When is too soon to email after a date?

oxygen · 14-07-2011 02:21PM #1

Whats the consensus here?

Had a nice date last nite, liked the girl. When is too soon to email? Should I email after work to see how she got on in work after (we were out fairly late) or leave it a couple days? Like I dont have her number just her email address so it would be a biggish thing like, not just a flaky message or anything

Sanjuro · 14-07-2011 02:22PM

Any time between 15 minutes and seven years, three months.

sunflower27 · 14-07-2011 02:23PM

Do what you want to do. If she really likes you, an email is hardly going to make her run for the hills.

Emiko · 14-07-2011 02:25PM

Just mail her. Say you enjoyed the date, and ask her how she's doing.

Why wait?

stovelid · 14-07-2011 02:25PM

Email her from the jacks during the date.

Something pithy like PUT OUT BY THIRD DATE OR DUMPSVILLE

smash · 14-07-2011 02:25PM

email? when did people start trading email addresses after dates?

jimthemental · 14-07-2011 02:25PM

Would you not just text her?

**Timbuk2** · 14-07-2011 02:26PM

Just think about what you will put the e-mail subject as.

Awkward.

sunflower27 · 14-07-2011 02:26PM

Emiko wrote: »

Just mail her. Say you enjoyed the date, and ask her how she's doing.

Why wait?

I'd say to not look too keen. Just do it, OP. You obviously want to.

Emiko · 14-07-2011 02:26PM

steve06 wrote: »

email? when did people start trading email addresses after dates?

When they think the guy is a stalker and don't want to give out their number.

I'm only kidding, OP.

Caveman1 · 14-07-2011 02:27PM

Email her and ask how work was etc then leave your number at the end of the email asking her to give you a txt later because you wont have access to your email.

Scuid Mhór · 14-07-2011 02:29PM

three day rule???

Frank Black · 14-07-2011 02:31PM

Emiko wrote: »

Just mail her. Say you enjoyed the date, and ask her how she's doing.

Why wait?

Agreed - attach a picture of your fully erect throbbing cock as well though.

hondasam · 14-07-2011 02:32PM

wait for her to email you first.

VenusPlays · 14-07-2011 02:35PM

Email her now if you want to

If she enjoyed the date and wants to see you again, she'll be delighted.

If not she'll think you're a wierd stalker.

Either way you'll know.

CountingCrows · 14-07-2011 02:35PM

oxygen_temp wrote: »

Like I dont have her number just her email address

Why do you like not having her number, isn't that a bad thing?

COYW · 14-07-2011 02:36PM

jimthemental wrote: »

Would you not just text her?

He doesn't have her number. Mail her OP, what have you got to lose? If she doesn't mail you back, you know where you stand. One email isn't going to make or break anything.

gizmo555 · 14-07-2011 02:37PM

black francis wrote: »

Agreed - attach a picture of your fully erect throbbing cock as well though.

Didn't work out too well for that guy Weiner, did it?

Warm Panda Cola · 14-07-2011 02:40PM

Email her now!! Ye obviously hit it off, particularly if ye stayed out late, and she wasn't legging it at the first opportunity, in fact she's probably staring at her email account now wondering why you haven't! Why don't you have her number though?

Misticles · 14-07-2011 02:42PM

If you have to ask you shouldn't be dating :P

CountingCrows · 14-07-2011 02:42PM

OP - what were the parting words last night?

Hank_Jones · 14-07-2011 02:43PM

Email.....I love how close we are becoming as a society.

9.27 am:

I had a lovely date last night.

Reply, 10.46am:

I did as well, thank you for dinner.

COYW · 14-07-2011 02:44PM

CountingCrows wrote: »

Why do you like not having her number, isn't that a bad thing?

She probably didn't want to give him her number in case he calls when she is with her hubby. Sticking to the email makes cheating easier.

thefinalstage · 14-07-2011 02:44PM

Emiko wrote: »

When they think the guy is a stalker and don't want to give out their number.

I'm only kidding, OP.

^^^ This.

secrecy_ie · 14-07-2011 02:46PM

hondasam wrote: »

wait for her to email you first.

I agree.

Actually, wait for her to e-mail you a number of times. Ignore each e-mail, she'll want you more. It adds mystery.

After she sends her third or fourth e-mail, begging you to contact her, reply. Suggested content - either 1. short and disinterested or 2. you could complete a long e-mail. If going with option 2, follow these guidelines:

1. Spend the whole e-mail talking about yourself, your mates, what you have been doing, how many other women have been checking you out. She'll feel lucky you're spending this time on her, and not those other women. You may also imply some interest in those women, it adds mystery.
2. Never, ever ask her how her day is. This e-mail is ALL about you.
3. If you have to acknowledge her, make sure it's to comment on her appearance. Positive (I loved your rack) and negative (I am seriously considering riding you, and am willing to ignore your massive (insert body part here).
4. Refer to her by another name. She'll desperately want to know who this other woman is, and again it adds mystery.

t1mm · 14-07-2011 02:46PM

Ah you can't email her, thats far too forward.

Send her a fax instead.

Misticles · 14-07-2011 02:50PM

t1mm wrote: »

Ah you can't email her, thats far too forward.

Send her a fax pigeon carrier instead.

:cool:

stevenmu · 14-07-2011 02:51PM

Don't forget the single most important part of dating a new girl, update your facebook status ASAP, quick, before it's too late !

hondasam · 14-07-2011 02:55PM

secrecy_ie wrote: »

I agree.

Actually, wait for her to e-mail you a number of times. Ignore each e-mail, she'll want you more. It adds mystery.

After she sends her third or fourth e-mail, begging you to contact her, reply. Suggested content - either 1. short and disinterested or 2. you could complete a long e-mail. If going with option 2, follow these guidelines:

1. Spend the whole e-mail talking about yourself, your mates, what you have been doing, how many other women have been checking you out. She'll feel lucky you're spending this time on her, and not those other women. You may also imply some interest in those women, it adds mystery.
2. Never, ever ask her how her day is. This e-mail is ALL about you.
3. If you have to acknowledge her, make sure it's to comment on her appearance. Positive (I loved your rack) and negative (I am seriously considering riding you, and am willing to ignore your massive (insert body part here).
4. Refer to her by another name. She'll desperately want to know who this other woman is, and again it adds mystery.

LOL. what if she doesn't email him ?

Mr Magners · 14-07-2011 02:56PM

E-mail her a link to this thread. It'll show her how much you're thinking about her since last night!

oxygen · 14-07-2011 03:01PM

Jhah, funny replies there guys. A mate in work set it up, so thats why I've only email and no number, and possibly the "she could be married" thing mentioned above. I didnt ask her her number I suppose cause I felt a bit goofy or whatever. We left it on good terms, she was saying "We should meet again", sure she would say that anyway.

I think Ill go ahead and send a mail. Its a bit of a dr pepper, whats the worst that could happen.

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