Does losing your virginity before marriage really matter?

IMO marriage and religion was invented at least partially as a means for men to control women sexually and to ensure that that their children were biologically theirs. This is why women were made to feel guilty for enjoying sex. They had to be controlled, they couldn't be free to have sex with whoever they wanted. Honeymoon apparently refers to the first month after marriage were the man takes a woman away for a full cycle of the moon which is a full menstrual cycle and has lots of sex with her. The point of this is to get her pregnant while "knowing" the baby must be his.

This all came into to play IMO as a result of the agricultural revolution 10,000 years ago. Men learned about the concept of property as they became settled on their piece of land and began to regard women as property. Women IMO are naturally promiscuous especially in estrus when they are ovulating and I believe men back then realised this so these new farmers had to think of a way to ensure that they could work hard and earn a woman without her going off and sleeping with someone else when she was in estrus. So they designed forms of religions with elements in it designed to control women's sexuality. Just look at some of the commandments. Thou shalt not commit adultery, thou shall not covet thy neighbours wife.

So if you are against sex before marriage IMO you have been fooled by the manipulative early agriculturalists.