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Premise: GF catches you watching porn on the PC

27-12-2009 07:57AM

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Richard Dower

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I saw this scenario played out recently on a tv show called Being Erica, it was very funny....but raised alot of questions, that were explored in the ep.

So my question is, girls....how would you react?...what questions would it raise for you?
Why would he need that when he can get the real thing etc?, men.....why?

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#2 27-12-2009 08:03AM

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thread in the ladys lounge... Go read it..

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#3 27-12-2009 08:07AM

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meh. it's porn. as long as it's not somebody he knows personally, all is sweet.

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#4 27-12-2009 08:55AM

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Interesting reading:)

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/relationships/6709646/All-men-watch-porn-scientists-find.html

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💙 💛 💙 💛 💙 💛

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#5 27-12-2009 10:35AM

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Crumble Froo wrote: »

meh. it's porn. as long as it's not somebody he knows personally, all is sweet.

Marry me...

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#6 27-12-2009 10:41AM

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In this day and age if a woman has a problem with a man watching porn she needs to open her eyes and get real. Most women are fine with it, its no big deal - the few who do are usually totally naive and prudish.

Porn to men is kinda like vibrators to women

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#7 27-12-2009 10:43AM

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Archimedes wrote: »

Marry me...

i assure you now... bad idea. but women who think similarly to that post of mine you jsut quoted... not that rare

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#8 27-12-2009 10:53AM

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Ask her to use the mouse, leaving both hands free.

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#9 27-12-2009 11:01AM

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Just tell her that’s where you learn all those special moves you do on her and you were looking for some extra special moves for Xmas

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#10 27-12-2009 11:06AM

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Funfair wrote: »

Just tell her that’s where you learn all those special moves you do on her and you were looking for some extra special moves for Xmas

yeah, missionary..and..eh..

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#11 27-12-2009 11:08AM

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I wouldn't reall mind that much but I would wonder why he felt the need to watch it in secret when I'm not around. Why not watch it together or openly?

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#12 27-12-2009 11:12AM

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watna wrote: »

I wouldn't reall mind that much but I would wonder why he felt the need to watch it in secret when I'm not around. Why not watch it together or openly?

Because it just not the same.

It's like your parents letting you have a drink at Christmas when you were underage. Takes all the fun out of it.

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#13 27-12-2009 11:13AM

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You do know wimmins look at porn too, right?

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#14 27-12-2009 11:41AM

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Kiera wrote: »

You do know wimmins look at porn too, right?

Yeah all the filthy ones do.

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#15 27-12-2009 12:01PM

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The missus actually encourages it as it's where I get a lot of my best moves. :cool:

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#16 27-12-2009 12:05PM

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Theres no harm in it, I'd just ask him if he needs another hand.

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#17 27-12-2009 12:05PM

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If she has any sense , she'll join you.
It's porn, it's like scratching an itch.

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#18 27-12-2009 12:08PM

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Actually happened to a friend of mine, sitting at his desktop in his parents study and his gf walked in while he was tugging away, very porn star like she did bat an eye lid came in stood behind him and ahem finished both of them off! Man I want his gf!

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#19 27-12-2009 12:11PM

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helimachoptor wrote: »

Actually happened to a friend of mine, sitting at his desktop in his parents study and his gf walked in while he was tugging away, very porn star like she did bat an eye lid came in stood behind him and ahem finished both of them off! Man I want his gf!

C'mon, if he had any class, he wouldn't have told you.

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#20 27-12-2009 12:24PM

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Archimedes wrote: »

Marry me...

I call second!

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#21 27-12-2009 12:24PM

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I am sure he does and i don't mind, it is fun to watch together sometimes.
I think the content would be the only issue, if it was weird niche stuff or if it involved violence or something like that.

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#22 27-12-2009 12:37PM

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Abigayle wrote: »

Theres no harm in it, I'd just ask him if he needs another hand.

The lucky bastard, the one hand does mine

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#23 27-12-2009 12:42PM

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m@cc@ wrote: »

C'mon, if he had any class, he wouldn't have told you.

Fúck that, I would have bragged about it for weeks.

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#24 27-12-2009 12:42PM

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Journee Red Vigilance wrote: »

The lucky bastard, the one hand does mine

I'm going to refrain from answering this one in its entirity, so I'll leave it at: It can feel quite nice when other areas are being stimulated at the same time

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#25 27-12-2009 12:43PM

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baz2009 wrote: »

Fúck that, I would have bragged about it for weeks.

A self-fulfilling prophecy.

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#26 27-12-2009 01:05PM

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Out of curiousity what would you women say if you walked in on your BF and found him watching homemade stuff of an old GF?

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#27 27-12-2009 01:19PM

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Canis Lupus wrote: »

Out of curiousity what would you women say if you walked in on your BF and found him watching homemade stuff of an old GF?

I'd probably be about as happy as he would if he caught me watching homemade stuff starring an ex of mine.

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#28 27-12-2009 01:25PM

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Canis Lupus wrote: »

Out of curiousity what would you women say if you walked in on your BF and found him watching homemade stuff of an old GF?

How do you think your current gf should react?

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#29 27-12-2009 01:28PM

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Well i'd firstly make sure he was sufficiently embarrassed about it. Cos it is an embarrassing thing to be caught with.. So ultimate finger pointing and slagging is warranted.

Then things would probably lead upstairs. Without computher.

Do girls really go mad about this sort of thing?

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#30 27-12-2009 01:39PM

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There was a similar thread about this on another forum here, I can't remember which. It was basically where a girl was getting all upset that her boyfriend was watching porn and she took this to mean he wasn't attracted to her etc.

It was a bit frustrating as she didn't really understand the male mentality when watching porn. Also for some reason she felt the need to compare herself to the people in porn which I felt was a bit unnecessary and bordering of vanity. It's really just a release and sometimes people just want to get off without the whole rigmarole of having to start pleasing someone else first. It's not selfish, it's just the way things are.

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#31 27-12-2009 01:48PM

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Trí wrote: »

Well i'd firstly make sure he was sufficiently embarrassed about it. Cos it is an embarrassing thing to be caught with.. So ultimate finger pointing and slagging is warranted.

Then things would probably lead upstairs. Without computher.

Do girls really go mad about this sort of thing?

It is important to remember that pressing back space will lead to the last page viewed irregardless of history being deleted.

This happened to someone i know and it was very embarrassing.

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