Have you ever had a stalker?

rannerap · 22-10-2009 06:31PM

helena.ryan wrote: »

I had 12, in 8 months.

is this a i can beat how many stalkers you had game

Notorious · 22-10-2009 06:31PM

helena.ryan wrote: »

I had 12, in 8 months.

Damn you must be hawt!

wudangclan · 22-10-2009 06:32PM

Notorious wrote: »

Damn you must be hawt!

or seriously deluded.

rannerap · 22-10-2009 06:33PM

wudangclan wrote: »

or seriously deluded.

+1

almostnever · 22-10-2009 06:39PM

My friend has a stalker.
Such a creeper.

ascanbe · 22-10-2009 06:41PM

I can potentially see or be seen (or sensed, in the case of blind people) by any person who currently resides on this planet; indeed some yet to be born.
Therefore, I consider every person who exists at the same time as me as being my stalker.

AnonoBoy · 22-10-2009 06:44PM

There is a tendency by some girls to manufacture stalkers I think.

If a guy likes them and shows up at the pub they drink in a few times he's suddenly 'stalking' them. If he asks any mutual acquaintance about them it's more 'stalking'. Any unexplained phonecall is now attributed to him. Any attempt at conversation by this guy is seen as him being 'creepy'.

It's an ego boost.

Somehow though if the girl fancies the guy then all of the above become 'so sweet'. :rolleyes:

Not that I'm saying girls don't get weirdos actually stalking them. It just seems nowadays that you're not cool unless you've had at least one stalker like all your friends.

Latchy · 22-10-2009 07:36PM

Have I ever had a stalker LOL , have I ever being to Hawai ???

.....er...actually no I haven't ..wait ...what am I missing ? :eek:

Actually stalking was so different pre internet days ,like you actualy had to get up of yer ass and go out in the heat / freezing cold to follow your intended victim object of your attention . Not that they would apprciate Oh No ....ungratful bitches :rolleyes:

My stalking hrs vary now but not while Emmerdale farm is on ,sorry

Dudess · 22-10-2009 07:37PM

AnonoBoy wrote: »

There is a tendency by some girls to manufacture stalkers I think.

If a guy likes them and shows up at the pub they drink in a few times he's suddenly 'stalking' them. If he asks any mutual acquaintance about them it's more 'stalking'. Any unexplained phonecall is now attributed to him. Any attempt at conversation by this guy is seen as him being 'creepy'.

It's an ego boost.

Somehow though if the girl fancies the guy then all of the above become 'so sweet'. :rolleyes:

Absofuppinlutely. It must suck for guys when they feel obliged to self-police their interactions with females: avoid giving compliments, avoid showing they give a sh1t etc, for fear of appearing like "creeps"/to have an agenda. And some of the time it might simply be friendliness. He could also be attached.

Actually, a guy recently explained himself to me for something completely innocuous that he was afraid I might construe as "creepy" behaviour, which I thought was such a shame. All it was was a very genuine, decent gesture which I appreciated hugely. It's crap for fellas if things have come to that.

No real-life stalkers for me. Unwanted attention yes, but until it gets sinister/threatening/starts interfering with a person's life, it ain't "stalking".

I also find it hilarious how some people actually seem freaked about the prospect of being "stalked" here. If someone views my profile/reads past posts of mine, it's not something I'd lose sleep over.

Btw, I'm not doubting that people have experienced intimidation campaigns at the hands of obsessives (and I know there are those who could abuse this site to harass others) but I'm inclined to believe these experiences aren't that common.

robbie_998 · 22-10-2009 07:44PM

what would happen if a stalker had a stalker ?

or the stalkers stalker had a stalker ?

or the stalkers stalker stalkers stalker had a stalker ?

aaahhhh it dosent stop !!!! :pac::pac::pac::pac::pac:

70s · 22-10-2009 08:00PM

(under different username in case of recognition!)
A new Boardsie made an enquiry in the Health section a while back, and I sent him a PM answering his query. He sent me back PMs asking further questions, which I answered but I stopped answering when his questions became repetitive. He continued bombarding my inbox, and it freaked me out - it was like having a stalker! I eventually discovered i could block him.
A few months later, I read in the Help desk a complaint from a moderator about this user flooding her with PMs too!

Whispered · 22-10-2009 08:01PM

Sarannewrap wrote: »

is this a i can beat how many stalkers you had game

Yes of course, it was pure coincidence that the person before me had 11 in 1 year and I had one more than that. :rolleyes:

wudangclan wrote: »

or seriously deluded.

I see sarcasm hasn't reached you yet.

brummytom · 22-10-2009 08:01PM

I'd feel sorry for anyone who decided to stalk me. All they'd get was a lot of lying in bed, ****, and me singing to myself.

I'm not stalking at the moment - Winter's setting in, it's getting colder, I can't be doing with standing in the cold for hours. And I've got bad circulation which makes me hands shake, so I can never get a clear picture anyway.

robbie_998 · 22-10-2009 08:02PM

brummytom wrote: »

I'd feel sorry for anyone who decided to stalk me. All they'd get was a lot of lying in bed, fapping, and me singing to myself.

I'm not stalking at the moment - Winter's setting in, it's getting colder, I can't be doing with standing in the cold for hours. And I've got bad circulation which makes me hands shake, so I can never get a clear picture anyway.

FYP !!!

Whispered · 22-10-2009 08:03PM

AnonoBoy wrote: »

There is a tendency by some girls to manufacture stalkers I think.

Sure you hear people going on about a guy stalking them - because he added them as a friend in FB. :rolleyes:

'cept for me, my stalkers were all real.

wudangclan · 22-10-2009 08:04PM

helena.ryan wrote: »

Sure you hear people going on about a guy stalking them - because he added them as a friend in FB. :rolleyes:

'cept for me, my stalkers were all real.

tell us.
what happened?

Dudess · 22-10-2009 08:05PM

70s wrote: »

bombarding my inbox

"Bombarding my inbox": in this digital age, I feel that is a most appropriate euphemism for the sexual act.

4zn76tysfajdxp · 22-10-2009 08:07PM

Dudess wrote: »

"Bombarding my inbox": in this digital age, I feel that is a most appropriate euphemism for the sexual act.

"Spamming" would suit more than bombarding, I think.

caseyann · 22-10-2009 08:16PM

AnonoBoy wrote: »

Couldn't you just have bought a lock for your bathroom?

Well i think in my own home( meant to be friend is waiting down stairs) be it whether door lock broken or not.Out of politeness would not barge into bathroom while your friend is showering?

Whispered · 22-10-2009 08:18PM

caseyann wrote: »

Well i think in my own home( meant to be friend is waiting down stairs) be it whether door lock broken or not.Out of politeness would not barge into bathroom while your friend is showering?

Unless said friend is veeeery attractive.

Cupcake_Crisis · 22-10-2009 08:24PM

I had one a few years ago. Harmless really, just very annoying. I think he just liked me a hell of a lot more than i liked him and it came across a bit forward. Backed off as soon as i told him he was making me uncomfortable so it probably doesnt even count

caseyann · 22-10-2009 08:29PM

helena.ryan wrote: »

Unless said friend is veeeery attractive.

Are you into women then :eek::D

And still no wouldn't do it to anyone,its rude and intrusive:mad:

But thanks for compliment

liah · 22-10-2009 08:30PM

caseyann wrote: »

Well i think in my own home( meant to be friend is waiting down stairs) be it whether door lock broken or not.Out of politeness would not barge into bathroom while your friend is showering?

...are you sure it wasn't your friend just taking the piss, if they were in the house at the same time?

Whispered · 22-10-2009 08:32PM

caseyann wrote: »

Are you into women then :eek::D

No but your friend may have been. Or maybe it was an accident? I think I'd still lock the door in case a guest needed the bathroom or something.

caseyann · 22-10-2009 08:35PM

liah wrote: »

...are you sure it wasn't your friend just taking the piss, if they were in the house at the same time?

No laugh on her face trust me.Was a very much intended walk in look me up and down and walked back out

And if you knew her trust me you wouldn't be saying that.She was a complete lunatic.I said in the other post she changed her name on her bills to my first name. Alot alot alot more then what i am saying.

caseyann · 22-10-2009 08:37PM

helena.ryan wrote: »

No but your friend may have been. Or maybe it was an accident? I think I'd still lock the door in case a guest needed the bathroom or something.

No she didn't need the bathroom she had just been because i asked her did she want to go before and she did

I would go into the details of the amount of things i let this person away with but god i would be here all night.

You had 12?

soups05 · 22-10-2009 09:00PM

I had a stalker a few years ago, he started out by hanging around in the petrol station i worked nights in. just chatting for hours on end.

then he got a job there working nights cos he thought we would be working together even though its a lone person at night.

next he started showing up at my house early in the morning after he finished work, waiting for me to go to day job so he could chat for a minute or two.

he would not take any hints to back off. he then organised a "work night out" and when i showed up it was just the two of us. he said he had to get something from his flat so we went back there and he put on a video.

a porno! :eek:

I run out making some weak excuse.

finally after 7 months he got the sack and i never saw him again.

did i mention that i am a man!!!!!!

just my luck to have a male stalker. sigh

4zn76tysfajdxp · 22-10-2009 09:02PM

liah wrote: »

...are you sure it wasn't your friend just taking the piss, if they were in the house at the same time?

Taking a piss while she's in the shower? That's worse, if anything...

The_Kew_Tour · 22-10-2009 09:08PM

I would say at guess that about 50% of my girl mates have either had weird guy texting them weird stuff or would have guys kind be in the same places as they were on night out.

Does us males no good

Whispered · 22-10-2009 09:09PM

caseyann wrote: »

You had 12?

I was being sarcastic. See the poster before me said........ never mind.

Have you ever had a stalker?

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