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Am I Irish?

  • 29-11-2011 10:55PM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47


    I was born in the UK to an Irish Father and an English Mother, who happened to be half German.

    I grew up a Catholic and went to catholic school and all of my friends, without exception, are of Irish decent, many of whom refer to Ireland as "home" in spite on never living there.

    Unconciously, my indentity was heavily influenced by the Irish culture, and eventually I married a "real" Irish person from Cork and I now live in Ireland albeit for 5 years, which only represents an eighth of my entire life.

    I never read Peig at school but I now speak the Irish language better than most Irish people. I have an Irish passport, but I do not know the words to the National Anthem (yet). I have an Irish name, but I do not look Irish.

    I don't feel Irish, but I don't feel English. But I've never felt anything other than the way that I feel, so I don't really have any reference points.

    Am I Irish? Or to put it another way...an Eirinneach me?


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Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,565 ✭✭✭losthorizon


    I hate when people equate Catholic with Irishness. Not the same thing at all at all. It shouldnt even be mentioned in the debate IMO.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 58 ✭✭MiseryCat


    steveod wrote: »
    I was born in the UK to an Irish Father and an English Mother, who happened to be half German.

    I grew up a Catholic and went to catholic school and all of my friends, without exception, are of Irish decent, many of whom refer to Ireland as "home" in spite on never living there.

    Unconciously, my indentity was heavily influenced by the Irish culture, and eventually I married a "real" Irish person from Cork and I now live in Ireland albeit for 5 years, which only represents an eighth of my entire life.

    I never read Peig at school but I now speak the Irish language better than most Irish people. I have an Irish passport, but I do not know the words to the National Anthem (yet). I have an Irish name, but I do not look Irish.

    I don't feel Irish, but I don't feel English. But I've never felt anything other than the way that I feel, so I don't really have any reference points.

    Am I Irish? Or to put it another way...an Eirinneach me?


    Your nationality is English because your born in the uk But you have Irish citizenship because you married Irish woman form cork ,you go by your birth cert.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47 steveod


    losthorizon"I hate when people equate Catholic with Irishness. Not the same thing at all at all. It shouldnt even be mentioned in the debate IMO." (I can't work out this quote malarky)

    Oh, I disagree entirely; it's wholly relevant, especially in the context of growing up in the UK.

    If not, can you explain why RTÉ the national television broadcaster insists on playing the Angelus at six o'clock if Catholicism is not in some way connected to Irishness?

    I'm not suggesting that all Irish are Catholic, but most are, and nor am I suggesting that that it's Catholicism that makes a person Irish, but if I'd have gone to a CoE school for example, I don't think I would even need to make this post.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47 steveod


    steveod wrote: »

    I'm not suggesting that all Irish are Catholic, but most are, and nor am I suggesting that that it's Catholicism that makes a person Irish, but if I'd have gone to a CoE school for example, I don't think I would even need to make this post.

    To qualify: all the chaps at my (catholic) school, without exception, were of Irish decent.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47 steveod


    MiseryCat wrote: »
    Your nationality is English because your born in the uk But you have Irish citizenship because you married Irish woman form cork ,you go by your birth cert.

    No: I have Irish citizenship because the state recognises me as an Irish citizen and regardless of my marital state. I am of Irish decent.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,368 ✭✭✭Prop Joe


    You are Irish born in a different country..And going to Catholic school in England is a statement of being a Paddy..Welcome Home Brother..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 516 ✭✭✭Frowzy


    1. I speak English - it doesn't make me English

    2. Being Catholic doesn't make you Irish, could make you Italian tho!!! :)

    3. Your father is Irish so you can apply for citizenship, I don't know about whether or not your marriage qualifies....

    4. Sorry but it has to be said.....
    steveod wrote: »
    all the chaps at my (catholic) school

    ........ CHAPS? ......... Definitely British!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,915 ✭✭✭MungBean


    You were born and grew up in England but dont feel English. You have an Irish father, and are influenced by Irish culture but dont feel Irish.

    If you cant identify with a specific nationality then you have to accept a broader term like British as far as I see.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,915 ✭✭✭MungBean


    steveod wrote: »
    No: I have Irish citizenship because the state recognises me as an Irish citizen and regardless of my marital state. I am of Irish decent.

    If your an Irish citizen and of Irish decent, dont identify with being English why do you not feel Irish ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 57,077 ✭✭✭✭tayto lover


    Yes you are as Irish as I am. Most of my nephews and nieces were born in London, speak with cockney accents but consider themselves as Irish.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 58 ✭✭MiseryCat


    Frowzy wrote: »
    1. I speak English - it doesn't make me English

    2. Being Catholic doesn't make you Irish, could make you Italian tho!!! :)

    3. Your father is Irish so you can apply for citizenship, I don't know about whether or not your marriage qualifies....

    4. Sorry but it has to be said.....



    ........ CHAPS? ......... Definitely British!

    He would have Irish citizenship because he married Irish woman from cork.:confused:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,108 ✭✭✭RachaelVO


    MiseryCat wrote: »
    Your nationality is English because your born in the uk But you have Irish citizenship because you married Irish woman form cork ,you go by your birth cert.

    NOOOOOOOOOO! Whole heartedly disagree!

    My kids were born in The Netherlands with a Dutch father, that doesn't make them flipping Dutch! They are entitled to have both passports, if (as the Dutch government want) we had to choose they'd loose their Dutch passports!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,108 ✭✭✭RachaelVO


    steveod wrote: »
    No: I have Irish citizenship because the state recognises me as an Irish citizen and regardless of my marital state. I am of Irish decent.

    It depends on how long your married. They changed the law some time ago about marital nationality. I looked into it when I got married! However it did apply a good while ago, but having said that, your are entitled to Irish citizenship because your father is Irish!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,057 ✭✭✭WesternZulu


    If you feel Irish who is anyone to tell you that you are not.

    You listed the facts above, you are as Irish as anyone born on this island in my opinion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,194 ✭✭✭saa


    If two people are Irish and they move to England to work, she becomes pregnant, has the child there and moves back four years later does that make the child English? Nope

    It's more to do with how you identify yourself rather than what other people think you are OP, even if that is complex.

    I am obviously the kid from the scenario above I have never thought of myself as being of Irish decent I am Irish with a connection to England.
    I am much more Irish than English, but you grew up there but you don't feel connected to the place so than that doesn't matter.

    Having something written on a document doesn't mean anything I have friends who were born abroad and don't remember anything about that country, never been there since have no ties to it so it would be ridiculous to call them whatever ish or ese. Their parent(s) was just working there at the time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,372 ✭✭✭✭jimmycrackcorm


    You cannot be Irish unless you 'endure' Peig.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,902 ✭✭✭Emer911


    Tis a quandry alright...

    I was born in the UK to an Irish Father and an English Mother, who happened to be half German.
    So have you any affinity with Germany then? And if your Mum was raised in England, as were you, surely that culture is a big part of your identity?

    I grew up a Catholic and went to catholic school and all of my friends, without exception, are of Irish decent, many of whom refer to Ireland as "home" in spite on never living there.
    As mentioned by earlier posters, Catholic = Irish isn't really a valid argument, but if that school was an irish catholic school then that is a slightly different argument.

    I never read Peig at school but I now speak the Irish language better than most Irish people.
    :D Again, a lot of Irish people don't really identify themselves with the language, more's the pity. There are many non natives that can speak gaeilge better than most of us.

    I have an Irish passport, but I do not know the words to the National Anthem (yet).
    You only need to know the last 2 lines - and be able to bellow them at a GAA match!

    Am I Irish? Or to put it another way...an Eirinneach me?
    Home is where the hearth is (yes hearth, not heart!). Where do you feel most comfortable? Where do you think of when you say HOME? That's where you're from. :rolleyes: The rest is just your history.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,194 ✭✭✭saa


    No interest in reading Peig, learning the national anthem or going near the Catholic church but hey im sure OP was being humorous :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 547 ✭✭✭shayno90


    Really down to the influence of the parents, how attached they are to their own nationality and desire to/not get their children to connect or engage with their culture or background. Also, some pride in certain nationalities seems to be stronger in certain individuals or expats. Is it more acceptable to be of German descent or Irish for example in the UK?

    For some children of expats, it may be more preferable to adopt the more accessible and more dominant nationality of one of the parents.

    Based on the 2 viewpoints, according to offficial documents from the country of birth, you belong to that nationality while on the other hand your upbringing could be tied towards one or both of the home country. Hence, the extreme of Irish or Italian Americans for example towards their parents heritage and homeland.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47 steveod


    To further muddy the "wathers" of this post, a lecuturer of sociology said to me once (from Kent), in reference to the question of national identity, "you are who you are socialally defined by"

    Whilst this brings wonderful succour to the 'Lost Irish', it doesn't explain why my cousin, as nice a chap as he is, and whose parents we're more Irish than mine (in totality) ended up a member of the BNP.

    I liked the sociologists explanation. After all, didn't a generation of Jamacians have to go through this when they arrived in London in the 50s? Not the Irish though even though they were likened to 'blacks' and 'dogs', they ultimately were 'white' (until they opened their gobs)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,279 ✭✭✭Lady Chuckles


    Do you want to be Irish? Is it a sense of belonging you're looking for or would you just like to get people's opinion whether you're Irish or not based on paperwork? ;)

    I totally get what you mean about not feeling English or Irish. I don't feel my nationality represent my persona and who I am. My country is known for drawn back people, who are hesitant to talk to strangers and make new friends. I'm not like that.

    I believe you are what you feel.

    So perhaps there's a third option for you, perhaps you'd feel Spanish if you got to hang out with some Spanish people? Perhaps you'd feel that sense of beloning then :)
    I'm not saying it to be cheeky or anything, I'm saying it because that's what happened to me. I got to know some wonderful Irish people and I began to understand that the Irishness was what I had been missing for so many years. It may sound stupid, but those days when I feel Irish - I am Irish :)

    Papers are only papers. They don't decide what you are and how you feel ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 103 ✭✭allroad


    Anyone prepared to marry a Cork woman has earned their citizenship.

    Legally you would seem to tick all the right boxes, Irish parent, living in Ireland, married to an Irish person and an Irish passport. Being born in England gives you options that most Irish people, south of the border, don't have.
    The fact that you are asking the question, however, suggests that you haven't fully committed one way or the other.
    In your case, it's a matter of choice.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 46 Busi Girl


    Absolutely wrecks my head when people claim there Irish yet they've hardly any link to us. There relationship is normally that there grand-uncles wife's brothers aunts dog was from Ireland...or something along those lines!!
    Well your not Irish no matter how many times you've visited! :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,810 ✭✭✭✭sbsquarepants


    steveod wrote: »
    I was born in the UK to an Irish Father and an English Mother, who happened to be half German.

    I grew up a Catholic and went to catholic school and all of my friends, without exception, are of Irish decent, many of whom refer to Ireland as "home" in spite on never living there.

    Unconciously, my indentity was heavily influenced by the Irish culture, and eventually I married a "real" Irish person from Cork and I now live in Ireland albeit for 5 years, which only represents an eighth of my entire life.

    I never read Peig at school but I now speak the Irish language better than most Irish people. I have an Irish passport, but I do not know the words to the National Anthem (yet). I have an Irish name, but I do not look Irish.

    I don't feel Irish, but I don't feel English. But I've never felt anything other than the way that I feel, so I don't really have any reference points.

    Am I Irish? Or to put it another way...an Eirinneach me?

    Eh, how do i put this politely?
    You, sir, are know as a mongrel!:D
    But sure it's all good, if you like it here we'll have you, we need all the help we can get.
    Try get your hands on a book called McCarthys Bar, by Pete McCarthy - it's an excellent read. He's basically an english man who feels "spiritually" irish and so he travels around ireland having the craic and getting drunk with various people. It might not solve your dillema but it will give you a good laugh and sure that's half the battle!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 85 ✭✭oranje


    Really interesting thread. I have to agree with other posters that equating Catholicism with Irishness is way off the mark. It is perfectly possible to be100% Irish and Protestant and indeed Unionist. The only reason that the Catholic = Irish equation gained any traction is partition.

    My father was brought up as an Irish person in England. In Manchester, where he grew up, it is normal to be ethnically Irish. The only people who seem to have any issues with accepting that people like the OP are Irish (if they choose to self-identify as such) are people living in Ireland. In my experience Irish people often associate nationality with accent. If you have an English accent it is hard for people to get over the idea that you are not English.

    The irony of course is that Irish people abandoned their own language en masse in the nineteenth century and effectively chose to become more culturally British as a result. An Irish person can live a life that looks like a clone of his British counterpart's. There are some specifically Irish elements of life like the GAA or Orange parades but a look at the Irish Independent website on any give day will show you that what happens across the water is very important to Irish people.

    My own children are half-Polish and half-Irish growing up in Holland. My experience is that it is very difficult to impart any Irish culture to your children outside of Ireland. Things like the GAA and the Irish language have no real support network abroad. Of course you can pass on the English language, which I do. I read them books written in English by American, British, Australian, Irish people etc. English language TV is largely produced in the UK or the US. Where my children interact with English it is not in a specifically Irish context but a global English one.

    On the other hand my wife's Polish culture is much easier to transfer with the advantage of having a proprietary language. Polish television has countless autonomous output. Poland has its own music industry, literature, fashion, food, traditions. It is almost almost impossible for a half-Polish kid to be at least partly Polish but a kid with two Irish parents growing up abroad can lose every tie to Ireland very easily. In my own family some of those who grew up in England maintained Irishness but others only identify themselves as being British.

    My children would regard themselves as Dutch first and Polish second. Being Irish is a very vague idea for them now. They know I speak English but that I am not English but what does being Irish actually mean? It is a lost easier to understand what being Polish means when you are seven years of age.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 547 ✭✭✭shayno90


    Essentially you are the nationality of the country of your birth despite your exposure to your parents' heritage and attempt to immerse you in the culture they grew up in.

    The confusion over identity arises from the above situation. For example, you can get a British passport which Irish citizens born with both Irish parents cannot get unless one of the parents is British. Why would you not consider yourself English, are not proud to be born or to have been reared there?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47 steveod


    This might be a clincher, which I forgot to mention:

    When England play Ireland at Rugby, I shout for the green team.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 47 steveod


    Frowzy wrote: »

    ........ CHAPS? ......... Definitely British!

    Is being Irish defined by the wordsd we use?

    I heard Senator David Norris use that word. He's Irish, isn't he?:rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,042 ✭✭✭who the fug


    steveod wrote: »
    This might be a clincher, which I forgot to mention:

    When England play Ireland at Rugby, I shout for the green team.


    Given the current state of English rugby, that just proves you are sane


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 516 ✭✭✭Frowzy


    steveod wrote: »
    Is being Irish defined by the wordsd we use?

    I heard Senator David Norris use that word. He's Irish, isn't he?:rolleyes:

    Not by your standards he's not:
    He was born in the Congo to Upper Class English Parents. His father served in the English armed forces. Also, he's a Church of Ireland Member. He was only sent here to be raised by an Aunt after his parents died. So I guess David Norris is open for debate.

    I don't care what you are, but if you are Irish you'd say "Lads" not "Chaps". My humble opinion anyway.

    I'm wondering what you hope to achieve by convincing an online forum that you are indeed Irish? Do you need approval?


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