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Fancied a girl.. got it 2nd date... is it to soon?

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  • #32
    carfiosaoorl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 594 ✭✭✭carfiosaoorl


    Why are you having second thoughts? I had sex with my ex on the second night we met. We were together for 11 yrs. We had 3 kids and split up because he did the dirt, I never did. I havent been with anyone since we split up (3 yrs ago). So just because she put up out on the second date it doesnt make her a whore.


  • #33
    ringadingding
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,010 ✭✭✭ringadingding


    Is her name marla singer by any chance ?

    Tyler


  • #34
    DarylH
    Closed Accounts Posts: 44 ✭DarylH


    Seemingly the OP is either very stupid or very smart,
    I am yet to decide.


  • #35
    Kasabian
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,688 ✭✭✭Kasabian


    carfiosaoorl wrote: »
    Why are you having second thoughts? I had sex with my ex on the second night we met. We were together for 11 yrs. We had 3 kids and split up because he did the dirt, I never did. I havent been with anyone since we split up (3 yrs ago). So just because she put up out on the second date it doesnt make her a whore.

    3 years is along time, it may be clouding your judgement.


  • #36
    dumbbell
    Closed Accounts Posts: 114 ✭✭dumbbell


    Kasabian wrote: »
    3 years is along time, it may be clouding your judgement.
    PMSL
    :pac:

    the reason was i tot she was more lady like , am just old fashioned


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  • #37
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    carfiosaoorl wrote: »
    Why are you having second thoughts? I had sex with my ex on the second night we met. We were together for 11 yrs. We had 3 kids and split up because he did the dirt, I never did. I havent been with anyone since we split up (3 yrs ago). So just because she put up out on the second date it doesnt make her a whore.

    3 yrs is a long time. What's stopping you now?


  • #38
    Pure Sound
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 451 ✭✭Pure Sound


    If you thought it was too soon why did you agree to it, get out of the 1800's ffs


  • #39
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    dumbbell wrote: »
    PMSL
    :pac:

    the reason was i tot she was more lady like , am just old fashioned

    You wouldn't know a lady if she jumped up and bit you on the nose.


  • #40
    strobe
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,872 ✭✭✭strobe


    carfiosaoorl wrote: »
    Why are you having second thoughts? I had sex with my ex on the second night we met. We were together for 11 yrs. We had 3 kids and split up because he did the dirt, I never did. I havent been with anyone since we split up (3 yrs ago). So just because she put up out on the second date it doesnt make her a whore.

    There you have it OP. Sex on the second date ultimately leads to heartbreak and a broken home.

    Unless she is a whore, apparently, then you're probably golden.


  • #41
    dark crystal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,962 ✭✭✭✭dark crystal


    dumbbell wrote: »
    PMSL
    :pac:

    the reason was i tot she was more lady like , am just old fashioned

    If you're so old fashioned, why are you having sex on the second date?


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  • #42
    Kasabian
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,688 ✭✭✭Kasabian


    dumbbell wrote: »
    PMSL
    :pac:

    the reason was i tot she was more lady like , am just old fashioned

    Haha OP, I have just realised who you are, you do realise that all the lads have been with her. She has been telling everyone that you told her you are in love with her.


  • #43
    dumbbell
    Closed Accounts Posts: 114 ✭✭dumbbell


    strobe wrote: »
    There you have it OP. Sex on the second date ultimately leads to heartbreak and a broken home.

    Unless she is a whore, apparently, then you're probably golden.


    from previous experience thats what quick sex turns into,,,, as with waiting for it.. cant win


  • #44
    stoneill
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,607 ✭✭✭stoneill


    I tot I twa a bit of totty.

    Second date and you are lamping her out of it and you think less of her?
    Man - your priorities are all wrong.


  • #45
    fonecrusher1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 5,984 ✭✭✭fonecrusher1


    strobe wrote: »
    There you have it OP. Sex on the second date ultimately leads to heartbreak and a broken home.

    Unless she is a whore, apparently, then you're probably golden.

    Well said. Disgusting behaviour.


  • #46
    Kasabian
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,688 ✭✭✭Kasabian


    strobe wrote: »
    There you have it OP. Sex on the second date ultimately leads to heartbreak and a broken home.

    Unless she is a whore, apparently, then you're probably golden.

    Harsh!!

    But funny.


  • #47
    WoollyRedHat
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,462 ✭✭✭✭WoollyRedHat


    This thread is Legen...WAIT FOR IT... Dary


  • #48
    carfiosaoorl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 594 ✭✭✭carfiosaoorl


    hondasam wrote: »
    3 yrs is a long time. What's stopping you now?

    Meh Im not looking, my thoughts are complicated. I dont want a relationship with another man and introduce him to my kids and I dont want one night stands either so here Im stuck lol.


  • #49
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    dumbbell wrote: »
    from previous experience thats what quick sex turns into,,,, as with waiting for it.. cant win

    Quick sex for you, disappointment for her ! it was your first time you will last longer next time.


  • #50
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    carfiosaoorl wrote: »
    Meh Im not looking, my thoughts are complicated. I dont want a relationship with another man and introduce him to my kids and I dont want one night stands either so here Im stuck lol.

    Don't let life pass you buy, get out enjoy yourself. The kids will be fine.


  • #51
    calabi yau
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 245 ✭✭calabi yau


    dumbbell wrote: »
    as above, i liked this girl i work with, did all the flirting as you do, asked her got, she excepted, 2nd date we ended up in bed, its sort of made me get a bad impression of her. am i over thinking? ,
    i tot it would be hard work i guess am just dealy ()joking)

    Doubt it


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  • #52
    LETHAL LADY
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭LETHAL LADY


    Whatever happened to a bit of good auld fashioned courting before you got your wicked way. The youth of today shocking.


  • #53
    El Weirdo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,651 ✭✭✭✭El Weirdo


    DarylH wrote: »
    Seemingly the OP is either very stupid or very smart,
    I am yet to decide.
    You know what?

    I'm not quite as undecided as you.


  • #54
    Kasabian
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,688 ✭✭✭Kasabian


    carfiosaoorl wrote: »
    Meh Im not looking, my thoughts are complicated. I dont want a relationship with another man and introduce him to my kids and I dont want one night stands either so here Im stuck lol.
    hondasam wrote: »
    Don't let life pass you buy, get out enjoy yourself. The kids will be fine.

    Make sure you get a babysitter


  • #55
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    Kasabian wrote: »
    Make sure you get a babysitter

    Good advice. Don't forget safe sex.


  • #56
    Kasabian
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,688 ✭✭✭Kasabian


    hondasam wrote: »
    Good advice. Don't forget safe sex.

    Always.

    Good point.
    OP did you wear a condom?
    She's been around as you'll find out Monday.


  • #57
    TheRealSquishy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 336 ✭✭TheRealSquishy


    hondasam wrote: »
    Good advice. Don't forget safe sex.

    Same advice to the OP, please don't reproduce :P


  • #58
    hondasam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    Kasabian wrote: »
    Always.

    Good point.
    OP did you wear a condom?
    She's been around as you'll find out Monday.
    TheRealSquishy wrote: »
    Same advice to the OP, please don't reproduce :P

    OK it was his first time, bit rushed and he did not get to use the condom or vagina. she will not get pregnant and he will not catch anything.
    He only looked at it.


  • #59
    Son Of A Vidic
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,370 ✭✭✭✭Son Of A Vidic


    dumbbell wrote: »
    asked her got, she excepted

    WTF am I reading?

    So dumbbell, did you actually drop a dumbbell on your head or something? Because that might explain it.


  • #60
    strobe
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,872 ✭✭✭strobe


    Kasabian wrote: »
    Harsh!!

    Actually, it is a bit, whether meant in jest or not, isn't it?

    I apologise unreservedly Carfiosaoorl. Sorry kid.


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  • #61
    Kerrigooney
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,987 ✭✭✭Kerrigooney


    dumbbell wrote: »
    as above, i liked this girl i work with, did all the flirting as you do, asked her got, she excepted, 2nd date we ended up in bed, its sort of made me get a bad impression of her. am i over thinking?
    i tot it would be hard work i guess am just dealy ()joking)

    she really did **** your brains out,didn`t she?


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