Drinking game gone wrong. Apologise?

Lando Griffin · 04-07-2011 01:28PM #1

After a few months on the dry my OH finally gave me permission to go for a few drinks round at my friend’s house.
She warned me about my behaviour and I was out to prove to her that I was a changed mature man who could handle ones drink.
Everything was going well until the beer ran dry and we started drinking wine and spirits (whiskey).
Our host Tom ( not his real name ) fell asleep after a while and we decided to have some fun.
We raided Toms wife’s (who is quite the looker) wardrobe and started trying on her clothes on and fooling around having a laugh.
That’s all I remember.
Yesterday at home I was rudely awoken by a very angry OH holding a pair of red knickers demanding an explanation.
I told her the story backed up by images from my phone.
She is totally peed off with me now but not as much as Tom and his wife are, apparently all her good sexy stuff is in bits and her room a mess.
We have a wedding this weekend and the OH doesn’t want to go as Tom & wife will be there, and she has banned me from drink. I really want to go as all the lads will be there and I want to prove that I can handle my drink.
Do you think I should go round to Toms and apologise to his wife hence tricking the OH into thinking that it is ok to go to wedding and have a session?

Mena · 04-07-2011 01:30PM

Oh man you're so in the wrong forum!

scotty_irish · 04-07-2011 01:30PM

good luck is all i can say! any chance you can record the apology/wedding and post it for us to see!

Rothmans · 04-07-2011 01:31PM

Yes, but you have to mean it.

ColeTrain · 04-07-2011 01:31PM

Lando Griffin wrote: »

After a few months on the dry my OH finally gave me permission to go for a few drinks round at my friend’s house.
She warned me about my behaviour and I was out to prove to her that I was a changed mature man who could handle ones drink.
Everything was going well until the beer ran dry and we started drinking wine and spirits (whiskey).
Our host Tom ( not his real name ) fell asleep after a while and we decided to have some fun.
We raided Toms wife’s (who is quite the looker) wardrobe and started trying on her clothes on and fooling around having a laugh.
That’s all I remember.
Yesterday at home I was rudely awoken by a very angry OH holding a pair of red knickers demanding an explanation.
I told her the story backed up by images from my phone.
She is totally peed off with me now but not as much as Tom and his wife are, apparently all her good sexy stuff is in bits and her room a mess.
We have a wedding this weekend and the OH doesn’t want to go as Tom & wife will be there, and she has banned me from drink. I really want to go as all the lads will be there and I want to prove that I can handle my drink.
Do you think I should go round to Toms and apologise to his wife hence tricking the OH into thinking that it is ok to go to wedding and have a session?

I think you should take the first step on the road to recovery and admit to yourself that you're a crossdresser.

westendgirlie · 04-07-2011 01:32PM

You go with Toms wife and Tom can go with your wife.

But don't do that putting keys in a jar thing..... Drinking n driving is bad!

FatherLen · 04-07-2011 01:33PM

Prove that you can handle your drink???

it doesnt sound like you can!

Leeg17 · 04-07-2011 01:33PM

Whipped

Cat Melodeon · 04-07-2011 01:34PM

Lando Griffin wrote: »

I told her the story backed up by images from my phone.

Clearly we can't give advice until we see the evidence.

westies4ever · 04-07-2011 01:34PM

Lando Griffin wrote: »

We have a wedding this weekend and the OH doesn’t want to go as Tom & wife will be there, and she has banned me from drink. I really want to go as all the lads will be there and I want to prove that I can handle my drink.

Umm - I think you've already proved that you cant handle your drink - I'm assuming that is not the first time you've got into bother?

My OH can be the same - everytime he drinks he just goes mental - its like hes a different person, loud, obnoxious and annoying. he always manages to insult someone, or fall and injure himself or lose wallet, keys etc etc. Thankfully, he's finally grown up and very rarely bothers now - he know himself he just cant do it. Having said that - I dread weddings (havent enjoyed one with him yet) and large social gatherings. Once he goes over the fourth pint - its game over.

cml387 · 04-07-2011 01:35PM

Cat Melodeon wrote: »

Clearly we can't give advice until we see the evidence.

Oh Jebus no!

AudreyHepburn · 04-07-2011 01:37PM

I think your first step needs to be acknowledging you have a problem with drink and that it is probably best for you avoid it altogether. There is nothing wrong with this and you certainly wouldn't be the only person in such a situation. Then, for you own and others sakes, go a find some help, AA etc.

Of course you need to apologise to all involved but I would think it might take them a while to forgive you.

sbsquarepants · 04-07-2011 01:37PM

Lando Griffin wrote: »

After a few months on the dry my OH finally gave me permission to go for a few drinks round at my friend’s house.
She warned me about my behaviour and I was out to prove to her that I was a changed mature man who could handle ones drink.
Everything was going well until the beer ran dry and we started drinking wine and spirits (whiskey).
Our host Tom ( not his real name ) fell asleep after a while and we decided to have some fun.
We raided Toms wife’s (who is quite the looker) wardrobe and started trying on her clothes on and fooling around having a laugh.
That’s all I remember.
Yesterday at home I was rudely awoken by a very angry OH holding a pair of red knickers demanding an explanation.
I told her the story backed up by images from my phone.
She is totally peed off with me now but not as much as Tom and his wife are, apparently all her good sexy stuff is in bits and her room a mess.
We have a wedding this weekend and the OH doesn’t want to go as Tom & wife will be there, and she has banned me from drink. I really want to go as all the lads will be there and I want to prove that I can handle my drink.
Do you think I should go round to Toms and apologise to his wife hence tricking the OH into thinking that it is ok to go to wedding and have a session?

Having highlighted the pertinent sections and re-read your post, i can not see any possibility of this wedding ending in disaster. You carry on my good man, and do report on the outcome. Feel free to involve some snaps of "toms" wife, even if they are not strictly relevant to the story!

W.Shakes-Beer · 04-07-2011 01:37PM

We raided Toms wife..

i thought the story was gonna get good there for a second.

mackeire · 04-07-2011 01:38PM

I think its time to find a new OH thats not a control freak.

TheZohanS · 04-07-2011 01:40PM

Lando Griffin wrote: »

Our host Tom ( not his real name ) fell asleep after a while and we decided to have some fun.
We raided Toms wife’s (who is quite the looker) wardrobe and started trying on her clothes on and fooling around having a laugh.

That's not normal behaviour.

blaze1 · 04-07-2011 01:41PM

Tell your mrs to lighten up Op... You were out round a mates house having a laugh...

But i dont think raiding your mates mrs undie drawers is normal tbh and if my mrs found another womens kecks in my pocket i doubt she'd be too pleased.

Sonics2k · 04-07-2011 01:42PM

W.Shakes-Beer wrote: »

i thought the story was gonna get good there for a second.

That's about the point I got interested, and then a few moments later very disappointed.

_feedback_ · 04-07-2011 01:43PM

Lando Griffin wrote: »

Our host Tom ( not his real name ) fell asleep after a while and we decided to have some fun.

At that point I was expecting the permanent marker to come out for a good ould reliable moustache.

It went to a whole different place when you started jumping into his wifes knickers.

Dermo · 04-07-2011 01:44PM

Go see a shrink. Your OH is not your problem.

whatdoicare · 04-07-2011 01:44PM

All you can do here is send an apology with a voucher for ann summers or similar to friend to replace her stuff and if you know what's good for you you'll get one for yr wife too (including one for jewellery store) then give up drinking for good- you have now learnt a costly lesson about the benefits of sobriety.

Hail 2 Da Chimp · 04-07-2011 01:45PM

Bring a bottle of wine round to Toms house as a form of apology, you'll never what'll happen...

PCPhoto · 04-07-2011 01:49PM

Dermo wrote: »

Go see a shrink. Your OH is not your problem.

forget the shrink ... give up now ... you clearly dont know the one thats one too many !!

give up the booze or you will ruin your life !!

oh and there's no normal guy would raid the knicker drawer of a friends WIFE !! - thats just saaaad.

bet you were nicker sniffing !!!

gracehopper · 04-07-2011 01:52PM

Tell your wife to relax, buy some presents, make it up to your mate and his missus and whatever you do dont give up the drink because of this. Your grand, people get steamed from time to time.

Cross-dressin, It can happen to the best of us!

Sweatynutsack · 04-07-2011 01:52PM

Could have been worse, you could have went streaking down the main street looking for the nearest KFC

westendgirlie · 04-07-2011 01:54PM

Sweatynutsack wrote: »

Could have been worse, you could have went streaking down the main street looking for the nearest KFC

Wanna expand a bit more on that story?

steve_cass · 04-07-2011 01:54PM

After a few months on the dry my OH finally gave me permission to go for a few drinks round at my friend’s house.

We raided Toms wife’s (who is quite the looker) wardrobe and started trying on her clothes on and fooling around having a laugh

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

The man club called and they want their spine back !!

Liam Byrne · 04-07-2011 01:54PM

You say that you're out to prove that you can handle drinking and know when to stop.

When are you going to start trying ?

themadchef · 04-07-2011 01:55PM

Take me to your leader, i must learn from her.

My bítch whipping technique needs a little tweeking.

Orando Broom · 04-07-2011 01:57PM

Tell your missus to shove her conservatism up her fetid box. You like a drink and you seem like a gas. Drink the **** out of the wedding with or without that prude.

Also Tom's wife WANTS you bad. She's cross that she didn't get to be with you when you were parading round the house in her smalls.

FloatingVoter · 04-07-2011 01:58PM

While you were trying on the clothes, did you notice one of your friends with a camera ? He'll be the one who was pretending to be drunk. Check out YouTube or Facebook just in case.:rolleyes:

Drinking game gone wrong. Apologise?

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