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Men-what attracts you to a girl on a night out?

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  • #32
    longshanks
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,990 ✭✭✭longshanks


    Lemondrop kid wrote: »
    Assuming your question is real (and i suspect it is) the above are the reasons.
    1/ The majority of men are terrified of talking to women / ie rejection
    2/ Most men will approach someone not too threatening.
    That simple

    are you the real lemondrop kid?


  • #33
    Abi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    SoWatchaWant wrote: »
    Didn't realise you'd still mope around after saying such a grand goodbye?

    Let it go ffs.


  • #34
    argosy2006
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,210 ✭✭✭argosy2006


    Whosbetter? wrote: »
    Also ladies, lay off this obsession with being a size zero.

    Posh Spice is not an acceptable role model for anybody!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Only gays think that's cool.

    Real men think that a size 12 is about right.:cool:
    she should do a add for mcguire and pattersons


  • #35
    blackbetty69
    Closed Accounts Posts: 485 ✭✭blackbetty69


    Fizman wrote: »
    The design of her facial hair.

    sure whatever ur into..


  • #36
    TheZohanS
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,581 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    SoWatchaWant wrote: »
    Didn't realise you'd still mope around after saying such a grand goodbye?

    I would have kept my head down if I was you, pity you had to act the jack the lad.


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  • #37
    Terry
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,073 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    SoWatchaWant wrote: »
    Didn't realise you'd still mope around after saying such a grand goodbye?

    Now I rarely use this, so I hope you are aware of its significance.
    :rolleyes:

    I quit moderating AH. I did not quit posting here.

    Back on topic; Women, stop wearing revealing clothes and then whining when some dude tries to chat you up.
    No, I am not saying that wearing revealing clothes is an excuse for rape. There is no excuse for rape.
    What I am saying is that if you wear revealing clothes to a club, then men are going to try and chat you up. Shocking. I know.
    Stop pretending that you are completely unaware of this. We know that you know.

    What's that you say?
    You want to go to a club and not be hit on my horny blokes?
    Yeah, that's never ever going to happen. Deal with it.


  • #38
    The Shark
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 55 ✭✭The Shark


    When there not sitting around man hateing..


  • #39
    upmeath
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,492 ✭✭✭upmeath


    Red socks


  • #40
    brummytom
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,572 ✭✭✭✭brummytom


    Just them being in said place attracts me to them


  • #41
    Nozebleed
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,724 ✭✭✭Nozebleed


    its nice if a woman smiles at you..rarely happens unortunately.


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  • #42
    Kristian_
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 220 ✭✭Kristian_


    A smile:) and a sense of humur:D which is often very hard to come across! A squeezable bum always helps too!;)


  • #43
    HalloweenJack
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,574 ✭✭✭HalloweenJack


    Chances of a ride.


  • #44
    Xinkai
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,587 ✭✭✭Xinkai


    The ones i can actually get up the balls to talk to usually do it for me :D

    Also Ass.


  • #45
    Cupcake_Crisis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    Confidence!!


  • #46
    Duggy747
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,295 ✭✭✭✭Duggy747


    Emotionally fragile wimmen are my fortay.

    *slicks back oily hair with flick-knife*

    Or when they don't have a scoul on their face that becomes fiercer the closer you get to them.

    Meh, as long as they're not drunk or a mutt I usually try and strike up a conversation, though that usually ends in one of the following ways:

    A) They talk & flirt with you, they'll hang around all night with you hoping you'll buy drinks for 'em, and then at the end of the night mention that they have a boyfriend, wait for your reaction and then hop into a taxi (That's happened 3 out of the past 5 times I've been out, so fùck the lot of ye!)

    B)You're getting on sound with the girl before her sour-faced friend drags her away, never to be seen again :mad:

    C) Her boyfriend walks up to ye (Stabbing him is optional, though not recommended.)

    D) She has zero personality and just spits acid at ya. (Man, some wimmen are just angry, angry people.)

    OR

    E) You start a conversation with her, get on brilliant with her but, alas she has a boyfriend and insists setting you up with her Picasso-looking friend. :(

    EDIT: Heh heh, actually just remembered when a mate of mine started a conversation with an English girl, she started making fun of him so naturally that pissed him off and he made fun of her back.............................cue her shouting for her boyfriend to hit him.

    Striking a conversation with a girl is like a Pick N' Mix bag, you dunno what the hell is gonna happen. :p


  • #47
    Warfi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 633 ✭✭✭Warfi


    Duggy747 wrote: »
    E) You start a conversation with her, get on brilliant with her but, alas she has a boyfriend and insists setting you up with her Picasso-looking friend. :(

    :D:D:D Hilarious description!!

    With regard to the rest of your post, you've had really bad luck. Change the places you go to, very hard to meet someone in a club anyway (the older you get). I've met some right loons in nightclubs, I don't bother trying to meet anyone in them anymore. Waste of time


  • #48
    Grudaire
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,594 ✭✭✭Grudaire


    smk89 wrote: »
    The presence of a vagina

    Hole and a heartbeat surely!


  • #49
    piby
    Closed Accounts Posts: 539 ✭✭✭piby


    Magnets


  • #50
    loglogbarkbark
    Closed Accounts Posts: 72 ✭✭loglogbarkbark


    I love chatting to fellas in smoking areas I have no problems chatting to anyone no matter what they look like because I honestly go for personality.What pisses me off is some men feel because they have talked to you it's fully their right for you to head down an ally down with them and when you say no they make you feel like a tease. whats wrong with exchanging numbers.


  • #51
    Abi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,058 ✭✭✭✭Abi


    Cliste wrote: »
    Hole and a heartbeat surely!

    I hate anything that starts with 'This is AH' ...but a heartbeat doesn't really seem high up on the list of requirements.


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  • #52
    Warfi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 633 ✭✭✭Warfi


    loglogbarkbark wrote: »
    I love chatting to fellas in smoking areas I have no problems chatting to anyone no matter what they look like because I honestly go for personality.What pisses me off is some men feel because they have talked to you it's fully their right for you to head down an ally down with them and when you say no they make you feel like a tease. whats wrong with exchanging numbers.

    They're just assholes, don't mind them. There are plenty of nice men out there who know how to treat a girl, get chatting to them instead


  • #53
    wudangclan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,883 ✭✭✭wudangclan


    Abigayle wrote: »
    I hate anything that starts with 'This is AH' ...but a heartbeat doesn't really seem high up on the list of requirements.

    But it is essential...most of the time.


  • #54
    loglogbarkbark
    Closed Accounts Posts: 72 ✭✭loglogbarkbark


    Warfi wrote: »
    They're just assholes, don't mind them. There are plenty of nice men out there who know how to treat a girl, get chatting to them instead
    I need an asshole radar hahah.


  • #55
    Whosbetter?
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,051 ✭✭✭Whosbetter?


    loglogbarkbark wrote: »
    I love chatting to fellas in smoking areas I have no problems chatting to anyone no matter what they look like because I honestly go for personality.What pisses me off is some men feel because they have talked to you it's fully their right for you to head down an ally down with them and when you say no they make you feel like a tease. whats wrong with exchanging numbers.

    Oh God!

    How wonderful it would have been, if mobile phones & texting were available when I was on the prowl.


  • #56
    OutlawPete
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Terry wrote: »
    Women, stop wearing revealing clothes and then whining when some dude tries to chat you up.

    Stop pretending that you are completely unaware of this. We know that you know.

    Classic.

    I could do with some help on the following thread when you get a minute ;)

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=63370995


  • #57
    OutlawPete
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Eye contact and a friendly smile ftw.


  • #58
    Grudaire
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,594 ✭✭✭Grudaire


    Abigayle wrote: »
    I hate anything that starts with 'This is AH' ...but a heartbeat doesn't really seem high up on the list of requirements.

    And it's really putting "Easyness" in context (If they're dead they'll not say no!)


  • #59
    Saibh
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,431 ✭✭✭✭Saibh


    Cliste wrote: »
    Hole and a heartbeat surely!

    Would say a hole and a heartbeat just about describes anyone - female or male...

    :p


  • #60
    Duggy747
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,295 ✭✭✭✭Duggy747


    loglogbarkbark wrote: »
    I love chatting to fellas in smoking areas I have no problems chatting to anyone no matter what they look like because I honestly go for personality.What pisses me off is some men feel because they have talked to you it's fully their right for you to head down an ally down with them and when you say no they make you feel like a tease. whats wrong with exchanging numbers.

    Ha ha, one time I was out in the smoking area of a club bored on my own when I saw a girl on her own. I went over and started chatting to her just for some company and before long she was convinced I was trying to get with her. She kept randomly throwing in that she had a boyfriend :confused: but I just wanted to talk to her so I finished my fag and walked off.

    A little head would have livened up the conversation :pac:


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  • #61
    loglogbarkbark
    Closed Accounts Posts: 72 ✭✭loglogbarkbark


    Duggy747 wrote: »
    Ha ha, one time I was out in the smoking area of a club bored on my own when I saw a girl on her own. I went over and started chatting to her just for some company and before long she was convinced I was trying to get with her. She kept randomly throwing in that she had a boyfriend :confused: but I just wanted to talk to her so I finished my fag and walked off.

    A little head would have livened up the conversation :pac:

    Ha that happens with fellas too though I never have a lighter on me sometimes people think just asking for a light is a proposition.A big long sigh and a my girlfriends at the bar thing.Its a weird world every move has a motive behind it to some people.I pride myself on taking people at face value because life is a happier place if you do.


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