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Woman jailed after sex with 12-year-old 200 times!!!

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    OutlawPete wrote: »
    What and have everything know the Outlaw's past? Lose my ubercool status??

    I mean .. :o

    Yeah, what's with the anon account .. :cool:
    Well, this isn't P.I. so it shouldn't be allowed. We should know who the poster is IMO.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    Bonito wrote: »
    Well, this isn't P.I. so it shouldn't be allowed. We should know who the poster is IMO.

    Why?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,900 ✭✭✭littlefriend


    Bonito wrote: »
    Well, this isn't P.I. so it shouldn't be allowed. We should know who the poster is IMO.

    Why do you say that?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    super-rush wrote: »
    Why?
    It's AH not PI. So should I go make an Anon account and say what my childhood was like and hide my identity? Could be all made up for all we know.

    If this Anon poster has nothing to be ashamed of with what went on in their past why have they posted anon? Afraid of tarnishing their name within AH? If they were so concerned they should have taken a link to this thread and gone and made their own Anon thread in PI in look of answers as this thread has clearly touched a raw nerve for them and caused upset.

    It was not treated like for like. The thread was sidetracked to what happened them as a child rather than addressing what happened the boy in question in this thread.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,001 ✭✭✭recylingbin


    Bonito wrote: »
    Well, this isn't P.I. so it shouldn't be allowed. We should know who the poster is IMO.
    Everyone is a suspect

    rbky82.jpg


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,900 ✭✭✭littlefriend


    ''Could be all made up for all we know''

    Practically everything on here could be made up.

    ''If this Anon poster has nothing to be ashamed of with what went on in their past why have they posted anon?''

    Well it doesn't mean they are ashamed but probably want to remain anonymous for privacy. I'm not ashamed of my address for example but I'm not going to have it up on a message board.

    ''If they were so concerned they should have taken a link to this thread and gone and made their own Anon thread in PI in look of answers as this thread has clearly touched a raw nerve for them and caused upset.''

    I don't really know what you mean here.


    EDIT - you don't need to answer me or anything - i'm going asleep now.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,814 ✭✭✭Nemanja91


    For the 200th time he might have been getting a bag to put over her head!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    Bonito wrote: »
    It's AH not PI. So should I go make an Anon account and say what my childhood was like and hide my identity? Could be all made up for all we know.

    If this Anon poster has nothing to be ashamed of with what went on in their past why have they posted anon? Afraid of tarnishing their name within AH? If they were so concerned they should have taken a link to this thread and gone and made their own Anon thread in PI in look of answers as this thread has clearly touched a raw nerve for them and caused upset.

    It was not treated like for like. The thread was sidetracked to what happened them as a child rather than addressing what happened the boy in question in this thread.

    If the poster in question had started the thread as AnonAccount and then used his personal experience as an example then it would have been locked and directed to PI. The way i'm looking at it is that the poster created an "Anon Account" to contribute to a thread. Not a lot of people would have done that even as an anonymous poster.

    Anonymous posting in forums outside PI is not allowed but there is always room for flexiblity. I just can't see what would be achieved by revealing his identity.

    Perhaps we should all draw a line under the past few posts and start again.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    ''If this Anon poster has nothing to be ashamed of with what went on in their past why have they posted anon?''

    Well it doesn't mean they are ashamed but probably want to remain anonymous for privacy. I'm not ashamed of my address for example but I'm not going to have it up on a message board.
    Their username is hardly anything as personal as their home address. :rolleyes: What do they have to hide? If anyone was to use the info that they gave us in this thread against them they'd be banned! So they actually have nothing to be afraid of if they'd posted under their real username. My opinion is they're afraid of what others on this site will think of them with this new info brought to light.

    ''If they were so concerned they should have taken a link to this thread and gone and made their own Anon thread in PI in look of answers as this thread has clearly touched a raw nerve for them and caused upset.''

    I don't really know what you mean here.

    Ok. Anon poster is reading through thread with normal account. Thread starts to touch raw nerves. Poster can't resist not putting in their view. So they make Anon account and post a very detailed and personal piece of writing.

    If this thread bothered them to such an extent where they're hiding who they are then they should have made a thread in PI. In this PI thread they could have stated what displeased them about this thread and then put in their view of maybe the boy was giving consent, as they themselves did years ago when they were younger. Then the issue gets looked at from more than one view.

    This thread does not have a 2 sided story. The woman in question was found guilty and sentenced. She groomed, abused, raped and took advantage of a young boy, repeatedly and even keeping count in a diary. Then this Anon poster enters and say "Well when I was 12 I was having consensual sex with a 19 year old girl so how do you know this boy wasn't having consensual sex with this 36 year old woman"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    super-rush wrote: »
    If the poster in question had started the thread as AnonAccount and then used his personal experience as an example then it would have been locked and directed to PI. The way i'm looking at it is that the poster created an "Anon Account" to contribute to a thread. Not a lot of people would have done that even as an anonymous poster.

    Anonymous posting in forums outside PI is not allowed but there is always room for flexiblity. I just can't see what would be achieved by revealing his identity.

    Perhaps we should all draw a line under the past few posts and start again.
    You must look at it from both directions though. What have they achieved by going Anon and placing such a post? IMO all they had done was have some posters say the way they see things is sick and pull the thread off it's originally topic - A 36 year old woman being found guilty and sentenced to imprisonment for grooming, raping and abusing a 12 year old boy.

    All the Anon poster done was let off steam of their own issues. Which were sparked back up by this thread.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,001 ✭✭✭recylingbin


    This woman has aged 10 years in 4 minutes.
    how do you know this boy wasn't having consensual sex with this 26 year old woman
    A 36 year old woman being found guilty and sentenced to imprisonment for grooming, raping and abusing a 12 year old boy.
    she's probably out by now.

    Why do you care if a poster went anon or not? How does it impact upon your life?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    This woman has aged 10 years in 4 minutes.


    she's probably out by now.

    Why do you care if a poster went anon or not? How does it impact upon your life?

    Do you not have anything better to do other than spot errors and nit pick at peoples posts and then write absolute tripe?

    Where did I say it has impacted my life :rolleyes:

    I love posters like you. The only contribution you make to a thread like this is "Jaysis she's in bits" or something of the sort. Yet when I have an issue with a post within this thread and want it addressed you just continue along your little path and looking for something you can nit pick at. Why not try actually making a good contribution to the thread other than being a thanks whore?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    Bonito wrote: »
    You must look at it from both directions though. What have they achieved by going Anon and placing such a post? IMO all they had done was have some posters say the way they see things is sick and pull the thread off it's originally topic - A 36 year old woman being found guilty and sentenced to imprisonment for grooming, raping and abusing a 12 year old boy.

    All the Anon poster done was let off steam of their own issues. Which were sparked back up by this thread.

    I have looked at it from both directions(i have to :))

    Lets put it this way

    AnonAccount posts under his normal name. Thread nosedives instantly. Infractions. Bans. Thread locked.

    Posts as AnonAccount. People gasp. Thread goes off topic for a bit. Warning to stay on topic. Thread and discussion continue.

    Simples:)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,001 ✭✭✭recylingbin


    Bonito wrote: »
    Do you not have anything better to do other than spot errors and nit pick at peoples posts and then write absolute tripe?

    Where did I say it has impacted my life :rolleyes:

    I love posters like you. The only contribution you make to a thread like this is "Jaysis she's in bits" or something of the sort. Yet when I have an issue with a post within this thread and want it addressed you just continue along your little path and looking for something you can nit pick at. Why not try actually making a good contribution to the thread other than being a thanks whore?

    You didn't say it impacted on your life. You demonstarted that it did.
    little path? good one.
    Your issue is just nit picking.
    I have made a contribution to the thread. One commensurate with how little I care about the whole thing.

    I'm not a thanks whore. I don't give a flying f one way or the other what anyone thinks of my 'little' posts.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    super-rush wrote: »
    I have looked at it from both directions(i have to :))

    Lets put it this way

    AnonAccount posts under his normal name. Thread nosedives instantly. Infractions. Bans. Thread locked.

    Posts as AnonAccount. People gasp. Thread goes off topic for a bit. Warning to stay on topic. Thread and discussion continue.

    Simples:)
    Told you I was mod material ;)

    Back on topic folks, nothing to see here, yada yada yada
    .

    Thought I'd save ya some typing :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,473 ✭✭✭✭Super-Rush


    Bonito wrote: »
    Do you not have anything better to do other than spot errors and nit pick at peoples posts and then write absolute tripe?

    Where did I say it has impacted my life :rolleyes:

    I love posters like you. The only contribution you make to a thread like this is "Jaysis she's in bits" or something of the sort. Yet when I have an issue with a post within this thread and want it addressed you just continue along your little path and looking for something you can nit pick at. Why not try actually making a good contribution to the thread other than being a thanks whore?
    You didn't say it impacted on your life. You demonstarted that it did.
    little path? good one.
    Your issue is just nit picking.
    I have made a contribution to the thread. One commensurate with how little I care about the whole thing.

    I'm not a thanks whore. I don't give a flying f one way or the other what anyone thinks of my 'little' posts.

    1st warning for both of you.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,740 ✭✭✭Asphyxia


    That is just disgusting!! That poor kid :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,971 ✭✭✭we'llallhavetea_old


    in relation to the 36yr old rapist and the 12yr victim i feel just as disgusted as i would if it were a man raping a girl. i cannot relate to this woman in any way. how can any female actually look at a 12yr old boy and think about having sex with them? vile.

    also, the post by anonaccount, i felt very uncomfortable reading it tbh.

    specifically the part about his 6 and 10 yr old children possibly being allowed explore they're sexuality with friends.
    personally i think at that age, kids should solely explore their sexuality with themselves and themselves alone.
    no one can know if a child is ready to participate in sexual activities with anyone else at that age. they are just too impressionable.

    just my opinion. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,900 ✭✭✭littlefriend


    Bonito wrote: »
    Their username is hardly anything as personal as their home address. :rolleyes: What do they have to hide? If anyone was to use the info that they gave us in this thread against them they'd be banned! So they actually have nothing to be afraid of if they'd posted under their real username. My opinion is they're afraid of what others on this site will think of them with this new info brought to light.

    Sorry that was a bad example. I meant that the post they wrote was incredibly personal so I can understand the wish for anonymity. I mean to have a username in the first place is wanting anonymity isn't it? Maybe the poster has friends on here too, would you seriously post details of your sexual history under your own name?

    For what its worth, I agree with you in relation to the woman involved. I have an 11 year old niece. I know some of the boys in her class who are also 11/12. I am 36. The thoughts someone my age having sex with one of my nieces friends is disturbing to say the least. Someone said earlier that children of that age are emotionally mature..WTF???


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,239 ✭✭✭✭WindSock


    specifically the part about his 6 and 10 yr old children possibly being allowed explore they're sexuality with friends.
    personally i think at that age, kids should solely explore their sexuality with themselves and themselves alone.
    no one can know if a child is ready to participate in sexual activities with anyone else at that age. they are just too impressionable.

    I agree with that. It is important though for children/teens to understand that while they may have urges toward another (especially younger or older than them), that they have to learn to control that urge as it may impact on one party in a negative way, especially down the road and where there is an element of manipulation involved or something. Christ, I'd hate to be a parent.

    I mean, we as adults have to learn to control ourselves. It should be the same for children, should it not?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,399 ✭✭✭Bonito


    I mean to have a username in the first place is wanting anonymity isn't it?
    Yes ;)
    Maybe the poster has friends on here too, would you seriously post details of your sexual history under your own name?
    If you check back a couple of pages you'll see I have no problem discussing sexual history on here under my username :)
    Someone said earlier that children of that age are emotionally mature..WTF???
    I believe that was the Anon poster.:cool:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,971 ✭✭✭we'llallhavetea_old


    WindSock wrote: »
    I agree with that. It is important though for children/teens to understand that while they may have urges toward another (especially younger or older than them), that they have to learn to control that urge as it may impact on one party in a negative way, especially down the road and where there is an element of manipulation involved or something. Christ, I'd hate to be a parent.

    I mean, we as adults have to learn to control ourselves. It should be the same for children, should it not?

    yes, this is what i was trying to say, you worded it more eloquently!

    i am a parent and my daughter is six in the summer, the thoughts of her being in a friends house with the likes of anonaccounts children, being allowed act in a sexual manner, well, it makes me sick. if i found out that anonaccount had allowed it to happen, to be quite honest i think i'd half kill him.

    just because you want to raise your kids to understand that sex is not a bad, dirty act, does not mean that you should encourage them to act out with eachother. it just isn't safe. nobody can predict how another child will react, if not immediately, later on in life.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,239 ✭✭✭✭WindSock


    AA, if you had girls would you feel differently about them exploring their sexuality with friends?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 809 ✭✭✭dylano_k


    Either he's carrying an extra arm in his jox or she's a tight squeeze


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 809 ✭✭✭dylano_k


    WindSock wrote: »
    AA, if you had girls would you feel differently about them exploring their sexuality with friends?

    Unless he was allowed to watch...adult supervision is very important


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,971 ✭✭✭we'llallhavetea_old


    dylano_k wrote: »
    Unless he was allowed to watch...adult supervision is very important

    jesus fcuking christ. :mad:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    WindSock wrote: »
    AA, if you had girls would you feel differently about them exploring their sexuality with friends?

    Curious as to why yo think that.

    What's the difference between letting boys explore masturbation as opposed to girls?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    dylano_k wrote: »
    Unless he was allowed to watch...adult supervision is very important
    dylano_k wrote: »
    Either he's carrying an extra arm in his jox or she's a tight squeeze

    Take some time out to grow up.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 44,079 ✭✭✭✭Micky Dolenz



    By the time I was 8 I had taught many of my friends about masturbating, and we eventually started masturbating each other. .

    So to statisfy your urges you encouraged touching amongst your friends? Do you belive if you hadn't instigated it, it wouldn't have happened?.

    There is something very wrong about that.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,586 ✭✭✭newmember2


    Bonito wrote: »
    Well, this isn't P.I. so it shouldn't be allowed. We should know who the poster is IMO.


    Am I missing something here?

    This is an internet forum where you need an email address to register and where posters use usernames.

    WE'RE ALL ANONYMOUS:pac:


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