Remember your first crush or were you too cool for that?

orourkeda · 30-08-2011 10:57AM

Her name was lola she was a show girl.

seamus · 30-08-2011 10:58AM

Had a crush on a girl in my class in primary school 5th or 6th class. Well I say "crush" in that I know I fancied her, but I can't remember being infatuated. Then my best mate went out with her. The dastard.

First proper "crushes" I can remember, as in being completely and utterly obsessed with their sexiness, were Claire Danes. I saw her in Romeo & Juliet @ 14, then had a sex dream about her and I was smitten for about 2 years. Bloody hormones.

Jennifer Paige after MTV played the song "Crush" constantly and it had a super-sexy video, I thought she was awesome.

skylight1987 · 30-08-2011 11:08AM

I was eight we were in the summer scheme together.He was lovely, he didnt speak to me then , but when i was twelve he asked me out and we walked around the school together.Both of us were really shy, broke up the next day.Then met him at a party when i was 15 and we got together only a snog and a fool around but glad we finally did .Saw him years later, him with his kid and me with mine , he smiled said" hello" and said "ah look at us now parents" and i smiled back and said "i know who would have thought" . That the last time our paths crossed he was a lovely guy.

we'llallhavetea_old · 01-09-2011 12:40AM

Abi wrote: »

We'llallhavetea was my true first, there is nobody else.

I'm waiting for you.

where the fcuk have my clothes gone?! :eek:

kfallon · 01-09-2011 12:44AM

Girl who lived across the road when I was about 12. Worst thing was we always argued when we met, found out a couple of years later she had fancied me too. Oh well, there you go, I would imagine if I saw her now it wouldn't mean a thing.

Chuck Stone · 01-09-2011 01:27AM

Well I was about 5 and she was about, oh, 30 odd. My first teacher. I was smitten.

Turned out she was a neurotic bitch (she did a few stints in the puzzle factory to the best of my knowledge) and I've been attracted to neurotic bitches ever since.

I could probably write a really melancholy love song about it but I couldn't be bothered.

later12 · 01-09-2011 01:38AM

My first crush was a Swiss girl who was the same age as me when I was a wee lad. She came to my Dad's house with her Dad and while our fathers were chatting she was sent down to my parents bedroom to watch cartoons with me. She got under the covers with me, and told me she had had sex before. I thought this was the most erotic thing anyone had ever said to me in my life (and it probably was).
She then gave me a cuddle, which for about 2 years racked my conscience as I was convinced that we too had had sex.

Looked her up on facebook there recently, still as hot as she was at 7 (I was seven too, so I can say that, I think) and is now way out of my league.

Moral of the story: take your chance when you have it.

Da Shins Kelly · 01-09-2011 01:46AM

Aye, I do. It was Gordo from Lizzie Maguire.

http://forladiesbyladies.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/gordo_in_and_the_winner_is.jpg

jive · 01-09-2011 01:47AM

later10 wrote: »

Looked her up on facebook there recently, still as hot as she was at 7

paedo. reported.

OPENROAD · 01-09-2011 01:48AM

First crush on someone famous was tennis player Jennifer Capriati, even joined her fan club

Didn't really have a crush on anyone in my younger years, but graduation night from school, had a big crush on a girl from a neighbouring all girl school that I first saw on Paddys night that year in Hollywood Nights.

Anyway Graduation night in Holly's, finally got it together with her and as this played and I looked into her eyes I was convinced I was in love :P:o

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JiN7c0fqNF8

later12 · 01-09-2011 01:53AM

Da Shins Kelly wrote: »

Aye, I do. It was Gordo from Lizzie Maguire.

http://forladiesbyladies.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/gordo_in_and_the_winner_is.jpg

Is that a boy or a girl?

blackdog2 · 01-09-2011 03:27AM

Emma bunton, they truly are tits that do not quit

Duddy · 01-09-2011 03:33AM

Leonardo DiCaprio in Titanic. Oh the shame.

Hank_Jones · 01-09-2011 03:55AM

Gwen Stefani, I think I was 10.

Kanoe · 01-09-2011 03:56AM

mine was a spanish (basque, very different) student too, coincidentally we spent the summer playing go fish. (she had to teach me how first though

) I do have a song but it's in spanish...something about mixing red wine with coca cola which made her puke a few times. and I learned all the words of that los lobos song la bamba which I still can't forget 20 odd years later as much as I want to. When I was old enough I ran away to Espana, never found her though but I've been in touch with some others who were here at the time. She's still the template I gauge my standards by.

foxyboxer · 01-09-2011 08:35AM

Belinda Carlilse, Susanna Hoffs.

:cool:

Azureus · 01-09-2011 12:15PM

First crush: Robin out of batman and robin. Only now I can see how incredibly gay he really was...
Stephen Gately was another one on my list back then, and coincidentally the first guy I ever kissed is now gay.

Now I go for anyone over 6ft with facial hair and muscles just in case :P

First ever actual crush was a guy from my area-looking back it was actually pathetic how infatuated I was with the guy...but about 5 years later we ended up hooking up and I said no when he eventually asked me out because he was a crap kisser and actually not that nice a person after all the years of pining for him. Lucky escape from what Ive heard!

Jimoslimos · 01-09-2011 02:15PM

My first would be identical twin girls in my class in primary school, around the age of 8-9 upwards I think, used to switch quite regularly as to which one I preferred (and no, I never did consider a threesome - was much too innocent/naiive:o - anyway it was a crush, can't remember anything sexual about it)

also my 1st year German/French teacher in secondary school. To a boy just hitting puberty she was hot!!

Had a few celebrity ones but the one that comes to mind would be Martina Hingis, the tennis player, for some reason:o

leggo · 01-09-2011 02:30PM

Ah I was HOPELESS with crushes in school. I remember fancying people as young as 5! (when I was 5, too, that is. No paedo...) Probably because my mother was mad for those American soaps and I thought that was all how it happened.

Unfortunately that continued into secondary school and only got worse. I was a little sweetheart in my own head and couldn't see how women didn't dig the romantic approach that seemed to work so well on television. Gas, though, looking back.

Then I found The Wezz, Red Box etc and romance took a backseat to full on filth and sordid activity. I miss the innocent days!

Mr Freeze · 01-09-2011 02:34PM

The Scientician wrote: »

Elly from Elly and Jools. I must have been about 9.

Whoa.

Blast from the past or what????

Leelaa22 · 01-09-2011 02:39PM

My first crush was when I was 6 and he was our pool boy in Portugal, he name was Julio. I used to get up extra early sit at the balcony, watch him clean the pool and listen to him whistle his songs. He was perfect.

Neyite · 01-09-2011 02:43PM

I had a massive crush on Mark* and his older sister was best buddies with my older sister, therefore my older sister tormented me about him. So much so that I would go purple and stutter every time he was around. Classy, huh?

The amout of cigarettes she got outta bribing me that she would hook us up. B!tch.

But I love it when you see the guy who broke your heart and he has a receding/balding hairline, a drinkers nose, beer gut and looks like someones auld lad and I still get asked for ID for drink (I'm 36) and still the same 8-10 size I was at 18. Karma indeed.

One guy who dumped me for a so-called mate looks about mid fifties and his wife (former friend) is looking very rough, and about 15 years older than she really is.

adocholiday · 01-09-2011 02:44PM

Girl from my town every lad our age fancied. One day at a fun fair there was a ride that 4 people could sit in. I was waiting my turn when her and 2 of her mates started waving and were looking at me. Ran over jumped in the empty seat. They were all staring at me and another girl was standing on the platform waiting 2 get in. I had to climb out looking like a mad eejit nd everyone laughing...

She's a junkie now :-D

mattjack · 01-09-2011 03:01PM

Garda Margaret Murphy....the way she swung her truncheon at us and the amount of rabbit punches I got off her..I still have visions of her as I sprinted from the local orchard,how I wanted to be handcuffed by her...for a big girl she could certainly move fast.

Sergeant · 01-09-2011 03:11PM

Cadbury's Caramel Bunny? Anyone? Eh.........me neither.

Mr Freeze · 01-09-2011 03:23PM

Sergeant wrote: »

Cadbury's Caramel Bunny? Anyone? Eh.........me neither.

Reminds me of Jessica Rabbitt.

sunflower27 · 01-09-2011 03:27PM

adocholiday wrote: »

Girl from my town every lad our age fancied. One day at a fun fair there was a ride that 4 people could sit in. I was waiting my turn when her and 2 of her mates started waving and were looking at me. Ran over jumped in the empty seat. They were all staring at me and another girl was standing on the platform waiting 2 get in. I had to climb out looking like a mad eejit nd everyone laughing...

She's a junkie now :-D

That is hilarious (first bit), second bit not so much

Da Shins Kelly · 01-09-2011 03:42PM

later10 wrote: »

Is that a boy or a girl?

That is a boy, believe it or not. And he was my first fancy when I was about 8 or 10 or something.

John Doe1 · 01-09-2011 03:57PM

This is going to sound a bit gay but here goes. My first crush was when i was 10, i played spin the bottle and kissed this girl. After that when i went past her house i felt butterflies and went a bit red. I barely spoke a word to her but i felt like i loved her really intensely. thus started about 5 years of unrequited love and awkwardness around girls. Luckily im over that now

trollin trollin trollin · 02-09-2012 12:27PM

My first crush was quite literally gay

.Before i hit twelve my first crush was on another girl.I felt absolutely devastated and burst into tears almost every day because i hated myself for having gay feelings.I then went to an all girls secondary school after that and had about 4 more deep crushes right through it and i was starting to feel comfortable with it.

By the time i started college i was actually thinking about coming out,guess what happens?I was asked out by a wonderful guy and decided to give being straight one last shot.I don't know if it was his personality or what but after a few weeks i started to develop strong feeling for him and I'm now with him almost 3 years.I really do love him to bits now and tbh he's the only guy i could ever imagine myself having feelings for.

So after keeping all that in for nearly 10 years and melting my head in the process worrying about it,i'm finally coming out as bi.

Remember your first crush or were you too cool for that?

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