Do girls generally make up lies about other girls?

seafood dunleavy · 30-01-2011 05:00AM #1

Know a girl very well and shes lovely.Then had a friend say shes this and that.So is she talkin s**te?just to say i dont believe a word she says.

eddison · 30-01-2011 05:28AM

Hi,

Guys are experts at understanding other guys. Girls are experts at understanding other girls. There are exceptions to this, of course, but you wanna know where a girl is coming from, then ask another girl, same with a dude.
This is kinda obvious and not obvious. As a guy, you see a girl going out with such and such a guy, and you wonder why ? does she not know he is a real p****?
to answer your question, take on board what the girl said- look for little signs! the devil is in the detail, and a perosn will always show what they are really like, but in small ways. Ignore these small things at your peril. So take it with a pinch of salt. don't ignore it, or dismiss it, but don't fully believe it either, until you see for yourself.
Now the girl has said this, this will tell you allot. If she is lying, then why? does she like you? Maybe she does not want to loose her friend? Maybe her friend is not very nice- who knows- just keep an eye out.

Ickle Magoo · 30-01-2011 12:17PM

Some people lie, some don't. There are no crass generalisations that can be made about a particular gender that will tell you if this particular girl is lying or not. Why don't you ask around for the opinions of some other people?

Dudess · 30-01-2011 12:52PM

Oh for god's sake, don't be so stupid OP - that's like something a nine-year-old would ask. Think would you?! :mad:

Ickle Magoo · 30-01-2011 12:59PM

Given this was posted at 4am and the lack of advice posters are going to be able to offer due to the generalisations required, I'm locking this.

Do girls generally make up lies about other girls?

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