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Addicted to being a player

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  • #32
    troubleshooter
    Closed Accounts Posts: 311 ✭✭troubleshooter


    kittenkiller wrote: »
    Well if that's the case I suggest therapy as nothing else is really going to change you.
    Although if you're so smooth, I don't know why you'd want to change...

    I'd also suggest that you stop posting a thread whenever you get laid asking for advise/opinions regarding your "dilemma" and then ignoring the replies you get.
    You should look back on all the threads you've started and see how many of them are about your troubles with the ladies, and also reflect on how much of the advice you've taken on board!


    Every ones on a journey my friend, even you dipping your hob knobs in your coffee before you go to bed dreaming of that hunk on that dating site, who ticks all the boxes, but is out of your league(me, ha). Advice is welcome,BUT no need to sound bitter my friend, I am not the enemy, Im not that guy Once got in your head and dumped you.

    I take on advice, its all about working out/reconcilling our issues it takes time. We all want to be whole, be loved and love, we are all on a healing journey......I am not the enemy.


  • #33
    kittenkiller
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,433 ✭✭✭kittenkiller


    troubleshooter wrote: »
    Every ones on a journey my friend, even you dipping your hob knobs in your coffee before you go to bed dreaming of that hunk on that dating site(me, ha), who ticks all the boxes, but is out of your league. Advice is welcome,BUT no need to sound bitter my friend, I am not the enemy, Im not that guy Once got in your head and dumped you.

    I take on advice, its all about working out/reconcilling our issues it takes time.
    My original reply was an attempt to help.
    Subsequent ones were out a frustration mostly.

    You seem to have gotten boards.ie confused with some sort of blog but to a larger audience.
    There's no need to get tetchy with opinion guy or me, we're just online wasting time like anyone else.

    Unfortunately if you think you know your lucky partners as well as you do the posters on this site, I feel you may not have the dilemmas that you post here about...
    Quite the opposite.

    I can state as fact, however that you are in no way out of my league!
    An old man with a sh1t load of baggage and the expectation that his partners need to be lapdancers in order to win his heart?
    Sounds like the internet has done you a favour, you can now try to work your magic on people who can't see how old, desperate and sleazy you present yourself as being on here, as well and research pulling techniques.

    If you'd like, I could help you set up a proper blog if you feel it would help you with your issues?


  • #34
    troubleshooter
    Closed Accounts Posts: 311 ✭✭troubleshooter


    I can state as fact, however that you are in no way out of my league!


    .................Wou, you are so insecure and your bitterness is obviously borne out of disappointment, I hope you heal.


  • #35
    kenbrady
    Closed Accounts Posts: 404 ✭✭kenbrady


    troubleshooter wrote: »
    Sounds Im actually triggering deeper insecurities in you my friend, whats wrong, why the need to be confrontational ? Jealous ?
    Nobody is jealous of you, you are clearly unhappy and a lost sole.
    troubleshooter wrote: »
    if you dont like the thread why post ?
    People are trying to help you, they see your unhappiness and want to give you some assistance. This is done because they are good people or they pity you.
    troubleshooter wrote: »
    Every ones on a journey my friend, even you dipping your hob knobs in your coffee before you go to bed dreaming of that hunk on that dating site, who ticks all the boxes, but is out of your league(me, ha). Advice is welcome,BUT no need to sound bitter my friend, I am not the enemy, Im not that guy Once got in your head and dumped you.

    I take on advice, its all about working out/reconcilling our issues it takes time. We all want to be whole, be loved and love, we are all on a healing journey......I am not the enemy.
    You think you can get into people heads and influence them, you have no power over anyone. You can't even get inside your own head and work on your own problems.

    I think you are reaching out for help by staring these threads. If you want people to help you, you need to admit your issues and start a thread on that.
    Look under the personal issues thread for links to professional help. You don't have relationship issues, you have serious personal issues.


  • #36
    opinion guy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,001 ✭✭✭✭opinion guy


    troubleshooter wrote: »
    Advice, weather you reply, which you and kitten killer have is your perogative, if you dont like the thread why post ?

    Sounds Im actually triggering deeper insecurities in you my friend, whats wrong, why the need to be confrontational ? Jealous ?

    No my friend just trying to help you. I'm not judging cause i haven't seen any of the other threads. But i am asking you what is it you are hoping to achieve, because i'm not sure and that makes it hard to help you.

    Hmmm lets try another approach. Why don't you tell us about your wife ? You were together for almost 20 years yes ? What did you guys like to do together ? What were her qualities you loved ? What did she bring to your life that is now missing ? How did you feel when you were with her ? What about kids ? you guys didn't have kids I'm guessing ? Did you want to ?


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  • #37
    Silverfish
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,698 Mod ✭✭✭✭Silverfish


    troubleshooter, I'm not sure you know how PI works.

    Since I don't think this is your first thread on this issue and all the previous ones ended similarly to this one, I'm closing it.


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