving his kids a welfare christmas and you think that's professional? Professional would have been to leave the man with his dignity regardless of what happened x years ago. I know you won't get that though.


  • #79
    getz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,255 ✭✭✭getz


    from the age of five i would take my son to my karate club,by the time he was 11 years old he was rather good at it,we moved house from south manchester to bury[ greater manchester],so he had to change schools, within a week i was called in to see the schools headmaster,he was rather apologetic but he had had complaints from the parents of two 14 year olds about my son,it seems that those two had a record of bullying the newer kids,and decided to put my sons head down the toilet,even though they did not manage it,would i tell my son ; next time not to be kicking them in the head as he broke one lads nose,


  • #80
    ItsAWindUp
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,325 ✭✭✭ItsAWindUp


    getz wrote: »
    from the age of five i would take my son to my karate club,by the time he was 11 years old he was rather good at it,we moved house from south manchester to bury[ greater manchester],so he had to change schools, within a week i was called in to see the schools headmaster,he was rather apologetic but he had had complaints from the parents of two 14 year olds about my son,it seems that those two had a record of bullying the newer kids,and decided to put my sons head down the toilet,even though they did not manage it,would i tell my son ; next time not to be kicking them in the head as he broke one lads nose,

    Fair play to your young lad! The parents had some neck to complain!


  • #81
    getz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,255 ✭✭✭getz


    ItsAWindUp wrote: »
    Fair play to your young lad! The parents had some neck to complain!
    this is going back 28 years ago , the martial arts were were not as well known as they are now,


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  • #82
    padd b1975
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,910 ✭✭✭✭padd b1975


    Galtee wrote: »
    :eek: WTF? :eek: Telling him after what I can only assume as implied was an interview that he'll be giving his kids a welfare christmas and you think that's professional? Professional would have been to leave the man with his dignity regardless of what happened x years ago. I know you won't get that though.
    Life can sometimes be a bitch.
    I get that.
    And now Daddy dearest the bully has learned a valuable lesson.
    A win win situation all round.


  • #83
    mrsdewinter
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,215 ✭✭✭mrsdewinter


    Galtee wrote: »
    :eek: WTF? :eek: Telling him after what I can only assume as implied was an interview that he'll be giving his kids a welfare christmas and you think that's professional? Professional would have been to leave the man with his dignity regardless of what happened x years ago

    Er, I think padd b1975 is joking. . . Right?


  • #84
    padd b1975
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,910 ✭✭✭✭padd b1975


    mrsdewinter wrote: »
    Er, I think padd b1975 is joking. . . Right?
    Actions cause reactions.


  • #85
    Dudess
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    saywhatyousee wrote: »
    No bullying ever went on at my school taught it was more of a US/UK thing?
    Surely you're aware bullying is universal?


  • #86
    Sky King
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,431 ✭✭✭Sky King


    Indeed. It takes place throughout the universe.


  • #87
    Dudess
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Sky King wrote: »
    Indeed. It takes place throughout the universe.
    Look at that horrible Darth Vader for example.


  • #88
    mikemac1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,395 ✭✭✭✭mikemac1


    Best revenge is living well

    Too many posts about karma in this thread
    Karma is a crutch and does not exist. Nice people do get walked over and ruthless people do get ahead oftentimes
    If you want something to happen it's up to you to get it done


  • #89
    Dudess
    Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Show Time wrote: »
    Sitting across a desk two weeks before Christmas i encounter a lad who made my life hell in School but the lad did not remember me(He always was a bit slow)and proceeded to give me the whole sob story out of work a few years three kids wife up the duff with another one. I nodded and smile away and then just as he was walking out the door i reminded him of a hammering himself and a few of his buddies handed out to me when i was 14. The look on his face when i informed him he would have to give his brats a social welfare Christmas made my year.:D
    Wow. Some people become as bad as, if not worse than, the bully.

    Standing up to a bully to the point that they back off is brilliant, including giving them a hiding if they're the physical bullying type. Holding your head high and making a good life for yourself rather than being beaten down - brilliant.
    But twisted revenge years later that could damage innocent parties? Get help.


  • #90
    az2wp0sye65487
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,931 ✭✭✭az2wp0sye65487


    MoonDancer wrote: »
    Yeah, or get him pregnant with my baby, she would hate that!

    :confused::confused::confused:
    checkcheek wrote: »
    i was bullied a while ago by ago, it wasnt bad just annoying, then i ended up giving him a bj. so the tide kinda turned and he was pretty sound

    How was that the tide turning? - and why would you want anything to do with someone who bullied you?


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  • #91
    Sarky
    Closed Accounts Posts: 31,967 ✭✭✭✭Sarky


    I was bullied in school for generally being good at school. I generally ignored it.

    15-20 years on, most of those once-bullies now wait tables or pack grocery bags in the small town where they grew up.

    Sometimes I feel vaguely sorry for them. Usually around Christmas, when I travel home to see my parents and sometimes end up seeing them across the counter/till. Then I forget them for another year.

    I don't need revenge. They sabotaged their own lives.


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