If you found out your girlfriend was a transexual what would you do?

alwaysadub · 24-10-2010 01:40AM

gurramok wrote: »

How? Yes, they should reveal their past in a relationship no matter how beautiful they are, how does that affect a relationship though?(assuming no starting family business involved)

Because most men(and women) would be a bit freaked and upset that the person they shared their life and their bed with was born the same sex as them, and presumably spent a few years growing up living as a male.
Of course it's going to affect a relationship. Do you really think someone's just gonna turn around after finding out and say oh that's ok, no biggie, now whats on the telly.

evercloserunion · 24-10-2010 01:40AM

Corsendonk wrote: »

Yeah the show was called There is Something about Miriam on Sky TV. 6 lads had to compete for £10,000 and her. Then the winner was told she wasn't a woman. I attached a photo of "her".

I still defo would tbh.

gurramok · 24-10-2010 01:41AM

Cavehill Red wrote: »

Perhaps their minds require counselling and their bodies are those of mutilated and augmented males?
They're not women. No ovaries, still lacking one of the X chromosomes that are required for feminine gender.
In the case of people who've had an operation to 'change gender', all they've achieved with their hormones and surgery is to create an outward look they prefer. It doesn't make them women.

Oh boy, are you from the redneck hills of Virginia or perhaps from a certain Islamic Republic?

No offence but your thinking on the above statement is really backward like from biblical times.

Why does it bother you that these women are women? If you passed one in the street, you'd ogle one for your fantasy as any other woman so why discriminate??

Kasabian · 24-10-2010 01:42AM

gurramok wrote: »

I see. I'd expect any such TS to reveal their past in such relationships. Its still no grounds for discrimination though as they are women through in body and mind.

Where am I discriminating against anyone? I am talking about deceit, the same as if I met a woman and started a relationship with her thinking she was single only to find she was married.

Sisko · 24-10-2010 01:43AM

Craebear wrote: »

What a fine bunch of ignorant fools you all are.

Its ignorant to demand every straight bloke not feel repulsed at the idea of having sex with a transsexual.

Kasabian · 24-10-2010 01:43AM

Craebear wrote: »

What a fine bunch of ignorant fools you all are.

Is that your contribution oh wise one.

gurramok · 24-10-2010 01:44AM

alwaysadub wrote: »

Because most men(and women) would be a bit freaked and upset that the person they shared their life and their bed with was born the same sex as them, and presumably spent a few years growing up living as a male.
Of course it's going to affect a relationship. Do you really think someone's just gonna turn around after finding out and say oh that's ok, no biggie, now whats on the telly.

How would they be 'freaked out'? Seriously, they met a beautiful woman and you think of only the past?

policarp · 24-10-2010 01:44AM

Craebear wrote: »

What a fine bunch of ignorant fools you all are.

Everyone?

Cavehill Red · 24-10-2010 01:45AM

evercloserunion wrote: »

I still defo would tbh.

Would what? Give her a reach around?

She has stated she does not plan to have sex reassignment surgery, citing concerns about complications or loss of sensation. "My mother always says to me, 'Why would you want to be half-and-half? Why don't you want to be a complete woman?' But I just love myself and I'm really enjoying my life."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miriam_%28entertainer%29

Sisko · 24-10-2010 01:45AM

gurramok has to be just trolling at this stage.

gurramok · 24-10-2010 01:45AM

Kasabian wrote: »

Where am I discriminating against anyone? I am talking about deceit, the same as if I met a woman and started a relationship with her thinking she was single only to find she was married.

If you are only talking about deceit, where is the problem if such people reveal said deceit in a relationship then?

Craebear · 24-10-2010 01:47AM

Sisko wrote: »

Its ignorant to demand every straight bloke not feel repulsed at the idea of having sex with a transsexual.

I was referring to your complete ignorance of what transsexuality is.

Kasabian wrote: »

Is that your contribution oh wise one.

At least it's correct. Go read stuff.

sonic85 · 24-10-2010 01:47AM

if youre born a man youre a man. if youre born a woman youre a woman. simple. thinking youre a member of the opposite sex doesnt mean you are one. its not discrimination its fact

gurramok · 24-10-2010 01:48AM

Sisko wrote: »

gurramok has to be just trolling at this stage.

Ah here, just because I object to viewpoints of a few, its trolling?! And no, i am not trolling, are you by the way?

gurramok · 24-10-2010 01:49AM

sonic85 wrote: »

if youre born a man youre a man. if youre born a woman youre a woman. simple. thinking youre a member of the opposite sex doesnt mean you are one. its not discrimination its fact

Where is said fact?

Craebear · 24-10-2010 01:52AM

sonic85 wrote: »

if youre born a man youre a man. if youre born a woman youre a woman. simple. thinking youre a member of the opposite sex doesnt mean you are one. its not discrimination its fact

If you're born a man you're attracted to women, if you're born a woman you're attracted to men. It's not discrimination, it's fact.

Isn't that right sonic85?

What we have here is the exact same kind of ignorance that had people up in arms against homosexuality at one stage.

Sisko · 24-10-2010 01:53AM

gurramok wrote: »

Ah here, just because I object to viewpoints of a few, its trolling?! And no, i am not trolling, are you by the way?

Your comparing people who don't like the idea of sleeping with someone whos has a sex change to rednecks and Islamic militants that's pretty trollish imo.

Craebear wrote: »

If you're born a man you're attracted to women, if you're born a woman you're attracted to men. It's not discrimination, it's fact.

Isn't that right sonic85?

What we have here is the exact same kind of ignorance that had people up in arms against homosexuality at one stage.

No now your being ignorant imo.

If you were born with the mind of a female and the body of a male you are not the same as someone who was born with the mind of a female and a body of a female - even if you then get your male body altered to appear female. Fact.

I'm being blunt but thats how it is, I fully understand that this is a horrible way to be. There are people who have no problem with sleeping with people born this way. But there are also many people who simply want to be with women born with a female mind and body and theres ****ing nothing wrong with that either. People that call that ignorant are idiots imo and are not doing those born with gender issues any favors.

evercloserunion · 24-10-2010 01:53AM

Cavehill Red wrote: »

Would what? Give her a reach around?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miriam_%28entertainer%29

Damn. Well, if she kept it hidden I could pretend. Out of sight, out of mind.

More seriously, the answer to the general question in the OP remains "I still defo would".

Nulty · 24-10-2010 01:55AM

Kasabian wrote: »

She was born with a dick not a defect, there is a difference. The point is that she wasn't honest from the start so to allow you to make an informed decision rather than letting you live a lie.

PC bs from you.

:pac:

Kasabian · 24-10-2010 01:55AM

gurramok wrote: »

If you are only talking about deceit, where is the problem if such people reveal said deceit in a relationship then?

Look I am not getting bogged down in your constant melodramatic twisting of my viewpoint.

You used the word discrimination in a reply to one of my posts, that with me is stepping over the line.

Your atempt to appear totally PC is shrouding your ability to understand others views without feeling they are being discrimatory.

Cavehill Red · 24-10-2010 01:56AM

gurramok wrote: »

Where is said fact?

In the chromosomes, at the most fundamental level of humanity.

gurramok · 24-10-2010 01:57AM

Sisko wrote: »

Your comparing people who don't like the idea of sleeping with someone whos has a sex change to rednecks and Islamic militants that's pretty trollish imo.

No its not. Your views are right out of the lula's handbook. Get over it, the control of the church is long gone, you can now speak liberally on issues without religion dictating the outcome. :P

strobe · 24-10-2010 01:58AM

In before Rammstein song.......

I'd be pretty sick and disgusted.

What would I do?? Break up with them.

Guill · 24-10-2010 02:00AM

Please dont bring the church into it...ffs.
Having an op and taking hormone does not make a woman ask a woman!
(everyone knows you need a rib to make a woman)

gurramok · 24-10-2010 02:01AM

Kasabian wrote: »

Look I am not getting bogged down in your constant melodramatic twisting of my viewpoint.

You used the word discrimination in a reply to one of my posts, that with me is stepping over the line.

Your atempt to appear totally PC is shrouding your ability to understand others views without feeling they are being discrimatory.

Have you ever thought that others views are backward?

Cavehill Red wrote: »

In the chromosomes, at the most fundamental level of humanity.

Huh? Show us that definition. Actually scratch that. You see a hot bird walking up the street and end up having a one night stand, do you make a habit of asking her chomosome selection??

sonic85 · 24-10-2010 02:02AM

Craebear wrote: »

If you're born a man you're attracted to women, if you're born a woman you're attracted to men. It's not discrimination, it's fact.

Isn't that right sonic85?

What we have here is the exact same kind of ignorance that had people up in arms against homosexuality at one stage.

stop arsing around man i didnt say that. just because i dont subscribe to your views does that make me wrong? no it doesnt. being gay is different - a different situation and you know it. dont be acting the bollix

gurramok · 24-10-2010 02:03AM

Guill wrote: »

Please dont bring the church into it...ffs.
Having an op and taking hormone does not make a woman ask a woman!
(everyone knows you need a rib to make a woman)

Are you asking me to eat a rib of steak?!:eek:

Cavehill Red · 24-10-2010 02:04AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LJ7zyNnEeyM

This dude reckons he's a tiger. He looks like a tiger and has had surgery to make him look even more feline.

Is he a tiger, Gurramock? Or is he a bloke who's had surgery?

http://www.anomalies-unlimited.com/Catman.html

Kasabian · 24-10-2010 02:04AM

gurramok wrote: »

Have you ever thought that others views are backward?

Yes but it depends which direction you are travelling.

evercloserunion · 24-10-2010 02:06AM

Cavehill Red wrote: »

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LJ7zyNnEeyM

This dude reckons he's a tiger. He looks like a tiger and has had surgery to make him look even more feline.

Is he a tiger, Gurramock? Or is he a bloke who's had surgery?

http://www.anomalies-unlimited.com/Catman.html

If you think he looks like a tiger, you probably haven't seen many tigers...

If you found out your girlfriend was a transexual what would you do?

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