How would you feel if your partner admitted they thought they were bisexual/gay?

cooltown · 15-09-2010 09:50PM #1

Kasabian · 15-09-2010 09:51PM

Horny

admiralofthefleet · 15-09-2010 09:54PM

how would you feel op?

me; if she told me she liked women i would crack open the bubbly

starbelgrade · 15-09-2010 09:54PM

Not half as worried as I would if my partner admitted they thought that I was gay.

AckwelFoley · 15-09-2010 09:55PM

..another threesome.

Win win win

galwayrush · 15-09-2010 09:56PM

starbelgrade wrote: »

Not half as worried as I would if my partner admitted they thought that I was gay.

I had to think about that one....:pac::pac::pac:

cooltown · 15-09-2010 09:58PM

I would have to worry about them telling me they were straight!:D

Asphyxia · 15-09-2010 10:11PM

I have had this conversation with my partner before when I told him that I was bisexual it went quite well he was the only person I've ever been nervous of telling. I felt so relieved afterwards and much better.

If it was the other way around I would like to have a good talk and try sort it out. I wouldn't be mad or angry at him because it's not like he did it intentionally. I would be more upset at the fact our relationship might have to end if he was gay, I would find it easier if he was bisexual and I could relate to him more. I would be broken hearted to loose him but would want him to be happy.

flyton5 · 15-09-2010 10:59PM

"P.S. I am gay." - Homer Simpson

As long as they were being genuine then I'd be fine with it. There's nothing they can do to change the fact is there? :rolleyes:

rainbow kirby · 15-09-2010 11:00PM

I'd be more worried if they said they were straight, tbh.

alwaysadub · 15-09-2010 11:06PM

snyper wrote: »

..another threesome.

Win win win

But thought you didn't enjoy them?

Anyway OP, lesbian sex, whats not to like?

EDIT: :eek: I'm losing the run of myself. I'm female, so i'd have to be the gay one to get lesbian sex

ooh i'd get a 3some though!

stephen_n · 15-09-2010 11:14PM

Telling your partner your Bi will usually scare the **** out of them and more often than not end the relationship!

FreudianSlippers · 15-09-2010 11:17PM

If my girlfriend slept with another woman I'd still be pissed off... still cheating IMO.

FreudianSlippers · 15-09-2010 11:17PM

stephen_n wrote: »

Telling your partner your Bi will usually scare the **** out of them and more often than not end the relationship!

hmmmm... good to keep in mind if I want to get out of this one ever.
:P

j/k obviously - just in case my SO is reading this

15-09-2010 11:23PM

Meh. Why it would make a difference.

Kasabian · 15-09-2010 11:25PM

Lia_lia wrote: »

Meh. Why it would make a difference.

If they want to pursue a sexual relationship ?

Truley · 15-09-2010 11:32PM

I don't have a problem with homosexuality in general but if my partner told me they were gay I would be pretty peeved because ... well, they are sexually attracted to a different gender to my own one.

Links234 · 15-09-2010 11:33PM

Well, I'd imagine they'd have to be at least bisexual to be in a relationship with me, so it probably wouldn't be an issue

Minstrel27 · 15-09-2010 11:35PM

The relationship would be over.

Earthhorse · 15-09-2010 11:46PM

Kasabian wrote: »

Horny

Same here.

No change in mood whatsoever.

nacho libre · 16-09-2010 12:00AM

if a girl i was with told me she was bisexual it would not bother me in the slighest.
if the fear is that it increases the chances the person will cheat on you, you'd have to question how well your really knew your partner and how secure you really are. As if you have had a good relationship up to the point of this admission, what is suddenly going to change?? nothing!!

16-09-2010 12:13AM

Kasabian wrote: »

If they want to pursue a sexual relationship ?

With somebody else like? Well wouldn't that be cheating?

I don't understand your question.

MarkGrisham · 16-09-2010 12:20AM

If she's up for bringing more women to the bed, I can live with it.

The_Minister · 16-09-2010 12:20AM

Gay - that means the whole relationship was a sham tbh. I'd be very pissed off.

Bisexual - It would depend. If one gender couldn't satisfy her, then I would be pissed.
If she was attracted to women as well as me but able to be happy with a man then that would be grand.
It's still cheating unless she scores them in a pub for my amusement.:D

Transexual - I would be really, really, really pissed off.

The above post is predicated on the notion that this is a serious relationship.

Kasabian · 16-09-2010 12:22AM

Lia_lia wrote: »

With somebody else like? Well wouldn't that be cheating? I don't understand your question.

You did . I missed your point earlier. We are on the same page.

The_Minister · 16-09-2010 12:23AM

Minstrel27 wrote: »

The relationship would be over.

For both or just gay?

RockinRolla · 16-09-2010 01:23AM

I don't know what part I'd feel then.

Royal Irish · 16-09-2010 01:35AM

If a girl friend ever told me she thought she was gay, the first words out of my mouth would be, "can I watch".

Mr. CooL ICE · 16-09-2010 01:44AM

OisinT wrote: »

If my girlfriend slept with another woman I'd still be pissed off... still cheating IMO.

What if she let you watch?

RockinRolla · 16-09-2010 01:45AM

LordChessington wrote: »

What if she let you watch?

Would you let her watch you wellying another bloke out of it???

Piste · 16-09-2010 02:11AM

If a boyfriend told me her was gay I'd be very disappointed and upset that he'd strung me along and I'd wonder why he ever went out with me in the first place.

How would you feel if your partner admitted they thought they were bisexual/gay?

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