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(US) Child contracts herpes from used hotel condom

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,560 ✭✭✭southsiderosie


    If whatever idiot that used the thing put it in the bin in the first place it would never have happened.

    If whatever idiot that was paid to clean the room afterwards had done their job, none of this would have happened.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 90 ✭✭hypervalve


    Did I imply that he might have caught it from the used condom?

    No.

    Back to your A-Bomb, Herr Oppenheimer.;)

    Do you think he might have an unrelated history of high risk sexual behaviour that wasn't referred to in the article?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,072 ✭✭✭PeterIanStaker


    Another Little Johnny story


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,227 ✭✭✭The Highwayman


    Did I imply that he might have caught it from the used condom?

    No.

    Back to your A-Bomb, Herr Oppenheimer.;)

    Yes you did imply it.

    Working hard on my bomb maybe you can have a word with the man upstairs need about 5kg of Uranium to finish it. If he cant do it tell batman I'll settle for Plutonium.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 5,985 ✭✭✭fonecrusher1


    If whatever idiot that was paid to clean the room afterwards had done their job, none of this would have happened.

    Its possible the condom was partially flushed & remained unseen until maybe a few hours later it emerged after the cleaners were finished. Hence my first comment, just throw it in the bin.

    FFS! who throws a rubber in the toilet? :pac:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,983 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    hypervalve wrote: »
    Do you think he might have an unrelated history of high risk sexual behaviour that wasn't referred to in the article?

    Just putting it out there...
    Yes you did imply it.

    I implied/didn't imply several things at once with my post, one of them directly above. ^

    Working hard on my bomb maybe you can have a word with the man upstairs need about 5kg of Uranium to finish it. If he cant do it tell batman I'll settle for Plutonium.

    Why the middleman of atomic forces? I can get you a sweet deal with the Boss for some fire and brimstone instead. Reduce a Hiromshima to a mere Gommorah (which incidently sounds like a venereal disease) without the radioactivity.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    If whatever idiot that was paid to clean the room afterwards had done their job, none of this would have happened.

    If people refrained from having sex, there would have been no used condom in the room & the kid wouldn't have existed and none of this would have happened.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,662 ✭✭✭RMD


    If people refrained from having sex, there would have been no used condom in the room & the kid wouldn't have existed and none of this would have happened.

    Yes but what he said is a pretty normal argument. Yours is just ridiculous. A cleaners job is to clean, if the room wasn't properly cleaned Ie a dirty johnny was still there that's the cleaner's fault.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    RMD wrote: »
    Yes but what he said is a pretty normal argument. Yours is just ridiculous. A cleaners job is to clean, if the room wasn't properly cleaned Ie a dirty johnny was still there that's the cleaner's fault.

    Ya think?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,044 ✭✭✭colly10


    He calls his granny mommy :confused:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,560 ✭✭✭southsiderosie


    Its possible the condom was partially flushed & remained unseen until maybe a few hours later it emerged after the cleaners were finished. Hence my first comment, just throw it in the bin.

    FFS! who throws a rubber in the toilet? :pac:

    One would think that even a 4 year old would know not to fish things out of the toilet and put them in his mouth. If he's doing that, them mommy probably doesn't want to be kissing him anyway, yuck. :(


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,235 ✭✭✭Bosco boy


    Yes you did imply it.

    Working hard on my bomb maybe you can have a word with the man upstairs need about 5kg of Uranium to finish it. If he cant do it tell batman I'll settle for Plutonium.

    Hopefully you get what your looking for and when you do sit on it seconds before it goes off!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,401 ✭✭✭Royal Irish


    What the f*ck did they test him for HIV for? Are they retarded?

    Thats abit of a retarded comment. Why wouldnt they test their child for HIV in this situation?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 90 ✭✭hypervalve


    Thats abit of a retarded comment. Why wouldnt they test their child for HIV in this situation?

    Because there's no way he could have contracted HIV like this


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,139 ✭✭✭Orange69


    hypervalve wrote: »
    Because there's no way he could have contracted HIV like this

    Ummm, yes he could, if he had an abrasion on his lips or mouth. Sucks to be him and you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,401 ✭✭✭Royal Irish


    hypervalve wrote: »
    Because there's no way he could have contracted HIV like this

    Yes he could have caught HIV from this. All it would have taken is for HIV positive semen from the condom to get into a open cut or bleeding gums in his mouth.

    If it was your child in this situation, you wouldnt get a HIV test done? Good parenting :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 90 ✭✭hypervalve


    Orange69 wrote: »
    Ummm, yes he could, if he had an abrasion on his lips or mouth

    There's still no way he could have caught it. I'd be willing to bet that it was his parents and not the doctor that insisted on a HIV test. I think people can be overly paranoid about HIV because of the stigma attached to the disease and the disproportionate level of media attention it receives.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,943 ✭✭✭ballsymchugh


    hypervalve wrote: »
    There's still no way he could have caught it. I'd be willing to bet that it was his parents and not the doctor that insisted on a HIV test. I think people can be overly paranoid about HIV because of the stigma attached to the disease and the disproportionate level of media attention it receives.

    given that HIV is a virus and viruses don't have much of a chance outside a living host, then you're right, the risk is between minimal and none.
    but i'd say it was the doctors that insisted on it. another test to add to the insurance claim so more funds for them. there's probably a medico legal element to it too.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,078 ✭✭✭foxinsox


    hypervalve wrote: »
    There's still no way he could have caught it. I'd be willing to bet that it was his parents and not the doctor that insisted on a HIV test. I think people can be overly paranoid about HIV because of the stigma attached to the disease and the disproportionate level of media attention it receives.

    There is a teeny % of a chance that HIV could be passed on this way, it is a very small chance, quite unlikely, but still possible.

    If it was my child I would be very worried and concerned...

    If it happened to you, or you cut yourself on a discarded needle, would you be worried?

    I know I'd be terrified, regardless of media coverage.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,409 ✭✭✭old_aussie


    hypervalve wrote: »
    Because there's no way he could have contracted HIV like this

    They say ignorance is bliss, go read a medical book on HIV transmission

    http://www.avert.org/hiv-aids-transmission.htm

    Although it is possible to become infected with HIV through oral sex, the risk of becoming infected in this way is much lower than the risk of infection via unprotected sexual intercourse with a man or woman.
    When giving oral sex to a man (sucking or licking a man's penis) a person could become infected with HIV if infected semen came into contact with damaged and receding gums, or any cuts or sores they might have in their mouth.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,820 ✭✭✭Vorsprung


    And if this kid has contracted HIV, the test may not be positive for months.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,433 ✭✭✭✭Mr Benevolent


    Wait, what kind of parent kisses their kid on the mouth?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,838 ✭✭✭phill106


    Confab wrote: »
    Wait, what kind of parent kisses their kid on the mouth?

    Loving ones?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,059 ✭✭✭Uriel.


    The child had no chance of contracting HIV in this instance. HIV does not live for long outside of the body, HIV through ingesting infected semen is also highly unlikely.

    1 in 50,000 chance (or higher) in oral sex with a verified infected partner.

    So the child's chances - less than 1 in 50,000 cos he didn't have oral sex, 0.01% chance that the person who used the comdom was infected... oh finally HIV lives a matter of minutes to a couple of hours maximum outside of the body and/or labratory environments.

    Testing was not necessary in this instance for anything only peace of mind.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,745 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    If it's oral herpes, i.e. coldsores, the case will be thrown out of court because he could have picked up the infection from another child, cutlery or glassware used by someone with a coldsore, or a dozen other places.

    We've had people look for money from us because they say their child's gotten verrucae from our changing rooms, we just refer them to literature that explains that the pappillomavirus lives just about everywhere, and that there's no way to prove where it was gotten. Then, when they're gone, I laugh at them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,311 ✭✭✭Procasinator


    Uriel. wrote: »
    Testing was not necessary in this instance for anything only peace of mind.

    Yeah, exactly. Peace of mind. That's a good reason.

    They (the doctors) were also right to test the kid for many diseases, given the story, to see if there wasn't something more sinister (such as the kid being abused) and the parents making up stories.

    I know the kid contracting HIV was extremely unlikely, but to make an obligatory XKCD reference:
    http://xkcd.com/795/


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,086 ✭✭✭Nijmegen


    Uriel. wrote: »
    Testing was not necessary in this instance for anything only peace of mind.
    Do you have children?

    Mention the words "HIV" and "My child" together and suddenly 0.00000001% of a chance doesn't seem such slim odds until you know otherwise.


  • Posts: 6,645 ✭✭✭ Emilee Steep Lettuce


    AFAIK it takes several months to test positive for herpes, so if he tested positive after a month, then he probably didn't get it from the condom. And more than half of the population has oral herpes, so how do they know he didn't already have it?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 872 ✭✭✭Sofa King Great


    With all this debate on HIV people seem to be forgetting the fact that the kid who calls his granny mommy had a used condom in his mouth. Nasty!!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,311 ✭✭✭Procasinator


    AFAIK it takes several months to test positive for herpes, so if he tested positive after a month, then he probably didn't get it from the condom. And more than half of the population has oral herpes, so how do they know he didn't already have it?

    Considering it went active (he had blisters/coldsores), I don't think this applies. Maybe that would be the case if it was dormant/incubating.

    I'm pretty sure an outbreak after a month is far from abnormal.


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