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Cant Feel Anything During Sex

  • 22-08-2010 11:47AM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,005 ✭✭✭✭


    Just a quick question, is the fact that I cant feel anything when I have sex with my gf without a condom a bad sign ? (shes on the pill) By nothing I mean I know im in her and shes tight but no sensation no matter how fast or slow I go :(.


Comments

  • #2
    AvaKinder
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 271 ✭✭AvaKinder


    That's something you need to see your GP about probably.


  • #3
    tenchi-fan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,339 ✭✭✭tenchi-fan


    can you feel any sensation when you're with , er, yourself?
    No sensation at all can indicate a more serious health problem. However excessive masturbation can ruin sex because a vagina cannot replicate wrist action.


  • #4
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    Try not masturbating for a while prior to sex and see if that improves matters and if not, make an appointment with your doctor. Sometimes preferring a tight grip and/or fast wrist action during masturbation trains the penis to require that kind of stimulation and as tenchi-fan says, you won't be able to replicate those conditions while having intercourse.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,005 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    tenchi-fan wrote: »
    can you feel any sensation when you're with , er, yourself?
    No sensation at all can indicate a more serious health problem. However excessive masturbation can ruin sex because a vagina cannot replicate wrist action.

    I used to masterbate 35 times a week. I have stopped since last week, I am just wondering how long it will take my penis to become untrained cause if I am alone I can feel sensation which to be honest is no good to me now.

    No matter what she does to me there is no sensation, a bj is just me knowing her lips are on my penis. I actually got her to bite the head of my penis to see if that did anything, didnt even hurt me at all & she said she was biting hard. Any idea how long recovery will take me ? & I presume a visit to my local GP would be recommended.


  • #6
    Ickle Magoo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    I would definitely recommend a trip to the doc's just to rule out any underlying issue...


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  • #7
    freakmagnet
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 57 ✭✭freakmagnet


    I can't feel much anything either - went to a specialist, and its just the way i am apparently - there is no underlying problem. Its unfortunate, and i'm not happy about it, but thats the way it is.


  • #8
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,005 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    freakmagnet can you give me more information on what you did please ?


  • #9
    freakmagnet
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 57 ✭✭freakmagnet


    The hope i clung to was that there might be something underlying - but there wasn't - most people suggest diabetes - but a quick run down the check list of other diabetes symptoms by the doctor showed it wasn't that. I feel very little when i have sex/receive oral sex. I booked an appointment with the Wellman clinic - its fine, but i'd look around first - the 10 minute consultation was quite expensive. In your case though, you masturbate excessively - i'd attend to that first and then see where you are.


  • #10
    jessiejam
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 778 ✭✭✭jessiejam


    In fairness, you were masturbating 5 times a day every day? stop for a week and then see how it feels with your girlfriend.
    If it doesn't improve see the doc


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