fat girls??

I-Shot-Jr · 11-01-2011 08:30PM

To be honest I'd put mine in anything.

Novella · 11-01-2011 08:31PM

sanderelle wrote: »

my problem is that i have a few pounds on me, and long story at a bar one night the guys i was with were having a conversation that i overheard as i came back from the loo, one guy was saying that i was sound, very pretty, but he couldnt go near me as i was so fat.........kinda hurt, so it just got me wondering, thats all

This is AH, so if you're looking for some kind advice probably not the best place to post, OP. Seriously though, not every guy is gonna think like that guy. If you were really thin, some men wouldn't like you for that reason. Different strokes for different folks.

Rodar08 · 11-01-2011 08:31PM

Ugh and ... jeeeez!!! Some people should be interviewed before being allowed on boards. What a stuuupid conversation. What about this kind of 'fat' girl - well proportioned, beautiful, blonde, confident and successful. That is all.

AckwelFoley · 11-01-2011 08:31PM

sanderelle wrote: »

my problem is that i have a few pounds on me, and long story at a bar one night the guys i was with were having a conversation that i overheard as i came back from the loo, one guy was saying that i was sound, very pretty, but he couldnt go near me as i was so fat.........kinda hurt, so it just got me wondering, thats all

..dont worry,he probably had a tiny penis and knew that doggy was never going to happen

hondasam · 11-01-2011 08:32PM

Another Desperate Woman on AH.

looking for sympathy.

HellFireClub · 11-01-2011 08:32PM

If you read any female profiles on dating sites, it's girls who seem to have issues with guys having any weight at all on them in terms of a beer belly, often carefully dressed up in language like, "must look after himself physically/be in good physical shape", etc.

Being a straight bloke, I don't read guys profiles but I doubt you'd see any with barely hidden references to a girls weight on the profile if you were to go looking...

MIN2511 · 11-01-2011 08:34PM

sanderelle wrote: »

my problem is that i have a few pounds on me, and long story at a bar one night the guys i was with were having a conversation that i overheard as i came back from the loo, one guy was saying that i was sound, very pretty, but he couldnt go near me as i was so fat.........kinda hurt, so it just got me wondering, thats all

How 'big' are you?

biko · 11-01-2011 08:34PM

Don't worry I'm sure there some bloke out there for you.

How's about Buster?
Do fat chicks dig fat guys or skinny guys?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F6fQnTyEniM

Btw, you should know there is a Personal Issues under Soc catefgory forum where people will actually be helpful.

AckwelFoley · 11-01-2011 08:34PM

HellFireClub wrote: »

If you read any female profiles on dating sites, it's girls who seem to have issues with guys having any weight at all on them in terms of a beer belly, often carefully dressed up in language like, "must look after himself physically/be in good physical shape", etc.

Being a straight bloke, I don't read guys profiles but I doubt you'd see any with barely hidden references to a girls weight on the profile if you were to go looking...

I suspect thats because if men say she must be fit hes a prick, if women say it..well its ok,she likes sporty men

Its not fair but true

sanderelle · 11-01-2011 08:35PM

Rodar08 wrote: »

Ugh and ... jeeeez!!! Some people should be interviewed before being allowed on boards. What a stuuupid conversation. What about this kind of 'fat' girl - well proportioned, beautiful, blonde, confident and successful. That is all.

doubt you would have passed the interview as you dont EVEN REALISE THAT YOU DONT HAVE TO READ THREADS YOU DONT LIKE??:rolleyes:
:P

LambsEye · 11-01-2011 08:36PM

I'm still undecided as to whether of not this dude is serious.

If so, Sanderelle, what constitutes fat in your opinion?

Is this fat:

http://l.yimg.com/ao/i/i/life/img/who/ricki-lee_370x472.jpg

Or your mom? (Seen here on her wedding day:)

http://media.photobucket.com/image/Fat%20woman/oleman180/fat-man-fat-woman.jpg

HIIIIYOOOOOOO! Had to be done I felt.

Poor Uncle Tom · 11-01-2011 08:37PM

sanderelle wrote: »

my problem is that i have a few pounds on me, and long story at a bar one night the guys i was with were having a conversation that i overheard as i came back from the loo, one guy was saying that i was sound, very pretty, but he couldnt go near me as i was so fat.........kinda hurt, so it just got me wondering, thats all

That's cosmetic, if he's that shallow you're better off without him, anyone should get to know the person before going out with them.

LambsEye · 11-01-2011 08:38PM

Oh crumbs. I was busy and didn't read the other comments. Now I'm offended someone AND made a "your mom's so fat joke."

Lesson learned. Swifter replies.

HellFireClub · 11-01-2011 08:38PM

snyper wrote: »

I suspect thats because if men say she must be fit hes a price, if women say it..well its ok,she likes sporty men

Its not fair but true

Exactly, it's grand for a woman to say she only wants to hear from sporty/fit guys, but if a guy says it, he is perceived as being a shallow pr*ck...

Rodar08 · 11-01-2011 08:40PM

Not directing my last comment at OP ... I should've pointed out I was directing it at some of the responses to OP ..

FR.Ted Crilly · 11-01-2011 08:41PM

sanderelle wrote: »

doubt you would have passed the interview as you dont EVEN REALISE THAT YOU DONT HAVE TO READ THREADS YOU DONT LIKE??:rolleyes:
:P

ha ahha dont judge a book by its cover its a funny thread really:pac:

Gummy Panda · 11-01-2011 08:41PM

sanderelle wrote: »

my problem is that i have a few pounds on me, and long story at a bar one night the guys i was with were having a conversation that i overheard as i came back from the loo, one guy was saying that i was sound, very pretty, but he couldnt go near me as i was so fat.........kinda hurt, so it just got me wondering, thats all

should've interrupted and said you do anal but he'll never get a chance now

Sanjuro · 11-01-2011 08:41PM

sanderelle wrote: »

my problem is that i have a few pounds on me, and long story at a bar one night the guys i was with were having a conversation that i overheard as i came back from the loo, one guy was saying that i was sound, very pretty, but he couldnt go near me as i was so fat.........kinda hurt, so it just got me wondering, thats all

People like that aren't worth the time of day, OP. Looks fade, people get old, and it always, ALWAYS comes down to personality. Everybody is attracted to different things in people so don't let one person's opinion get you down. Sure, it's easier for the cookie-cutter skinny girls, but that's down to what we're all told is attractive.

Oh, and good luck with this thread being in AH! Probably not the place you should have brought this issue up!

arybvtcw0eolkf · 11-01-2011 08:42PM

Personally speaking I wouldn't find overweight/fat girls sexually attractive at all.

Even when I grow a belly it disgusts me, I just prefer strong, fit & healthy looking people.

However I suppose if I found myself growing attracted to someone I'd normally consider to be fat I wouldn't let that stand in the way of what might be a great relationship.

AH reply - I heard fat chic's give a great ride because they're desparate for more (*cough* B/S).

Bykobap · 11-01-2011 08:42PM

Athlone scumbags, google it.

Cpt_Blackbeard · 11-01-2011 08:43PM

Everybody knows a chubby chaser...

Big Nasty · 11-01-2011 08:43PM

I would like me a large pretty lady with the whole burlesque thing going on and cleavage overflowing her leather dress - there, I said it!

hondasam · 11-01-2011 08:43PM

has everyone gone a bit soft all of a sudden ?

see how women manipulate :pac:

Hail 2 Da Chimp · 11-01-2011 08:44PM

Most guys love fat girls, aka practice girls.

sanderelle · 11-01-2011 08:44PM

LambsEye wrote: »

I'm still undecided as to whether of not this dude is serious.

If so, Sanderelle, what constitutes fat in your opinion?

Is this fat:

http://l.yimg.com/ao/i/i/life/img/who/ricki-lee_370x472.jpg

Or your mom? (Seen here on her wedding day:)

http://media.photobucket.com/image/Fat%20woman/oleman180/fat-man-fat-woman.jpg

HIIIIYOOOOOOO! Had to be done I felt.

lol, well im def not the second image,lol, bit plumper than the first, by the way, as someone suggested-i am not looking for sympathy, im fine with my weight...ok could do with loosing a few pounds, but i was seriously just wondering about this whole thing, ya no?? i wonder would most "fat" girls feel as if they are passed by on the dating scene

candy-gal1 · 11-01-2011 08:48PM

Nothing wrong with a bit of a porker

BTW what classifies a girl as fat? just curious, everyone has a different viewpoint on this anyway.

HellFireClub · 11-01-2011 08:48PM

sanderelle wrote: »

lol, well im def not the second image,lol, bit plumper than the first, by the way, as someone suggested-i am not looking for sympathy, im fine with my weight...ok could do with loosing a few pounds, but i was seriously just wondering about this whole thing, ya no?? i wonder would most "fat" girls feel as if they are passed by on the dating scene

You don't actually sound "fat" at all, as you are describing yourself, a few extra pounds isn't "fat"...

This is fat: https://us.v-cdn.net/6034073/uploads/attachments/398588/142883.jpg

Gummy Panda · 11-01-2011 08:48PM

sanderelle wrote: »

lol, well im def not the second image,lol, bit plumper than the first, by the way, as someone suggested-i am not looking for sympathy, im fine with my weight...ok could do with loosing a few pounds, but i was seriously just wondering about this whole thing, ya no?? i wonder would most "fat" girls feel as if they are passed by on the dating scene

Tbh could be a sexual attraction thing or a insecure macho thing e.g. I won't go out with her as lads might give me stick.

candy-gal1 · 11-01-2011 08:49PM

sanderelle wrote: »

lol, well im def not the second image,lol, bit plumper than the first, by the way, as someone suggested-i am not looking for sympathy, im fine with my weight...ok could do with loosing a few pounds, but i was seriously just wondering about this whole thing, ya no?? i wonder would most "fat" girls feel as if they are passed by on the dating scene

the first pic is quite normal imho

pow wow · 11-01-2011 08:50PM

Nothing clears your boards mailbox quicker than telling would-be 'admirers' that you've gained a few pounds since the last pic you posted on the LL pics thread - works a treat I find

Sortof non-AH reply to OP - I don't think chunky chicks have the same 'luck' with guys, no. It only takes one to say yes though!

fat girls??

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