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Relationships vs On The Pull
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Clementine Bumpy Space-age wrote: »Can you be in a relationship where you only have to see the OH when you want to watch a dvd and have a bottle of wine??
Showing my age now, but there used to be a comedy show called My Wife Next Door
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I've recently been made single and I'd do anything for that not be case.
Worst part is for the first 5 seconds you wake up, everything is fine. Then it hits you like a truck, BAM! Alone for another day.
Jesus and I thought I was depressed over it. There's always things like beer, and football, and comfort food, and the fact that you'll get laid again some day, and it will feel better than the one that just dumped you.
Or you might get bone cancer or something and die before another woman even touches you but that's life huh?0 -
You can have some of mine - no worriesibarelycare wrote: »Gotta find me one of those f*ck buddies!
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BraziliaNZ wrote: »Jesus and I thought I was depressed over it. There's always things like beer, and football, and comfort food, and the fact that you'll get laid again some day, and it will feel better than the one that just dumped you.
Or you might get bone cancer or something and die before another woman even touches you but that's life huh?
Yeah, I get that but they all feel like consolation prizes. I'm not as depressed as I was a week ago and I know that 'time heals all wounds'. She says she still loves me but that our lives are going in different paths. I don't know if the 'loves' part makes it better or worse. I can't walk away from her no matter how hard I try. (Actually this should probably be PI, but **** it
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ibarelycare wrote: »I agree with Novella's post...I want the fun stuff without all the mushy sh*te. Gotta find me one of those f*ck buddies!
So why were woman starting in the 80's and 90's telling us guys that we needed to open up more and be more romantic and talk and express ourselves emotionally etc etc.
Now that they have, women turn on them and say it's mushy
I swear to God, you'll have us all in the madhouse.0 -
Yeah, I get that but they all feel like consolation prizes. I'm not as depressed as I was a week ago and I know that 'time heals all wounds'. She says she still loves me but that our lives are going in different paths. I don't know if the 'loves' part makes it better or worse. I can't walk away from her no matter how hard I try. (Actually this should probably be PI, but **** it)
you just have to. I had to. And no contact in a month. She'll never get a bloke as hot as me again anyway. At least I have that consolation 0 -
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BraziliaNZ wrote: »you just have to. I had to. And no contact in a month. She'll never get a bloke as hot as me again anyway. At least I have that consolation
Oh, it's the same for me. I doing it for her sake as much as I mine. I mean, if she doesn't get back with me, lesbianism is the only path for her. 0 -
OutlawPete wrote: »So why were woman starting in the 80's and 90's telling us guys that we needed to open up more and be more romantic and talk and express ourselves emotionally etc etc.
Now that they have, women turn on them and say it's mushy
I swear to God, you'll have us all in the madhouse.
TBH, I think I just don't have that gene that most women have! I don't mind a LITTLE bit of mushiness....every now and again. On a similar vein, I also don't want to get 10 texts/phonecalls a day, just to say hi. Get a life!0 -
I've recently been made single and I'd do anything for that not be case. Worst part is for the first 5 seconds you wake up, everything is fine. Then it hits you like a truck, BAM! Alone for another day.
I know the feeling. Welcome to the club, just made single the day before Paddy's Day and a couple of days before my Birthday. 0 -
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Clementine Bumpy Space-age wrote: »The reason I haven't been in a proper relationship, I reckon, is the fact that I can be massive craic on a night out, give a girl so many laughs (which is what does it) but then morning after couldn't give two sh1ts.
Mon - fri I don't really wanna know anyone.
Anyone like this who still has managed to get someone likeminded??
Think I wanna go out with you meself .. heartbreaker 0 -
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Where we belong.OutlawPete wrote: »I swear to God, you'll have us all in the madhouse.
The older I've gotten the more shades of grey I see in some areas and the more black and white I see in others. If someone says they love you, great. Kudos indeed. If they say they love you... but... then that tells me one of two things. They either dont love you as much as they say(or like to think) or they're trying to mould you to fit their lives. BS for you either way. Sod that. My question to that? Who are you meeting? Who are you sharing things with? Who are you boning? If its not me, anything you tell me is at best self delusion, at worst a lie. "Its not you, its me/I'm not sure about this/we're going in diff directions/etc" for me = BS. Move on, make your own life and leave them to make up whatever mind they have. If they want you, they'll make it known to you with little vagueness. If I am fond of someone they know it. Never mind loving someone. Anything else is flim flam and ballsology of the highest order. My 3 cents anyway.She says she still loves me but that our lives are going in different paths. I don't know if the 'loves' part makes it better or worse. I can't walk away from her no matter how hard I try. (Actually this should probably be PI, but **** it)Many worry about Artificial Intelligence. I worry far more about Organic Idiocy.
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This would be the way I would feel about it. Don't know if I ever could go back to a serious long termer again though.
Once bitten, twice shy and all that.
I'd like to think that myself but I know sometime down the line there will be someone I'll trust with my heart again and I'll go for it. It's all part of living your life really ! Even if it hurts like a bitch sometimes 0 -
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The older I've gotten the more shades of grey I see in some areas and the more black and white I see in others. If someone says they love you, great. Kudos indeed. If they say they love you... but... then that tells me one of two things. They either dont love you as much as they say(or like to think) or they're trying to mould you to fit their lives. BS for you either way. Sod that. My question to that? Who are you meeting? Who are you sharing things with? Who are you boning? If its not me, anything you tell me is at best self delusion, at worst a lie. "Its not you, its me/I'm not sure about this/we're going in diff directions/etc" for me = BS. Move on, make your own life and leave them to make up whatever mind they have. If they want you, they'll make it known to you with little vagueness. If I am fond of someone they know it. Never mind loving someone. Anything else is flim flam and ballsology of the highest order. My 3 cents anyway.
i would agree with this, although inexperienced. Magazines and books have shagged all expectations.
I certainly believe in lust, but does love not just turn into dependency?0
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