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Women and condoms.

  • 23-10-2009 10:40AM
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,217 ✭✭✭✭m5ex9oqjawdg2i


    Something I heard on the auld wireless... would you consider a woman that carries condoms to be a "slut" or that she sleeps around a lot?

    Personally I would subconciously, but yet I always carried them when I was single, just in case :P

    This shouldn't be the case though, it's not fair to thing this, but it's a subconcious thing.

    Discuss.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,647 ✭✭✭✭Fago!


    would you consider a woman that carries condoms to be a "slut" .

    I shouldn't, but I do.

    Sluts are people too y'know. The best kind or people. They give uggos like me a chance.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,949 ✭✭✭✭IvyTheTerrible


    A woman is a slut for taking control of her sexual health? Nice. :rolleyes:


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 36,501 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    Obviously. Any woman who has sex is clearly a trollop. Presumably, like the rest of us, you were found under a cabbage leaf?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,054 ✭✭✭✭Professey Chin


    Nope.So what if she carries one? Smarter then the fella without one.
    *checks*
    Im safe


  • Posts: 18,046 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Yea, I was with a girl before in college who had a bowl full of condoms on a shelf beside her bed. Classy.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,054 ✭✭✭✭Professey Chin


    Obviously. Any woman who has sex is clearly a trollop. Presumably, like the rest of us, you were found under a cabbage leaf?
    My mother had me convinced about this for years :o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,054 ✭✭✭✭Professey Chin


    Yea, I was with a girl before in college who had a bowl full of condoms on a shelf beside her bed. Classy.
    used? :eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    God I must be the biggest tramp on the planet..I went into Boots one day a few months back and bought a massive box of rubbers for me and my husband!!!

    Jesus to think the staff we're looking at me like I was a slag ... and they were flavoured too!!! Ten hail marys for me I think :D

    Seriously you think men would be delighted women were taking equal responsibility for things like this. I guess we still have that old Catholic mentality dont we no matter how cosmopolitan we like to think we are.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,671 ✭✭✭BraziliaNZ


    hmmmm, I remember a girlfriend i had a few years ago that i fell for quite hard. The first night i stayed at her place I saw a box of them on her shelf and it was open and I was a little stressed over it! But she was a grown 31 year old woman you have to get over these things. My latest gf had them but i met her while backpacking and she was doing the same, so no surprise she had them. You dont care at the start but if you start going out with them after, it may nag at you a bit, like you'll think "who was she banging before me? how soon before me??" etc. I never carry them, I consider them bad luck, if I did carry them I bet i'd never get laid.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,060 ✭✭✭✭biko


    No glove, no love


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    BraziliaNZ wrote: »
    The first night i stayed at her place I saw a box of them on her shelf and it was open and I was a little stressed over it!

    Did they have XXXX-Large stamped on the side?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,217 ✭✭✭✭m5ex9oqjawdg2i


    A woman is a slut for taking control of her sexual health? Nice. :rolleyes:

    Nah, fair dues... but the general sub concious thought is, "she's a slut"... it's not that difficult to understand really.

    More the slut for not wearing a condom, but generally, this is what men tend to think. 'twas on the radio n all...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,744 ✭✭✭funk-you


    Safe woman or kid? Safe woman or kid? Safe woman or kid? Hmmm....

    Clean woman or AIDs? Clean woman or AIDs? Clean woman or AIDs? Hmmm...

    I think I'll take the kid and AIDs please Bob. I wouldn't want to be going out with a slut now would I?

    -Funk


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 809 ✭✭✭dylano_k


    I aint got nothing but love for them, saves me walking round the pub/club asking the lads for a euro to round up enough for the machine,


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Yea, I was with a girl before in college who had a bowl full of condoms on a shelf beside her bed. Classy.
    I presume you ran out of her room in disgust so, rather than boning this jezebel?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,391 ✭✭✭✭mikom


    A recent survey asked women how they felt about the use of condoms........ 90% answered, "It depends on what's in it for me."


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,589 ✭✭✭Hail 2 Da Chimp


    Dudess wrote: »
    I presume you ran out of her room in disgust so, rather than boning this jezebel?

    He probably boned her out of protest, then ran out of the room!


  • Posts: 18,046 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Dudess wrote: »
    I presume you ran out of her room in disgust so, rather than boning this jezebel?

    was too drunk to get it workin actually.. :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,217 ✭✭✭✭m5ex9oqjawdg2i


    The "holier than thou" posts are fcuking sickening. People, really...

    It was a discussion on the wadio, got me thinking, rarely would I be with a woman that has condoms, it seems to be expected of the men to carry them. Where exactly did this originate from? Sex is taboo etc etc.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,239 ✭✭✭✭WindSock


    I carry condoms, but I have put holes in them 'cause I want a baybeh.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    If your going to go with the girl who has no condoms rather than the one who does because you have some 1950's attitude about what kind of "morals" she has then you deserve every little skanky disease going


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 523 ✭✭✭Iomega Man


    mikom wrote: »
    A recent survey asked women how they felt about the use of condoms........ 90% answered, "It depends on what's in it for me."

    Now you wouldn'y play piano with a pair of marigold gloves on..or would you?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 809 ✭✭✭Terodil


    WindSock wrote: »
    I carry condoms, but I have put holes in them 'cause I want a baybeh.
    :eek:

    I was just about to say that I would be positively surprised and appreciate it actually, although I would always be bringing my own if I suspected that kind of fun was on the agenda :p

    But now... erm... let's just say I'd be surprised and check them excessively for holes... and take my own in the end. It's all about peace of mind after all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,387 ✭✭✭✭super_furry


    Iomega Man wrote: »
    Now you wouldn'y play piano with a pair of marigold gloves on..or would you?

    If there was a chance that not doing so would cause my fingers to rot and drop off, I would.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,054 ✭✭✭✭Professey Chin


    WindSock wrote: »
    I carry condoms, but I have put holes in them 'cause I want a baybeh.
    Note to self.Dont trust Windsock when she says "I have one"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    The "holier than thou" posts are fcuking sickening.
    http://www.granddesignslive.com/upload/images/Feature%20Areas/glasshouse.jpg
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    Sorry if our opinions don't tally with yours.

    If a woman carries condoms, it doesn't necessarily mean she's solely "out for the ride", it means she's protected in case she gets "the ride" (may, may not). Consider that instead of the cop-out likes of "I think she's a slut. Sorry, can't help it, that's just the way it is".


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,217 ✭✭✭✭m5ex9oqjawdg2i


    eviltwin wrote: »
    If your going to go with the girl who has no condoms rather than the one who does because you have some 1950's attitude about what kind of "morals" she has then you deserve every little skanky disease going

    You seem to think, or better yet, assume that because a woman doesn't carry condoms she will have unprotected sex. This is not the debate. It is as follows "would you consider a woman who carries condoms to be a slut?".

    The fact that she is carrying condoms, the same way a man carries condoms, would suggest that she is searching for sex, or is ready for sex. For some reason, people think that this is slutty, why? I have no idea.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,814 ✭✭✭Gone Drinking


    There was a thread on this awhile ago.. it turned into a cat fight between female boardies that carry condoms, and female boardies that think carrying condoms you look like a slag.

    I'd search for it, but you know the story.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,589 ✭✭✭Hail 2 Da Chimp


    Dudess wrote: »
    it means she's protected in case she gets "the ride" (may, may not). Consider that instead of the cop-out likes of "Sorry, can't help it, that's just the way it is".

    Or she's planning on making some really funny smelling balloon animals!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 523 ✭✭✭Iomega Man


    If there was a chance that not doing so would cause my fingers to rot and drop off, I would.

    Feckin piano rot..


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