Other half getting lazy?

FashionLover · 11-11-2011 10:18AM #1

So I've been in a relationship for about 6 months now. For the first few months things were going really well, sweet texts, calls etc. from my OH. He'd also text me first thing in the morning when he got up, constantly texting me just to say I love you and so on. But now I'm the one that needs to text him, and he never says I love you anymore. I only see him about once or twice a week because we both work. He used to take breaks in work just to give me a quick call, but this has all gone down the drain the past few weeks.

I read some articles saying that as men become comfortable in a relationship, they become lazy; could this be the case? Or is it that he truly doesn't love me anymore and has become less interested in me?

stovelid · 11-11-2011 10:19AM

Fuck his best mate.

Halal Butcher · 11-11-2011 10:24AM

I would have him tested for polymorhisms of the RS3334 gene.

Extra copies of this gene can inhibit release of the hormone vasopressin, a hormone closely related to oxytocin, the so-called 'cuddle-chemical'.

The inhibition of vasopressin will render males less likely to commit to relationship or more likely to cheat if in a relationship.

Conversely, males with no extra copies of the allele are more likely to be in a happy, long-term relationship.

Just sayin'.

Morrisseeee · 11-11-2011 10:25AM

Wrong forum I'm afraid.............
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........you need the..............Conspiracies forum, dat-away >>>>>>>

Chuck Stone · 11-11-2011 10:25AM

Put broken glass in his sandwiches and then say you did it because you love him.

I have no idea what this will do for your relationship.

Carter P Fly · 11-11-2011 10:27AM

Meh, Why you want to be with such an annoyingly needy person anyway. Seriously all that texting 24/7 is retarded.

Saila · 11-11-2011 10:27AM

a bit soon on the other half stuff there... or have you been married 6 months

YFlyer · 11-11-2011 10:27AM

Has he start farting in your presence?

seamus · 11-11-2011 10:28AM

If you measure the strength of his commitment by how often he tells you that he wuddly-wubbs you, then you are doomed to a life of six-month relationships.

Dravokivich · 11-11-2011 10:28AM

he's got to contact you first and constantly...

are you afriad of phone bills or what?

LETHAL LADY · 11-11-2011 10:29AM

I suspect from your post OP, well all the lovey dovey crap anyway, that you are both young. Cold hard fact, he has lost interest. Dump him and move on.

GavRedKing · 11-11-2011 10:30AM

FashionLover wrote: »

So I've been in a relationship for about 6 months now. For the first few months things were going really well, sweet texts, calls etc. from my OH. He'd also text me first thing in the morning when he got up, constantly texting me just to say I love you and so on. But now I'm the one that needs to text him, and he never says I love you anymore. I only see him about once or twice a week because we both work. He used to take breaks in work just to give me a quick call, but this has all gone down the drain the past few weeks.

I read some articles saying that as men become comfortable in a relationship, they become lazy; could this be the case? Or is it that he truly doesn't love me anymore and has become less interested in me?

^ Theres your problem. Reading articles and such is a load of bollox, ask him abuot his feelings. i wouldnt judge any of my relationships on what other people have experienced.

mathie · 11-11-2011 10:31AM

Blast him with face-kickings.

fenris · 11-11-2011 10:31AM

Does he have a rabbit?

4zn76tysfajdxp · 11-11-2011 10:31AM

Get a dog instead.

Snakeblood · 11-11-2011 10:32AM

Chuck Stone wrote: »

Put broken glass in his sandwiches and then say you did it because you love him.

I have no idea what this will do for your relationship.

I'm certainly interested to find out.

billymitchell · 11-11-2011 10:32AM

FashionLover wrote: »

So I've been in a relationship for about 6 months now. For the first few months things were going really well, sweet texts, calls etc. from my OH. He'd also text me first thing in the morning when he got up, constantly texting me just to say I love you and so on. But now I'm the one that needs to text him, and he never says I love you anymore. I only see him about once or twice a week because we both work. He used to take breaks in work just to give me a quick call, but this has all gone down the drain the past few weeks.

I read some articles saying that as men become comfortable in a relationship, they become lazy; could this be the case? Or is it that he truly doesn't love me anymore and has become less interested in me?

You're only 16, arent you op??

mathie · 11-11-2011 10:33AM

billymitchell wrote: »

You're only 16, arent you op??

He says stroking himself.

FashionLover · 11-11-2011 10:34AM

23 I'm afraid, he's two years younger.

stovelid · 11-11-2011 10:34AM

seamus wrote: »

wuddly-wubbs you

FashionLover wrote: »

23 I'm afraid, he's two years younger.

Therein lies the issue.

He wants to fire into younger mots as you're pushing on a bit now.

Sky King · 11-11-2011 10:35AM

Suck him off while he plays the new COD.

And if you don't want to do that, then don't be bitching about him not wanting to do gay sh!t like buy you flowers.

mathie · 11-11-2011 10:35AM

FashionLover wrote: »

23 I'm afraid, he's two years younger.

Is his name 'Fashion'?

Snakeblood · 11-11-2011 10:36AM

FashionLover wrote: »

23 I'm afraid, he's two years younger.

Make him a vasopressin sandwich?

4zn76tysfajdxp · 11-11-2011 10:36AM

FashionLover wrote: »

23 I'm afraid, he's two years younger.

One thing that's definitely gonna make him stick around is to get pregnant. Then he'll realise how much he wants to be with you and you'll b 2getha 4eva

MagicMarker · 11-11-2011 10:37AM

Have you gained weight OP? I'd start with working on that.

Sky King · 11-11-2011 10:38AM

That's actually pretty good advise Frada.

OP I recommend you take this approach.

LowOdour · 11-11-2011 10:39AM

he is a guy, so to perk him right up you might need to do some further anal-ysis on the matter

EarlyStorms · 11-11-2011 10:39AM

There's no great secret with us guys it sounds like he's lost interest. I expect he'll be ending the relationship soon so you might want to get in ahead of him.

FetchTheGin · 11-11-2011 10:40AM

He's lazy because he doesn't ring or text you first.

First world problem.

mathie · 11-11-2011 10:43AM

FetchTheGin wrote: »

He's lazy because he doesn't ring or text you first.

First world problem.

Female logic...

If he does ring or text before she does does that make her lazy?
No it makes her happy.

Gmol · 11-11-2011 10:47AM

Give him an dramatic ultimatum, it doesn't matter about what, us men always respect and love ultimatums. You will have a life of everlasting love from then on

Other half getting lazy?

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