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not being able to cum

  • 27-04-2009 11:16PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,005 ✭✭✭✭


    With regards to the not being able to cum part, I've been having the same problem and it's really annoying me.

    I used to be worried about being pre-mature when I was younger but never thought about this. I know it's not a bad thing all the time, and I must admit I havent had sex within a relationship yet and I havent been overly attracted to the girls so I wonder if that matters.

    Also I think I focus on their pleasure too much.

    Anyway, Im just wondering if anyone has advice cause I'd like to be able to enjoy the sex aswell as her ha

    Any opinions are appreciated


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  • #2
    That_Guy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 51,342 ✭✭✭✭That_Guy


    unregistered2 wrote: »
    With regards to the not being able to cum part, I've been having the same problem and it's really annoying me.

    I used to be worried about being pre-mature when I was younger but never thought about this. I know it's not a bad thing all the time, and I must admit I havent had sex within a relationship yet and I havent been overly attracted to the girls so I wonder if that matters.

    Also I think I focus on their pleasure too much.

    Anyway, Im just wondering if anyone has advice cause I'd like to be able to enjoy the sex aswell as her ha

    Any opinions are appreciated

    You should start your own thread. It'll get noticed easier.

    The first couple of times I had sex I had the same type of problem. I always focused on them and made sure I was doing it right for them and I didn't really enjoy it all that much because I was too nervous in thinking about not fcuking up.

    You will learn to let go of these thoughts and it'll be much better and easier for you to enjoy sex.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,005 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    That_Guy wrote: »
    You should start your own thread. It'll get noticed easier.

    The first couple of times I had sex I had the same type of problem. I always focused on them and made sure I was doing it right for them and I didn't really enjoy it all that much because I was too nervous in thinking about not fcuking up.

    You will learn to let go of these thoughts and it'll be much better and easier for you to enjoy sex.

    I might but I hope this is just the reason ha Thanks for the response


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