If you found out your girlfriend was a transexual what would you do?

oppenheimer1 · 24-10-2010 01:12AM

*Awaits entry of our resident transsexual to the debate*

24-10-2010 01:13AM

demolitionman wrote: »

if you were dating a girl for a year, and then one day she dropped the bombshell that she was originally a bloke, what would you do?
keep her?
get rid?
hit her a dig?

Make sure I was bigger.

gurramok · 24-10-2010 01:14AM

Kasabian wrote: »

She was born with a dick not a defect, there is a difference. The point is that she wasn't honest from the start so to allow you to make an informed decision rather than letting you live a lie.

PC bs from you.

And how would that make any difference? She is all-woman which any hot blooded male wants so whats the problem?

Demonique · 24-10-2010 01:15AM

demolitionman wrote: »

are they all trannies?/!!

id defo fire my cream into each and every one of them!

Each and every one of them? Ugh no, the first one looks like she's trying to hard, sticking tongue out like uber-trash Whorgan Fox = cheap

The rest are hot, though the second one's stomach/bum/leg made me look twice. Her stomach is so skinny it looks like it's her upper leg and her bum's a backward-facing knee

Conor108 · 24-10-2010 01:15AM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eYV1oMS4buQ

Cavehill Red · 24-10-2010 01:15AM

gurramok wrote: »

And how would that make any difference? She is all-woman which any hot blooded male wants so whats the problem?

A castration does not a woman make.
His chromosomes would tell another story entirely.

24-10-2010 01:16AM

gurramok wrote: »

And how would that make any difference? She is all-woman which any hot blooded male wants so whats the problem?

Apart from the fact most women aren't born with a willy.

Guill · 24-10-2010 01:16AM

gurramok wrote: »

And how would that make any difference? She is all-woman which any hot blooded male wants so whats the problem?

No, no, no.

IMO, He was born a bloke, had all the parts, got them removed and tidied up, takes hormones. Still a dude, no amount of plastic surgury changes that.

Should we be shallow enough to say that its looks that make a person?

Kasabian · 24-10-2010 01:18AM

gurramok wrote: »

And how would that make any difference? She is all-woman which any hot blooded male wants so whats the problem?

Have a think about that.

Mr McBoatface · 24-10-2010 01:19AM

demolitionman wrote: »

if you were dating a girl for a year, and then one day she dropped the bombshell that she was originally a bloke, what would you do?
keep her?
get rid?
hit her a dig?

I don't think I'd care much as long as my wife didn't find out :pac::pac::pac::pac:

PS lads :- Check out this lady(term used lightly).... Now honestly lads tell me you wouldn't consider doing her, I mean him, I mean arggghhhhhhh..... God help me I'm so confused.

Guill · 24-10-2010 01:19AM

Demonique wrote: »

Each and every one of them? Ugh no, the first one looks like she's trying to hard, sticking tongue out like uber-trash Whorgan Fox = cheap

The rest are hot, though the second one's stomach/bum/leg made me look twice. Her stomach is so skinny it looks like it's her upper leg and her bum's a backward-facing knee

Also the first one is packing serious heat!

gurramok · 24-10-2010 01:20AM

Cavehill Red wrote: »

A castration does not a woman make.
His chromosomes would tell another story entirely.

Ehh, they act and think like a woman. You would never distinguish between a TS and a woman if you met them in the street as both are all woman.

sacramento wrote: »

Apart from the fact most women aren't born with a willy.

So? Its inside that counts. If they are women post birth, why the hang-up?

Princess Peach · 24-10-2010 01:20AM

I'd question my newly formed lesbianism alright

Kasabian · 24-10-2010 01:21AM

gurramok wrote: »

Ehh, they act and think like a woman. You would never distinguish between a TS and a woman if you met them in the street as both are all woman.

So? Its inside that counts. If they are women post birth, why the hang-up?

Less typing more thinking :P :pac:

gurramok · 24-10-2010 01:23AM

Guill wrote: »

No, no, no.

IMO, He was born a bloke, had all the parts, got them removed and tidied up, takes hormones. Still a dude, no amount of plastic surgury changes that.

Should we be shallow enough to say that its looks that make a person?

Whats with this it? A person is not defined by an it but rather who they are.

If such a person thinks like a girl, why is it a problem to you?

Kasabian wrote:

Have a think about that.

What is there to think about great rock band?

Agricola · 24-10-2010 01:23AM

Arm wrestle, loser has to take it up the ass.

alwaysadub · 24-10-2010 01:24AM

gurramok wrote: »

Ehh, they act and think like a woman. You would never distinguish between a TS and a woman if you met them in the street as both are all woman.

Eh, there's a bit of a difference between passing one by in the street, and having a sexual relationship with one!

Sisko · 24-10-2010 01:27AM

gurramok wrote: »

And how would that make any difference? She is all-woman which any hot blooded male wants so whats the problem?

A hot blooded male wants someone of the opposite sex , not someone of the same sex, born with 'the mind' of a women who has operations done and goes to great lengths to altering his male body to appear to be a female body and trick people into thinking they actually are 'all women' when they're not.

I do have sympathy those born in such a way but that ends when it comes to the idea that as a straight male I should find these people attractive and want to sleep with them, and should have no problem doing so without ever knowing they're body is actually male.

I reserve the damn right to want to be with someone of the opposite gender with out being made feel guilty about finding the idea of being with someone from the same gender to be horribly disgusting.

I have no control over what disgusts or disturbs me and seeing men trying to look like women is not something pleasing to the eye.

If I see what I thought was an attractive female and am told its actually a bloke I find it revolting, and I can't help that fact. I was born a straight male.

policarp · 24-10-2010 01:27AM

If you were dating for a year, didn't suspect anything, and had to be told, what does that say?

Guill · 24-10-2010 01:27AM

Guill wrote: »

Should we be shallow enough to say that its looks that make a person?

Should we be shallow enough to say that it's looks that make a person?

*Note the '

gurramok · 24-10-2010 01:28AM

Kasabian wrote: »

Less typing more thinking :P :pac:

Please explain.

alwaysadub wrote: »

Eh, there's a bit of a difference between passing one by in the street, and having a sexual relationship with one!

How? Yes, they should reveal their past in a relationship no matter how beautiful they are, how does that affect a relationship though?(assuming no starting family business involved)

Kasabian · 24-10-2010 01:30AM

gurramok wrote: »

What is there to think about great rock band?

My point is nothing to do with her gender it is to do with the fact that she is decieving her bf.

I personally have no issue with transexuals,I don't knowingly know one, my issue would be that a person unwittingly gets into a relationship with what they believe to be a woman only later to discover that the person they are with is a transexual who wasn't forthcoming with that rather important detail.

gurramok · 24-10-2010 01:31AM

Sisko wrote: »

A hot blooded male wants someone of the opposite sex , not someone of the same sex, born with 'the mind' of a women who has operations done and goes to great lengths to altering his male body to appear to be a female body and trick people into thinking they actually are 'all women' when they're not.

I do have sympathy those born in such a way but that ends when it comes to the idea that as a straight male I should find these people attractive and want to sleep with them, and should have no problem doing so without ever knowing they're body is actually male.

I reserve the damn right to want to be with someone of the opposite gender with out being made feel guilty about finding the idea of being with someone from the same gender to be horribly disgusting.

I have no control over what disgusts or disturbs me and seeing men trying to look like women is not something pleasing to the eye.

If I see what I thought was an attractive female and am told its actually a bloke I find it revolting, and I can't help that fact. I was born a straight male.

They are not on a trick or treat you know! They are real people.

How is it revolting to you? If they had a sex change from man to woman, their minds and body are women so what is the problem?

Corsendonk · 24-10-2010 01:33AM

poisonated wrote: »

I remember a reality show which doccumented a guy finding out his "girl"friend was a guy.

Yeah the show was called There is Something about Miriam on Sky TV. 6 lads had to compete for £10,000 and her. Then the winner was told she wasn't a woman. I attached a photo of "her".

Princess Peach · 24-10-2010 01:35AM

Guill wrote: »

Should we be shallow enough to say that it's looks that make a person?

Soooo many puns coming from the word Shallow....

Cavehill Red · 24-10-2010 01:36AM

gurramok wrote: »

They are not on a trick or treat you know! They are real people.

How is it revolting to you? If they had a sex change from man to woman, their minds and body are women so what is the problem?

Perhaps their minds require counselling and their bodies are those of mutilated and augmented males?
They're not women. No ovaries, still lacking one of the X chromosomes that are required for feminine gender.
In the case of people who've had an operation to 'change gender', all they've achieved with their hormones and surgery is to create an outward look they prefer. It doesn't make them women.

GarethWA · 24-10-2010 01:36AM

I thought Lady Gaga was single?

gurramok · 24-10-2010 01:37AM

Kasabian wrote: »

My point is nothing to do with her gender it is to do with the fact that she is decieving her bf.

I personally have no issue with transexuals,I don't knowingly know one, my issue would be that a person unwittingly gets into a relationship with what they believe to be a woman only later to discover that the person they are with is a transexual who wasn't forthcoming with that rather important detail.

I see. I'd expect any such TS to reveal their past in such relationships. Its still no grounds for discrimination though as they are women through in body and mind.

Sisko · 24-10-2010 01:38AM

And sure enough I'm being accused of not thinking they're people cause I don't wanna have ****ing sex with them. They were born male, a sex change doesn't change that.

At least for me, there are blokes that would be fine with that and fair play to them but a lot of guys will naturally find that disgusting and thats just the way it is.

If your gonna ignorantly assume its discrimination or some other crap then your just as much of a problem as those that are prejudiced to these people.

Craebear · 24-10-2010 01:40AM

What a fine bunch of ignorant fools you all are.

If you found out your girlfriend was a transexual what would you do?

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