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How do people feel about getting older?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,293 ✭✭✭✭Mint Sauce


    foxinsox wrote: »
    Why yes young man, I have heard it can happen!

    ;)

    Only heard?

    ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,228 ✭✭✭epgc3fyqirnbsx


    I'm a crank bastard at the best of times which really pisses people off bu it's kind of expected off you when you're older and people just say you're a character so I'm looking forward to that


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,044 ✭✭✭gcgirl


    Saaron wrote: »
    I'm 20 and I already hate how my face looks. I think I have less confidence about myself than a few years ago when I looked worse. Definitely not looking forward to getting older :/ BLAH!

    (I'm a girl btw)
    I think every woman feels like that at that age


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 614 ✭✭✭Saaron


    gcgirl wrote: »
    I think every woman feels like that at that age

    I sure hope so.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 465 ✭✭merengueca


    I totally and utterly freaked out about turning 30. There was no dignity in the events of that day!

    Too make matters worse I have a twin who f££king embraced it, to the extent of throwing a party! I didn't attend.
    Slight social nastiness for anyone who attended - a twins 30th with only one of them bothering to show up.

    With the exception of that day I am normally a sane, rational, emotionally stabe, level headed person.

    Beware of 30 - it can totally F%$k you over! :o


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,800 ✭✭✭Senna


    Easy to see who all the female posters are;

    Female: OH GOD I'M NEARLY 30
    Male; Meh


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 7,935 ✭✭✭Calibos


    Senna wrote: »
    Easy to see who all the female posters are;

    Female: OH GOD I'M NEARLY 30
    Male; Meh

    Theres a reason for that you know.

    Female: OMG I'm nearly 30, my ovaries are dying!! I've a little over 10 years of reproductive life left!! :eek:

    Male: 50 or 60 more years of ejaculatory potential left. Meh. ;):D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,370 ✭✭✭✭Son Of A Vidic


    OP - What's the point worrying about something you've got no control over. We've all been getting older since the day we were born, so why worry?
    Some people roll over and die, or conform to a stereotype. Of course this need not happen. I hate the way women off a certain age seem to adopt a short hairstyle like a uniform. As if to say goodbye to their femininity or womanhood. That's the only thing I've ever said to my wife - not to crop her beautiful hair into some shorter style when she gets older.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    I'm 54. I think it's all about attitude to be honest, my second wife reckons I'm very young at heart.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,294 ✭✭✭jos28


    I hate the way women off a certain age seem to adopt a short hairstyle like a uniform. As if to say goodbye to their femininity or womanhood.
    Its nothing to do with saying goodbye to your womanhood, its more to do with facing enormous hairdressing bills. Cutting and colouring grey hair is VERY expensive.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,226 ✭✭✭boobar


    I dont think men have much of a problem as they just get sexier. But women, stuff starts to sag and grey hair isn't very nice. Do they go grey all over? Grey hairy legs? A grey garden?

    Im only 28 and worried about this stuff already. I have just realised that i havn't downloaded any new music from the charts in 2010. Whereas i used to years ago. Im listening to alot of country music and not embarrassed to say so either. I used to hide the fact that i secretly loved country music. Well the american country anyway. I also cant stand the radio turned up high, it deafens me with the amount of crap thats on it nowadays.

    How do other people feel about it? Am i the only one who is worried?

    Hey I know where you're coming from....I started getting into Easy Listening stuff where as a few years ago I would have been listening to Nirvana and the Manics Holy Bible album. One day I noticed that I'd tuned in to talk radio (The Last Word) and then started watching Vincent Browne....Oh God, I got old and I didn't even see it coming.

    I'm a guy, in answer to your question I don't worry about getting old....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,431 ✭✭✭Sky King


    jackie1974 wrote: »
    .....when I was 20 I used to think I would have a totally different mind when I was this age but I don't I still think the same just a bit more rationally.....

    God yeah, I spent my 20's worrying about leaving my 20's behind and losing all my cool hobbies and interests and becoming my dad watching horse racing all day on TV without putting any bets on, listening to Ronan Collins and the highlight of the day going to bed at 8.30 to watch golf.

    Ten years on, I still fkin hate horse racing. AND golf, thankfully. I still like cars and music.

    I feel pretty much the exact same as I did ten years ago otherwise...I think. I probably don't like packed pubs or getting smashed every weekend as much but yeah, otherwise the same. No danger of turing into the old man yet.

    I hope I'll still be saying all this when I am 40...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,294 ✭✭✭rainbowdrop


    TheZohan wrote: »
    I'm 54. I think it's all about attitude to be honest, my second wife reckons I'm very young at heart.

    Your 54?

    :eek::eek::eek:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    Your 54?

    :eek::eek::eek:

    Nah...I just tell people that so they'll tell me how well I'm looking...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,731 ✭✭✭✭entropi


    Doesnt bother me in the slightest...I turned 30 there two days ago and feel no different. Maybe the fact I can still pass for a 21 year old helps :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,492 ✭✭✭Thomas828


    For me getting older is just an inescapable fact of life. And that's always been my view. When I was 20 I thought I was at the height of my physical prowess and that it was all downhill from there. Now I'll be 40 this year. My interests have changed and I'm starting to go grey, but I don't think I'm any less healthy than I was 20 years ago. The only real difference is I've got more experience behind me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 486 ✭✭jackie1974


    Doesnt bother me in the slightest...I turned 30 there two days ago and feel no different. Maybe the fact I can still pass for a 21 year old helps :pac:

    LOL I got asked for my I.D. going into a nightclub in Cork when I was 31, I was delighted with myself, the Oil of Ulay is working :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,198 ✭✭✭strokemyclover


    A bag for me, a bag for you, let's get wrecked on bags of glue!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 262 ✭✭Awful_Bliss


    Really bothered me when I turned 30. I'm 31 now. Since I turned 30, the recession got worse, then there was the 2010 year, I lost my job etc.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,758 ✭✭✭✭TeddyTedson


    I dont think men have much of a problem as they just get sexier. But women, stuff starts to sag and grey hair isn't very nice. Do they go grey all over? Grey hairy legs? A grey garden?

    Im only 28 and worried about this stuff already. I have just realised that i havn't downloaded any new music from the charts in 2010. Whereas i used to years ago. Im listening to alot of country music and not embarrassed to say so either. I used to hide the fact that i secretly loved country music. Well the american country anyway. I also cant stand the radio turned up high, it deafens me with the amount of crap thats on it nowadays.

    How do other people feel about it? Am i the only one who is worried?
    Ah come on now.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,038 ✭✭✭jackiebaron


    Kiera wrote: »
    I'm not worried about it at all. I'm 31 and alll my bits are still in the right places due to swimming 5 days a week :) Its all about having a young and fun mind and never letting it get old :)

    I bet you're a savage shag as well, Kiera. And that's what it's all about!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18 mcarrol2


    I always thought I was grand, never saw age creeping up on me.
    But as soon as the nurse that was helping me wipe my arse called me grandpa I knew I wasn't as young as I used to be..


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,543 ✭✭✭JerryHandbag


    I cant ****ing wait til I'm 65, I'll be on the golf course every day of the week (or whatever the golf course equivalent will be in the 2040's) whilst running my empire via a few phone calls.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,028 ✭✭✭✭--LOS--


    I have very little boobage to sag :P

    Really can't see myself being your typical old person, you don't have to change with age, boards is a testament to that, there's no reason why you can't get on with people of any age. Ofc there's nothing attractive about being old and in ill-health, that's why you have to look after yourself when you are young but happiness is just as important as any amount of healthy eating and exercise.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,234 ✭✭✭Ardennes1944


    i feel very sad at the thought of Eminem getting old and retiring. oh and me??....who cares


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,038 ✭✭✭jackiebaron


    Exercise and loads of fruit and veg is the key.

    There's nothing you can do about grey hair or baldness so don't bother trying. Concentrate on the stuff you can control like your energy and your health. A 50 year old with a healthy brain and body can feel younger than a 25 year old who eats crap and watches garbage on TV all the time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 851 ✭✭✭PrincessLola


    Yeah I'm 19 and this stuff worries me, because you always hear guys talking about how girls are hottest/ at their peak in their early twenties. So I have only 4 years until I start to go downhill?
    That's depressing :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 486 ✭✭jackie1974


    Yeah I'm 19 and this stuff worries me, because you always hear guys talking about how girls are hottest/ at their peak in their early twenties. So I have only 4 years until I start to go downhill?
    That's depressing :(

    You think women hit their peak in their 20s you are so mistaken, they don't they hit their peak until their 30s, Promise ;) so you have a long way to go


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,228 ✭✭✭epgc3fyqirnbsx


    Don't get older, just get better :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,699 ✭✭✭deathrider


    Sex, drugs, and Rock 'N' Roll keep one young and healthy :P


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