Am I mingin... am I mingin... am I??

Cake Fiend · 14-10-2002 07:22PM

Everyone goes through this at your age. I'm hardly Brad Pitt, but apparently I'm still a little pot of sex0r. I don't think so, but I don't let it bother me. You shouldn't either.

plastic membrane · 15-10-2002 02:11PM

It happens to everyone at some point. We wonder how we look to others. I was at that for a long time, but now i don't give a toss. Point is, as Billy Connolly once said, at some juncture, even the fattest, most obese man in the planet (eg Fat Bastard from Austin Powers) will look in the mirror and think: "Yeah baby ! Killer!". Your a looker m8. We all are..

Jak · 15-10-2002 03:56PM

I don't mean to sound too harsh, but the excessively supportive 'hugs and cuddles' approach here is a tad sickening.

The comments here focus on personality, esteem, confidence etc. and yes these are things that are to some degree within your control and by all means get the most out of them.

But you asked about physical beauty. Now I am a believer that everybody out there has a shot with someone because of 'types' and 'preferences' but I'm guessing you were thinking about mainstream beauty. The examples of this beauty are found everyday in popular media - people who turn heads in bars and on the street ... and there is a good chance you aren't one of them. But don't get overly concerned as they are a minority.

I would suggest that if you have been out and about in life for a while now, and you don't find yourself getting chatted up or getting much attention that just maybe you don't have the looks to get by on that alone. So stop expecting it and play to your other strengths to get the best you can.

JAK.

Matfinn · 19-10-2002 05:29PM

Stick yourself on www.hotornot.com and find out. This is not a sure fire way of actually telling if your good looking. Im getting a 9.4 ffs

. Its some indication anyway, but its nothing to go by. The ladies reel and part when they see me. Im about as attractive to them as a poedohpile in a barney suit.