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Is it easier for guys to pull women or women to pull guys?

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  • #62
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    nice1franko wrote: »
    istockphoto_9528065-caveman-dragging-cave-woman.jpg

    :D

    Pretty much :D


  • #63
    Abi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    JuneBug29 wrote: »
    I want to hear more from women cause i think it's mostly guys.

    Also i would like to know how many of the 52 who answered are guys?

    Without a doubt women, for the reasons Pete out-lined.


    Its like shooting fish in a barrel, even for an average looking woman.


  • #64
    pickarooney
    Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 36,397 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    Abigayle wrote: »
    Without a doubt women, for the reasons Pete out-lined.


    Its like shooting fish in a barrel, even for an average looking woman.

    Has anyone ever tried that? It's fecking dangerous with all the ricochets. Plus, the fish is an inedible mush afterwards.


  • #65
    Sharlovesjohn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 216 ✭✭Sharlovesjohn


    I was always approaching men on a night out most couldnt have been bothered with me as im a brunette and not some dumb ass woman fake tans to a glowing orange and wearing next to nothing with barely a pick on them

    Met my OH on the net lol


  • #66
    pickarooney
    Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 36,397 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    Sharlovesjohn wrote: »
    I was always approaching men on a night out most couldnt have been bothered with me as im a brunette and not some dumb ass blonde

    Is that really what you used to tell yourself? It wasn't anything to do with your judgmental attitude to men and blondes, no?


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  • #67
    Sharlovesjohn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 216 ✭✭Sharlovesjohn


    pickarooney wrote: »
    Is that really what you used to tell yourself? It wasn't anything to do with your judgmental attitude to men and blondes, no?

    Ha no I really did go up and try to chat up men they would then ignore me after giving me the 'eyes' for almost an hr

    I think its more connected to my age with the way young women dress going out now?


  • #68
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    Sharlovesjohn wrote: »
    Ha no I really did go up and try to chat up men they would then ignore me after giving me the 'eyes' for almost an hr

    I think its more connected to my age with the way young women dress going out now?

    I doubt it. Sounds like it could be your attitude tbh. I'm 30 and wear jeans and a dressy top out and while i never notice guys coming on to me my friends are constantly pointing out that they are.

    /oh and i'm blonde btw so maybe thats it :rolleyes:


  • #69
    Sharlovesjohn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 216 ✭✭Sharlovesjohn


    Kiera wrote: »
    I doubt it. Sounds like it could be your attitude tbh. I'm 30 and wear jeans and a dressy top out and while i never notice guys coming on to me my friends are constantly pointing out that they are.

    /oh and i'm blonde btw so maybe thats it :rolleyes:


    Ha I did write no offence to Blondes?

    I meant the bimbos that go out tarting themselves?

    Im sure you've seen them out on a night out yourself

    I have no problem been rejected when i ask a guy does he want to join me for a drink

    Im just saying I dont think its as easy for women there maybe many blokes on a night out but what they want (ie. myself) is a different story

    Ha not like I really have to worry about it right now or for a while maybe it be a different story in a few years so ?


    I think Il leave it at that before I dig myself into a bigger hole!!


  • #70
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 758 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Women have a natural advantage over men. It's probably an order of magnitude easier for a woman to have success with either gender than for a man to do so. This is probably reinforced by the fact that the female body is worshipped.


  • #71
    alwaysadub
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,554 ✭✭✭✭alwaysadub


    derfderf wrote: »
    maybe that's what's wrong, all the lads you're interested in can see your chastity belt through your large baggy jumper :)

    Wrong on so many levels :)


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  • #72
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    alwaysadub wrote: »
    Wrong on so many levels :)

    You're a bike? :eek::P


  • #73
    Magi11
    Closed Accounts Posts: 240 ✭✭Magi11


    word


  • #74
    Eve_Dublin
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,884 ✭✭✭Eve_Dublin


    Yeah as someone said before, men don´t mind scoring a bird they don´t fancy but women won´t do the same. Men have more options.

    A serious question: how can you pull someone you don´t think is attractive? I don´t get it. What´s the point? Why??


  • #75
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    Eve_Dublin wrote: »
    Yeah as someone said before, men don´t mind scoring a bird they don´t fancy but women won´t do the same. Men have more options.

    A serious question: how can you pull someone you don´t think is attractive? I don´t get it. What´s the point? Why??

    [male reply]You don’t look at the mantelpiece while poking the fire.....:P[/male reply]


  • #76
    m5ex9oqjawdg2i
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,217 ✭✭✭✭m5ex9oqjawdg2i


    Kiera wrote: »
    I doubt it. Sounds like it could be your attitude tbh. I'm 30 and wear jeans and a dressy top out and while i never notice guys coming on to me my friends are constantly pointing out that they are.

    /oh and i'm blonde btw so maybe thats it :rolleyes:

    So, AH beers this Saturday? :);)


  • #77
    stovelid
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    Kiera wrote: »
    I doubt it. Sounds like it could be your attitude tbh. I'm 30 and wear jeans and a dressy top out and while i never notice guys coming on to me my friends are constantly pointing out that they are.

    Trying to get to your hot mates via you?


  • #78
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 23,497 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I occassionally get chatted up, unfortunately it's usually fat, awful looking birds or bent chaps (seriously, I must trigger gaydar or something, which I can't understand as I don't dress or look like a bent chap so f knows what makes them think I'm gay :confused:). Only 4 or 5 time has a good looking lady ever initiated things :rolleyes:


  • #79
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    Rylan Mammoth Streetcar wrote: »
    So, AH beers this Saturday? :);)
    See ya then ;)
    stovelid wrote: »
    Trying to get to your hot mates via you?

    I feel so used and ugly now. Thanks, Stovey :(


  • #80
    stovelid
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    Kiera wrote: »
    I feel so used and ugly now. Thanks, Stovey :(

    One day your prince will cum.

    I can sense it.


  • #81
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    stovelid wrote: »
    One day your prince will cum.

    I can sense it.

    He came and went a long time ago. Typical man :p


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  • #82
    bonerm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,594 ✭✭✭bonerm


    RoverJames wrote: »
    (seriously, I must trigger gaydar or something, which I can't understand as I don't dress or look like a bent chap so f knows what makes them think I'm gay :confused:).

    Maybe they know something you don't. :confused:


  • #83
    Scanlas The 2nd
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 3,144 ✭✭✭Scanlas The 2nd


    A better question would be is it easier for a woman to pull a man she finds attractive or for a man to pull any woman.


  • #84
    stupidusername
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,762 ✭✭✭✭stupidusername


    I'm shocked at the results, why do people think it's so easy for women? I'd be terrified of approaching a guy. Do women do this, and 100% of the time succeed? Maybe I shouldn't be so afraid of it so! Wait, is this just about when drunk?


  • #85
    elnino35
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 57 ✭✭elnino35


    Kiera wrote: »
    He came and went a long time ago. Typical man :p
    ...we don't all leave after we come...depends wats for breakfast:D;)


  • #86
    m5ex9oqjawdg2i
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,217 ✭✭✭✭m5ex9oqjawdg2i


    stupidusername wrote: »
    I'm shocked at the results, why do people think it's so easy for women? I'd be terrified of approaching a guy. Do women do this, and 100% of the time succeed? Maybe I shouldn't be so afraid of it so! Wait, is this just about when drunk?

    Scenario 1

    Woman: "Want pussy?"

    Man: "eh... eh... um... omg... Orgasm... *faints*"



    Scenario 2

    Man: "Want cock?"

    Woman: "PERVERT!!!"


  • #87
    Kiera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    elnino35 wrote: »
    ...we don't all leave after we come...depends wats for breakfast:D;)

    The same as the menu the night before :P


  • #88
    OutlawPete
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Eve_Dublin wrote: »
    Yeah as someone said before, men don´t mind scoring a bird they don´t fancy but women won´t do the same. Men have more options.

    What are you talking about?

    How in the name of God would Men have more options?

    90% (rough guess) of blokes on a night out are looking to pull a girl, for at least a kiss and cuddle.

    That would seem like a hell of a lot of options to me.

    If you are trying to say that the few women that are actually out on a night to pull, are just not happy with the selection of men, then those women need to get their head out of their arses and stop being so selective about what they find suitable for them.

    Irish men are just as good looking as Irish women, neither sex can claim to be above the other in this area.

    What a nonsense excuse.


  • #89
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 23,497 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    bonerm wrote: »
    Maybe they know something you don't. :confused:


    Perhaps, maybe I'm gay deep down :)
    One of the sisters friend's is the campest, gayest dude on the planet and he said he couldn;t see what they saw in me (I was delighted :D)


  • #90
    hyster
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9 ✭hyster


    i think most men dont want to be pulled. not being big headed but there is nothing worse now than a girl coming on too strong.
    ok granted i am in my mid twenties and a few years ago it would be great and seemed to never happen either. maybe i dont stink of want so much.

    also guys whole night is built around going out to pull. i think women love the confidence boost of getting chatted up. so doing the chatting up doesnt give the boost.


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  • #91
    PK2008
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,219 ✭✭✭PK2008


    Women just dont have the balls (literally) to take the risks that lads do. If they did they'd rule the rule the world with the power they have over us.

    Men must chat women up- its always been that way and always will be.


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