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Drinking Alone

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,404 ✭✭✭Lone Stone


    I dont drink alone, id only drink with friends. That said i dont understand how someone could drink alone :confused: unless you got a craving then id question why. I dont even understand people who drink with there dinner (when no else is) but i grew up around alco's so i just have a skewed perception of people drinking hmm


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,373 ✭✭✭Executive Steve


    Four rules for healthy moderation of alcohol intake:

    1. Never Drink Alone

    2. Never Drink Spirits

    3. Never Drink before 6 pm

    4. Never break more than one rule at once.


    In other words, you can drink alone, but never before 6, and never whiskey, or you can drink a beer with friends before 6.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,228 ✭✭✭epgc3fyqirnbsx


    Lone Stone wrote: »
    I dont drink alone, id only drink with friends. That said i dont understand how someone could drink alone :confused: unless you got a craving then id question why. I dont even understand people who drink with there dinner (when no else is) but i grew up around alco's so i just have a skewed perception of people drinking hmm

    Sit down and have a drink with yourslef dude. As well off to give it a belt anyway.

    Can really be therapeutic, not talking about getting locked so much as getting relaxed and having a good aul think with phone, TV and internet off.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,534 ✭✭✭FruitLover


    In other words, you can drink alone, but never before 6, and never whiskey, or you can drink a beer with friends before 6.

    I've broken all four of those rules repeatedly, and I'm sure I've had far more enjoyment from my life than whatever Cedric wrote that list.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,843 ✭✭✭Nulty


    Four rules for healthy moderation of alcohol intake:

    1. Never Drink Alone

    2. Never Drink Spirits

    3. Never Drink before 6 pm

    4. Never break more than one rule at once.


    In other words, you can drink alone, but never before 6, and never whiskey, or you can drink a beer with friends before 6.

    I can't think that I've ever drank spirits, on my own before 6pm. any of them in pairs but I've never had such a bad/good day where all those things needed to be accomplished at once


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,034 ✭✭✭✭It wasn't me!


    Four rules for healthy moderation of alcohol intake:

    1. Never Drink Alone

    2. Never Drink Spirits

    3. Never Drink before 6 pm

    4. Never break more than one rule at once.


    In other words, you can drink alone, but never before 6, and never whiskey, or you can drink a beer with friends before 6.

    To be fair, that's crap. So I can drink alone, but only beer? What about the bottle of eighteen year old Jameson I keep around? When I'm writing late at night, that's what I like at my elbow. What about the glass of wine I had with my lunch today, on my own? What of those habits makes my drinking unhealthy?

    There's only one rule, as far as I'm concerned:

    1. Don't have an unhealthy attitude or approach to the consumption of alcohol.

    Stick with that rule and you'll be fine. The mature and responsible use of alcohol to enhance our lives is a pleasure and a privilege. How we choose to do so (within the context of mature and responsible behaviour - no, trying to tit-fúck the Molly Malone statue and finding the video on Youtube the next day does not qualify) is not something suitable for rules like "don't drink before six" or "no spirits" or "don't drink alone". Those things are absolutely meaningless next to a positive attitude towards alcohol.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 503 ✭✭✭pistonsvox


    Nice pint of guinness or cold bottle of miller, nacho's and some family guy is my end of week pleasure:pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,497 ✭✭✭Doop


    1. Don't have an unhealthy attitude or approach to the consumption of alcohol.

    I like the 4 rule thing (first time ive heard it)

    While yes your rule makes perfect sense. Do you think alcoholics acknowledge/think they have an unhealthy attitude or approach to the consumption of alcohol....
    me thinks not


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,346 ✭✭✭blindpilot


    On the rare occasion I have the flat to myself I love nothing more than having a few cans or bottles when I get in from work. There's nothing better than chillin out on your own after a day or days of people in your face all the time. Everyone needs their own time.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,739 ✭✭✭✭starbelgrade


    Scorcese didn't direct The Godfather, Francis Ford Coppolla did.

    ....and I'm on my third glass of wine! :P

    I know. The joke started on your first glass.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,574 ✭✭✭falan


    The streets-empty cans;)

    Relevant for this thread....


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z2i0Nw3NDBU


  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators Posts: 10,464 Mod ✭✭✭✭xzanti


    I often indulge in a glass or 2 of wine infront of the tele on my tod, as do most of my friends, I see nothing wrong with it..

    A bottle of vodka now would be a different kettle of fish altogether..


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    Nothing like a few cold bottles of beer by yourself - at home or in the pub. Nothing wrong with it as long as it complements drinking with others and doesn't replace it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,382 ✭✭✭petes


    I like having as few beers at home on my own. Stick on a film and relax.

    It's great. The only thing is the last Friday night I did this I had a bottle of red. Ended up going out after it!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21 El Futurismo


    I'd probably sit in and have a joint the odd night on my own. Never a drink though.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,041 ✭✭✭me_right_one


    I love drinking alone. Drink and think.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,375 ✭✭✭kmick


    Some of the best nights I have had have been on my own with a 6 pack and a good film, a good computer game, mixing music on my laptop or watching the Wire/Sopranos/BSG.

    Some people think its weird but I spend all day every day with workmates, kids, family, random people asking me for things. Im pretty sure most people who think it is weird are the same people who fear being alone with themselves in case they realise how miserable they actually are.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 58,456 ✭✭✭✭ibarelycare


    If I've no plans, there's nothing more I like than coming home from work on a Friday, getting into comfy clothes and enjoying a cold glass of white wine on my own. One of life's pleasures! The one glass sometimes tends to turn into a whole bottle though :o But it's not like I'm skulling them. I'll have my first glass with dinner at about 7 and mightn't go to bed til about 12 or 1...so that's 4 glasses of wine over a 5 or 6 hour period. I would easily drink double that if I was out.

    Sometimes I worry that I'm in denial...but f*ck it, I enjoy it!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,598 ✭✭✭✭prinz


    Nothing like kicking back enjoying alone time with a few drinks. While reading, listening to music, watching a movie, sometimes just laid out on a couch looking at the ceiling and having a few bottles/cans. My OH thinks it's weird to drink alone, apparently it's a well known sign of alcoholism :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,038 ✭✭✭jackiebaron


    Those who frown upon drinking alone or drinking at home are ****. Isn't a lady lying in a luxurious bath-tub full of suds and sipping a glass of champers drinking alone? Isn't a fair maiden in the park, reading a book and quaffing Merlot drinking alone? Isn't a country gent relaxing in the armchair in his conservatory with a tankard of cognac drinking alone. The **** don't seem to sneer at these types.

    I drink alone all the time and I love it. I love getting wasted on German beer and then getting all nostalgic and going on youtube and blasting loads of old songs from yester-year. Then I get all emotional and fragile and start cranking up real tear-jerker songs from the likes of Joan Armatrading and Duffy and the Three Degrees and Lulu and ****. Then I snap out of it crack open another pilsner and play Chumbawumba, haha.

    Then my girlfriend rings and tells me to meet her at the pub as she's had a hard evening at work and wants a bellyfull of vino.

    ACE!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,038 ✭✭✭jackiebaron


    I feel sorry for people who don't drink. They wake up in the morning and that's the best they're going to feel all day.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,861 ✭✭✭funnyname




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    I feel sorry for people who don't drink. They wake up in the morning and that's the best they're going to feel all day.

    That is the oddest thing. Someone said that sentence almost word for word to me yesterday \0/


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,789 ✭✭✭Caoimhín


    It depends on the person. I cant really drink alone as i usually wake up somewhere strange, miles from home and no memory. Others seem to be able to have a glass of whatever and leave it at that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,861 ✭✭✭Irishcrx


    I don't see anything wrong with it at all, My house is always full of friends etc coming over and all which is great but sometimes I need time to myself to relax and just think. They were all out last night GF included so I stayed in, had half bottle of wine , a joint , a mizzoni pizza and watched the damned utd. Most relaxing night I've had in ages, it's like recharging the batteries...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Do your internet friends count as people?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,931 ✭✭✭az2wp0sye65487


    I feel sorry for people who don't drink. They wake up in the morning and that's the best they're going to feel all day.
    Abitar wrote: »
    That is the oddest thing. Someone said that sentence almost word for word to me yesterday \0/

    It wasn't this fella by any chance, was it?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 122 ✭✭Kanye


    pistonsvox wrote: »
    Nice pint of guinness or cold bottle of miller, nacho's and some family guy is my end of week pleasure:pac:
    This is the sort of thing people have a problem with. This is the reason for the stigma and taboo. I mean, who thinks Family Guy is still funny?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,787 ✭✭✭✭ScumLord


    If I've no plans, there's nothing more I like than coming home from work on a Friday, getting into comfy clothes and enjoying a cold glass of white wine on my own. One of life's pleasures! The one glass sometimes tends to turn into a whole bottle though
    That's how I am with whiskey, I'll just have a hot toddy, two hours later I'm necking it out of the bottle on chatroulette trying to find a Chinese person that can tell me how to work the helicopter clock that they sent me.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,931 ✭✭✭Prof.Badass


    I would never drink alone. It's my rule to stop myself from becoming an alcoholic.

    I've no problems drinking at any time of day, or any number of days in the one week, but i'll only ever engage in social drinking (having a few on a normal night watching tv with housemates doesn't really count as social drinking though imo).

    It's a sensible rule to avoid addiction for any drug, don't see why so many people look down on those who abide by it.


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