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Stephen Gately has died! ----(mod warning post #6)

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,803 ✭✭✭✭Mental Mickey


    lizt wrote: »
    Had to laugh tho - When the lord mayor showed up this girl next to me nudged her friends and was like "Wudja look - it's de taoiseach!!"

    :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,130 ✭✭✭✭Kiera


    Was his husband at the funeral? I didnt see him.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 35,514 ✭✭✭✭efb


    His widower was.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 2,985 ✭✭✭philstar


    brummytom wrote: »
    "Stephen loved Mickey... er, Mouse" - that seemed awkward
    fryup wrote: »
    well what do you reckon was that an "in" joke amongst the boys??

    or did that tool shane lynch make a "cock up" (no pun intended)

    cause when i first heard it i put my hands to face, whilst my flatmates were rolling around the floor laughing

    well whatever it was meant or not, it was cringeworthy:o


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41 grangeglens


    i saw this in the news of the world today
    http://www.newsoftheworld.co.uk/news/555006/stephen-gately.html?postingId=557741

    i hope it was not true,


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 72 ✭✭dumbblonde122


    i saw this in the news of the world today
    http://www.newsoftheworld.co.uk/news/555006/stephen-gately.html?postingId=557741

    i hope it was not true,


    Papers like that are tabloids and are there purely to sell stories true or not. The amount of things in the papers that people believe to be true when infact they are not. People buy into gossip, dramatic stories than the actual truth.

    I wouldn't buy it too much unless someone comes out and says there is an actual problem! It is time for the poor man to rest in peace with an end to all the controversy but that probably will not happen.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,906 ✭✭✭SarahBM


    I hope that article isnt true. I dont believe for a second that stephen didnt talk to his family until a few years ago!
    The poor man is dead now. I wish the tabloids would just leave his family and friends to grieve in peace!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    It is time for the poor man to rest in peace with an end to all the controversy ..

    I agree but I have a feeling it's only just begun. Didn't say it during the week but I felt there was something odd with the way Louis wasn't photographed with Boyzone - seems strange what with him being the one man who made it all possible.

    He did seem then to be having a little pop at a solicitor (Gerald Kean?) on Sky News as he felt that he should have contacted him with the news of Stephen's death before he contacted the media (which was how Louis found out).

    Something is not right that's for sure. It's just not in Louis's nature (from what I've seen from him over the years) to be standing in the wings the way he was this past week.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 908 ✭✭✭Overature


    I have never ever heard of Stephan Gately in my life!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 72 ✭✭wonderingabout


    Nico22 wrote: »
    I agree but I have a feeling it's only just begun. Didn't say it during the week but I felt there was something odd with the way Louis wasn't photographed with Boyzone - seems strange what with him being the one man who made it all possible.

    He did seem then to be having a little pop at a solicitor (Gerald Kean?) on Sky News as he felt that he should have been contacted with the news of Stephen's death before contacting the media (which was how Louis found out).

    Something is not right that's for sure. It's just not in Louis's nature (from what I've seen from him over the years) to be standing in the wings they way he was this past week.

    I was thinking the same, i found it strange that louis wasn't thanked along with everyone else yesterday. Although they did say that stephen loved and looked up to him. I hope there is no conflict, I like walsh & i think he was genuinely devastated over stephens death.
    I also think it sucks that he found out through the media :(


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,474 ✭✭✭drkpower


    Overature wrote: »
    I have never ever heard of Stephan Gately in my life!

    So why are you posting on this thread then? Do you post on the Astronomy forum to tell people you never heard of Edmond Halley?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Overature wrote: »
    I have never ever heard of Stephan Gately in my life!

    Well, there ya go .. they do say you learn something new each day. Guess it's true so. Thanks ..


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Anyone else hear or read that Cheryl Cole flew to Dublin on Friday night and got a taxi to Sherrif St? She apparently stayed a few hours at the church and spoke to the family and Boyzone and then flew straight back.

    Mate was told this last night ..


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    CCTV released of Stephen entering & leaving club .. sad to watch.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 72 ✭✭wonderingabout


    Nico22 wrote: »
    Anyone else hear or read that Cheryl Cole flew to Dublin on Friday night and got a taxi to Sherrif St? She apparently stayed a few hours at the church and spoke to the family and Boyzone and then flew straight back.

    Mate was told this last night ..

    That can't be right can it? I heard she sent a message to the family on saturday morning, sending her sympathy....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    That can't be right can it? I heard she sent a message to the family on saturday morning, sending her sympathy....

    That's what I thought but the guy that told me heard it from someone doing security down there .. maybe it was someone who just looked like her. The guy was convinced though ..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 72 ✭✭wonderingabout


    Well you never know :D but it does sound unusual, she wouldn't really have mixed in the same circles as boyzone, would have been more believable if she'd gone to see Louis maybe?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 117 ✭✭Mixedup


    the sunday independent reported that she flew in on friday night, paid her respects and back out again.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,613 ✭✭✭✭Clare Bear


    Mixedup wrote: »
    the sunday independent reported that she flew in on friday night, paid her respects and back out again.

    She must have done it very quietly, fair play to her if it's true. Surprised the press didn't spot her.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Clare Bear wrote: »
    She must have done it very quietly, fair play to her if it's true. Surprised the press didn't spot her.

    Yeah, very as even Sky News showed footage of the band talking to fans at around 3am through the gates -- although they did miss out on the, now infamous, Fish & Chip delivery :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,067 ✭✭✭✭fryup


    did anyone read the barry egan article in the sunday indo?? was it nasty??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    fryup wrote: »
    did anyone read the barry egan article in the sunday indo?? was it nasty??

    Judge for yourself :)

    Barry Egan's Article Re: Stephen Gately's Life


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,271 ✭✭✭irish_bob


    fryup wrote: »
    did anyone read the barry egan article in the sunday indo?? was it nasty??

    no but have you ever read a nasty article on someone in the music biz by egan , i havent and ive been buying the sindo for years


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,906 ✭✭✭SarahBM


    The one in the news of the world was bad. seriously have they no respect for the dead.

    I found that article in the sunday indo quiet frank, but honest. there doesnt appear to have been an twisting of the facts like there was with the Jan Moir article.

    Look, Stephen was a wonderful singer and performer who never did any harm to anyone or say a bad thing about anyone! Cant people just remember the good times and celebrate his life instead of trying to get some scandalous head line out of it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    irish_bob wrote: »
    no but have you ever read a nasty article on someone in the music biz by egan , i havent and ive been buying the sindo for years

    I've never read anything too cutting from Barry Egan either but I think a rumour went around yesterday after a radio ad (implied?) that he was writing a controversial article.

    Some might say that Barry's article might have been somewhat different had Jan Moir's peice not have been received so badly - call me a cynic but I doubt any journo will write something like that anytime soon, even if it is their views.

    Then again maybe they were just trying to sell papers as they know, no matter what people say, we all love a little controversy. What did the Indo radio ad say anyway?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,067 ✭✭✭✭fryup


    Nico22 wrote: »
    What did the Indo radio ad say anyway?

    in a serious toned voice it said.."barry egan will reveal the truth behind the headlines"

    which i taught was implying some juicy titbits, but as you said after the backlash the daily mail got i would'nt be surprised if the indo replaced that article today cause it seems a bit lame.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,689 ✭✭✭✭OutlawPete


    Barry Egan was also credited in this article:

    Boy Gately Goes Gentle Into That Good Night
    - Brendan O'Connor, Anne Harris and Barry Egan.


    Why it took three journalists to write it I don't know. In one part of the article it has the following ..

    "Bertie Ahern was there (the funeral). And he was entitled to be. Not just because Stephen was a constituent but because no politician did more to further the cause of civic partnerships."


    Now, as if it wasn't bad enough watching Ryan Tubridy lick the a*** off Ahern last week and letting him get away with writing a self serving peice of junk that he wishes to be known as an autobiography - now we have to read, that not only was Bertie a 'grand ole fella', afterall .. but now also that he was Ireland's answer to Harvey Milk.

    Sickening, just sickening.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,906 ✭✭✭SarahBM


    I totally agree with you. Look at bertie hogging the lime light. Im surprised he didnt try to plug his book while he was at it.
    Stephen was forced to come out, which imo is wrong. he should have been able to come out in his own time. Again thank you tabloid papers!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 865 ✭✭✭A Disgrace


    Charlie Brooker with nice rebuke to Jan Moir


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,859 ✭✭✭✭Sharpshooter


    A Disgrace wrote: »
    Charlie Brooker with nice rebuke to Jan Moir
    The funeral of Stephen Gately has not yet taken place. The man hasn't been buried yet. Nevertheless, Jan Moir of the Daily Mail has already managed to dance on his grave. For money.

    It has been 20 minutes since I've read her now-notorious column, and I'm still struggling to absorb the sheer scope of its hateful idiocy. It's like gazing through a horrid little window into an awesome universe of pure blockheaded spite. Spiralling galaxies of ignorance roll majestically against a backdrop of what looks like dark prejudice, dotted hither and thither with winking stars of snide innuendo.

    On the Mail website, it was headlined: "Why there was nothing 'natural' about Stephen Gately's death." Since the official postmortem clearly ascribed the singer's death to natural causes, that headline contains a fairly bold claim. Still, who am I to judge? I'm no expert when it comes to interpreting autopsy findings, unlike Moir.

    Presumably she's a leading expert in forensic science, paid huge sums of money to fly around the world lecturing coroners on her latest findings. Or maybe she just wants to gay-bash a dead man?

    Tragically, the only way to find out is to read the rest of her article.
    She begins by jabbering a bit about untimely celebrity deaths, especially those whose lives are "shadowed by dark appetites or fractured by private vice". Not just Heath Ledger and Michael Jackson. No: she's eagerly looking forward to other premature snuffings.

    "Robbie, Amy, Kate, Whitney, Britney; we all know who they are. And we are not being ghoulish to anticipate, or to be mentally braced for, their bad end: a long night, a mysterious stranger, an odd set of circumstances that herald a sudden death."

    Fair enough. I'm sure we all agree there's nothing "ghoulish" whatsoever about eagerly imagining the hypothetical death of someone you've marked out as a potential cadaver on account of your ill-informed presumptions about their lifestyle.

    All she's doing is running a detailed celebrity-death sweepstake in her head. That's not ghoulish, that's fun. For my part, I've just put a tenner on Moir choking to death on her own bile by the year 2012. See? Fun!

    Having casually prophesied the death of Robbie Williams and co, Moir moves on to her main point: that Gately's death strikes her as a bit fishy . . . "All the official reports point to a natural death, with no suspicious circumstances . . . But, hang on a minute. Something is terribly wrong with the way this incident has been shaped and spun into nothing more than an unfortunate mishap on a holiday weekend, like a broken teacup in the rented cottage."

    That's odd. I don't recall anyone equating the death with "an unfortunate mishap on a holiday weekend". I was only aware of shocked expressions of grief from those who knew or admired him, people who'd probably be moved to tears by Moir likening the tragedy to "a broken teacup in the rented cottage". But never mind that – "shaped and spun" by whom, precisely? The coroner?

    Incredibly, yes. Moir genuinely believes the coroner got it wrong: "Healthy and fit 33-year-old men do not just climb into their pyjamas and go to sleep on the sofa, never to wake up again. Whatever the cause of death is, it is not, by any yardstick, a natural one."

    At this point, I dare to challenge the renowned international forensic pathologist Jan Moir, because I personally know of two other men (one in his 20s, one in his early 30s), who died in precisely this way. According to the charity Cardiac Risk in the Young (c-r-y.org.uk),

    "Twelve apparently fit and healthy young people die in the UK from undiagnosed heart conditions" every single week. That's a lot of broken teacups, eh Jan?

    Still, if his death wasn't natural "by any yardstick", what did kill him? Moir knows: it was his lifestyle. Because Gately was, y'know . . . homosexual. Having lanced this boil, Moir lets the pus drip out all over her fingers as she continues to type: "The circumstances surrounding his death are more than a little sleazy," she declares. "Cowles and Gately took a young Bulgarian man back to their apartment. It is not disrespectful to assume that a game of canasta . . . was not what was on the cards . . .

    What happened afterwards is anyone's guess."

    Don't hold back, Jan. Have a guess. Draw us a picture. You specialise in celebrity death fantasies, after all.

    "His mother is still insisting that her son died from a previously undetected heart condition that has plagued the family." Yes. That poor, blinkered woman, "insisting" in the face of official medical evidence that absolutely agrees with her.

    Anyway, having cast aspersions over a tragic death, doubted a coroner and insulted a grieving mother, Moir's piece builds to its climax: "Another real sadness about Gately's death is that it strikes another blow to the happy-ever-after myth of civil partnerships. . . Gay activists are always calling for tolerance and understanding about same-sex relationships, arguing that they are just the same as heterosexual marriages . . . in many cases this may be true. Yet the recent death of Kevin McGee, the former husband of Little Britain star Matt Lucas, and now the dubious events of Gately's last night raise troubling questions about what happened."

    Way to spread the pain around, Jan. Way to link two unrelated tragedies, Jan. Way to gay-bash, Jan.

    I salute that man.


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