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Irish children receive more money for holy communion

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,264 ✭✭✭✭jester77


    Is communion not about eating a symbolic piece of Jesus?

    Since when did it turn into a circus where it's all about fashion & money. Surely the church and schools (seeing as how one is run by the other) have something to answer for here. Giving €20 or more to a child is obscene, they have no need for this sort of money. No wonder the economy is falling apart, Irish people appear to have no concept of money or its value at all :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,637 ✭✭✭Show Time


    http://www.thejournal.ie/irish-children-receive-more-money-for-holy-communion-survey-134032-May2011/



    Where you spoiled for your communion or did you know a rich spoilt brat who got more than you?.
    £300 back in 81' which was a hell of a lot of money at the time.

    Most of it was spent on Lego and my poor Mam had to deal with a lego city across half her frontroom for a year or more.


  • Site Banned Posts: 328 ✭✭michelledoh


    c_man wrote: »
    They used it as a downpayment on some apartments in an up and coming area of Leitrim.

    Communion money was the life blood of the construction industry!

    That would explain it all... in negative equity now i'd say! And in an ironic twist of fate they are going to use pension (people who did save their communion money) to try and rescue the economy!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 758 ✭✭✭whydoibother?


    I'd say I got about £300 back in 1993. Most people gave me £5, £10 or £20, but one person gave me £100 which was quite ridiculous, but very generous.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,178 ✭✭✭✭NothingMan


    jester77 wrote: »
    Is communion not about eating a symbolic piece of Jesus?

    Nope, the Cathlic church believes in transubstantiation and the bread and wine physically become the body and blood of Jesus christ. So is canabalism a more noble reason for communion than cold hard cash?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 15,515 ✭✭✭✭admiralofthefleet


    im going to a communion afters this saturday, all ill be putting in the card is a tenner. im not mean but im not giving an 8 year old my saturday gambling money


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,801 ✭✭✭✭suicide_circus


    Giving children money for their communion is awfully tacky. It's a solemn religious rite not a game show. Communions now are obscene and crass affairs and are just another symptom of the horrible parenting which goes on, resulting in the obnoxious, spoiled and ignorant fat little bastards which pass for Irish children today.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 784 ✭✭✭thecornflake


    I got the best gift of all, the holy sacrament . . . . . . ah who am i kidding i made a tidy bundle. I remember some of the kids in my class getting thousands too, but they were little goodie two shoes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 758 ✭✭✭whydoibother?


    Did everybody else spend their communion money? I agree with the point that kids that young don't have anything to spend it on. Mine went into my bank account and I forgot all about it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,243 ✭✭✭✭Jesus Wept


    Whole thing creeps me out no end.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,428 ✭✭✭busyliving


    I think i got somewhere in the region of 160 pounds about in 1996 or 1997 don't really remember ha ha

    But i know lads who got over a grand for their confirmation which is crazy.

    But i don't know if people still bring there kids around to all the family getting money from every realtive which i think is really sad.

    Some of my uncles do that with their kids now, these are the same ones who gave me or my brothers nothing for our communions or confimations and are shocked when my dad says he can't afford to give them money(when he really can't, been on the dole for 5 years now sometimes getting work for a couple of weeks here and there)

    \Rant


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,758 ✭✭✭Stercus Accidit


    As a child I felt left out when all my friends got their communion money, looking back now I'm lucky I wasn't indoctrinated into a religion.

    So I got €0 and a clear conscience, I dunno if that was worth it!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,243 ✭✭✭✭Jesus Wept


    If I have kids, around communion time I may offer them a trip to Disneyworld instead.
    And a hooker for confirmation obviouslys.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 645 ✭✭✭chicken fingers


    I got forty-five pounds in 1996. My younger brother got over a hundred two damn years later. :mad:
    Ahh sure youre only a youngfella.

    In 92 I got 67 pounds and it went straight into the bank.
    Giving children money on their confirmation or comunion is such a dirty trick to try to positively connect religion with reward.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,944 ✭✭✭✭4zn76tysfajdxp


    So it's not just Boards members that think ill of you :pac:
    ...

    Right. :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,933 ✭✭✭holystungun9


    It's bizarre isn't it. In the majority of cases (my guess at least), on one hand the kids are being taught about some geezer from ages ago that fed loads of people with the makings of two snackboxes, died and came back to life and now lives in this amazing VIP lounge up in the sky, yet on the other, they are not being taught about value of money, ( I made, like, 2000 euro like, I'm going to buy an iphone, uhh, a laptop and like, lots of clothes like) general respect, courtesy and graciousness. i.e. say thanks you little f*cker, understand that the gift / money didn't fall out of the sky, and don't be camparing and making comments about 'he only got this much and I got this much, she only gave me this much but aunty so and so gave me this.

    If anybody is going to make a teaching point about this whole farce of a 'day out', then give the kid a background in the reality of gifts and money etc, make sure they say thank you etc. That will serve them much better in life than the illusion of the guy who did magic and now watches over us and sees bad things happen and doesn't intervine, and watches over me and judges my actions.


  • Users Awaiting Email Confirmation Posts: 15,001 ✭✭✭✭Pepe LeFrits


    First communion is generally done about what, 7 or 8 years of age?

    Kids getting big 3 figures or 4 figure sums is insane.

    If I recall correctly, I was given about £20-25 quid... I guess it would have been around 1991. It all went straight into a bank account.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,826 ✭✭✭DebDynamite


    God, I find the whole Communion "afters" thing so tacky.

    Back in my day it was only very close family who would go for a meal in a restaurant afterwards and there certainly was no such thing as Communion invites or Communion party supplies, like papers plates, cups and banners.

    Also, family member from overseas didn't travel back home for it either.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 363 ✭✭Rockn


    I got £20 for my communion in 1989. My clothes cost about £20-30 max. I remember going into town to get my jacket.
    Dad: What do you think of this one? £9.
    Me: I hate it.
    Dad: Wait this one's only £7. What do you think of this?
    Me: Hate it more.
    Dad: It's perfect, we'll get this one.

    That £20 went straight into the bank. I didn't know what to do with it. It was like 100 weeks pocket money.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,243 ✭✭✭kelle


    For my first holy communion in 1978, I got 7 £1 notes from 7 different parents whose children were getting their communion along with me. I gave all the notes to Mum - who gave all the money back to the children of each of those parents!

    It was called "swapping the pounds" and quite common back then.

    I was smarter when it came to my confirmation - I held onto my money (all £30 of it!).


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  • Posts: 6,691 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I had just moved over here from France. Wasn't even baptised! Then I decided I wanted to make my communion (because I wanted the dress), so I got baptised. ...didn't even know about the money! Was just an added bonus. No idea how much I made though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,266 ✭✭✭Overflow


    pfffft... I was just a confirmation here in Norway and the kid got €4500 and thats the average amount kids get here! :eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,331 ✭✭✭RichieC


    Can't remember what I got for my communion and confo... I remember feeling like I had a lot of money for a while.. I might not even have counted it tbh..

    Yes I'm still awful with money.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,178 ✭✭✭✭NothingMan


    Screw those kids anyway. I'm now a full grown adult with a full time job and I have almost €300 in my bank account :cool:. Yeah, who wants to touch me?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,933 ✭✭✭holystungun9


    Overflow wrote: »
    pfffft... I was just a confirmation here in Norway and the kid got €4500 and thats the average amount kids get here! :eek:

    Bet those guys won't blow it all on Linden Village and phone credit.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,794 ✭✭✭chillywilly


    ...

    Right. :(

    i was kidding :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 479 ✭✭Old_-_School


    I got £120 and ironed all the notes every night for a month


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,490 ✭✭✭Fluorescence


    I don't think I made more than £30 for my communion back in 1998 or €100 for my confirmation in 2002. Both times I thought I was loaded until I saw the kids in my class getting hundreds and hundreds, along with gifts etc :eek:. Why do they get so much?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,490 ✭✭✭Fluorescence


    NothingMan wrote: »
    Screw those kids anyway. I'm now a full grown adult with a full time job and I have almost €300 in my bank account :cool:. Yeah, who wants to touch me?

    *prods forehead*


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,571 ✭✭✭7sr2z3fely84g5


    celtic tiger ireland communion 2007 dress code and costs-

    http://www.rte.ie/tv/theafternoonshow/2007/0403/parenting12.html
    So how can it cost €4,000 you might ask?
    Ailin Quinlan (journalist with The Irish Examiner) found out.
    An example of how a luxury Communion can spin out of control:

    Exclusive pure silk designer dress from Milan or Paris - €500 - plus
    Commemorative Satin hanger- €25
    Handmade headpiece- €65
    Hand-dyed silk shoes - €100
    Gloves- €12
    Tights - €6
    Parasol- €25
    Satin handbag - €25
    Hair with 2 trials -€90
    Fake/spray tan - €55
    Manicure - €38
    Limousine €300 or Horse-Drawn Carriage : €850
    Helicopter Ride- €225
    Mother's outfit - €500
    Restaurant - €1,000
    Disbursements to other children - €600
    Bouncy castle - €120
    Total (including horse-drawn carriage) : €4,221

    (Source: Ailin Quinlan, The Irish Examiner)


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