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What age are you..

  • 16-01-2009 01:33PM
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 24,608 ✭✭✭✭


    And whats been the most significant points in your life, your highs and low's to date?.

    Me - I'm 42.

    The most signifcant times in my life were I guess..

    Low's - losing some friends to drugs and sitting in Beaumont ICU for 10 ten days while my uncle died from head injuries suffered in a drunken fall.

    Low's - serving in Lebanon while five Irish lads died, one to a gunshot, three to a landmine and one to suicide.

    High's, I guess leaving school and joining the Defence Forces in 1985. Serving oversea's for the first time in 1988. Returning home with the money for a deposit on my first home and enough left over to get married.

    Then in 1992 my first child being born - a boy. Followed in 1995 by the birth of my daughter - a 'gentlemans family'.

    My life more or less continues on a high at the moment, despite quickly approaching middle age I'm still competing at Judo - to the amazement and amusement of my kids!.

    .


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,727 ✭✭✭✭Sherifu


    42 is the answer to everything. Enjoy it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 15,515 ✭✭✭✭admiralofthefleet


    im 27, 28 in 2 weeks

    16 to 23 were great times for me, pretty wild and had lost of fun, since then ive calmed down a lot and got on with setting myself up for the future


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,786 ✭✭✭✭Hagar


    42, I can just about remember being 42. :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 704 ✭✭✭Lobelia Overhill


    I'm 43. I'm on Carers Allowance with the last 10 years looking after my parents. I can't even remember what it's like to "have a life" and be able to go out, and do what I want, when I want.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,231 ✭✭✭Deadzone


    To old to Rock and Roll
    To young to die


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 995 ✭✭✭Ass


    I'm 43. I'm on Carers Allowance with the last 10 years looking after my parents. I can't even remember what it's like to "have a life" and be able to go out, and do what I want, when I want.
    Bring your parents out with you , or is that not "cool" these days?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,814 ✭✭✭BaconZombie


    8052


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 699 ✭✭✭LeahBaby


    I'm 20

    Highs: Getting a mortgage on my 19th bday!!

    Lows: Try not to dwell on them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,778 ✭✭✭✭Kold


    23. Not sure if life has started yet.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,183 ✭✭✭Puddleduck


    LeahBaby wrote: »
    I'm 20

    Highs: Getting a mortgage on my 19th bday!!

    Lows: Try not to dwell on them.


    You have a mortgage??? Fair fcuks to ya! Im 24(I think,Ive stopped counting) and Im still working out what the hell Im doing.

    Highs will have been the last two years when Ive finally pulled my sh!t together and done some things Ive wanted to,

    Lows would be the years before that.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,297 ✭✭✭Ron DMC


    Kold wrote: »
    23. Not sure if life has started yet.

    +1


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,119 ✭✭✭Wagon


    22

    Highs: right now I'm cheerful enough.
    Lows: Shaved my mates pubes off and stuck them in his mouth. That was pretty low.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 711 ✭✭✭who007


    Kold wrote: »
    23. Not sure if life has started yet.


    It hasn't!

    35.3 )i.e. 35 version 3.

    At one point I was putting my age down on a form and my ex pointed out I was a year older than I thought I was. Bitch added a year to my life!

    Lows - LOTS.. too much alcohol, wasted years smoking - destroying my health and wasting money, spent too much time with the wrong women and wrong type of women, developed little as a person for many years. Never stuck with a) the book I tried to write b) any of the martial arts I started training in. Wasted my school and college years in a daydream and ended up in the same job I haven't liked for years.

    Highs - Discovering I was good at running (although I always kind of knew but took it for granted until recently) - completing marathons etc., my daughter, my new apartment, ehmm... think that's about it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,474 ✭✭✭jim o doom


    phsyically 28, mentally 16 (forever).

    Lows, when my parents died (at seperate times) was the worst. Plenty of high times though, and we all gotta go some time!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 8,570 ✭✭✭RedXIV


    21

    Lows: probably discovering I actually was a Geek in school and getting a fair bit of bullying sent my way. Moving house when i was 10, thought i'd never get over that. Finding out i was blind in one eye.

    Highs: Going to college and finally fitting in. That subtle transition in people's thoughts of you from "kid" to "man". Meeting my girlfriend was also pretty lifechanging (in a good way)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,772 ✭✭✭✭Whispered


    I'm 24, 25 in a month. - almost 1/4 of a centurt :eek:

    Highs - The day we got the keys to our house 2 years ago

    A suprise proposal on my birthday last year

    Getting the phone call telling me that one of the pups I was looking after would pull through a sickness, then deciding to keep him.

    Getting my Reiki master certificate.

    Lows - a fair few family deaths in a short space of time, including a cousin who was only 20 dying in her sleep.

    An old friend commiting suicide, then hearing rumours that it had something to do with me (despite not having spoken to him for a year)

    Finding out the house we bought 2 years ago is now worth a lot less and realising that no matter how hard we work, we're going to be in negative equity for a very long time.

    At the moment though, things are going great, planning a wedding and having a little puppy who is always so so happy to see me in the mornings it has to bring a smile to my face, no matter how hungover I may be.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,880 ✭✭✭Canis Lupus


    28.

    Highs... Dunno... completing a sprint triathlon last year and carrying the fitness over to now to do more this year? (I used to be a chunky lazy ****er).

    No lows that I can think of to be honest.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,635 ✭✭✭tribulus


    23. +1 to the life hasn't really begun yet, my highs and lows would pale in comparison to others.

    One high would be getting my dog - he's like the little brother I never had.

    A low would be my mate dying of a heart attack when he was 14.
    A more selfish low was missing out on a job I've wanted since I was a kid by one place and possibly not having the chance to get it again for at least a year.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 726 ✭✭✭abi2007


    25 :D

    Low: breaking up with someone I loved

    Highs: Holiday to Zykntos, first year of college, Moving into my first home on my own.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,778 ✭✭✭✭Kold


    RedXIV wrote: »
    Meeting my girlfriend was also pretty lifechanging (in a good way)

    /Takes the credit


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 8,570 ✭✭✭RedXIV


    Kold wrote: »
    /Takes the credit

    forever in your debt ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,183 ✭✭✭Puddleduck


    /pukes.


    Sorry, had to be done


  • Hosted Moderators Posts: 10,661 ✭✭✭✭John Mason


    almost 34

    Highs:

    Realising you have to have lows to know you are on a high and the only person who can make you happy is yourself.

    this revelation changed by life beyond comphrension 2 years ago.

    so go me, i am amazing :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 30,775 ✭✭✭✭Quazzie


    I'm 28 and my biggest high was last November when my son was born. Quiet simply the biggest thing that could've ever happened to me.


  • Posts: 11,928 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Mairt wrote: »
    a 'gentlemans family'.


    They call that the pigeons brood where I come from. :(


  • Posts: 14,379 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    24


    Highs and lows......realising that they are a part of life and inevitable means I try not to let them dictate who I am.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,193 ✭✭✭Turd Ferguson


    22 now. Highs have been pretty much the last 6 years. Great friends and good times, lots of drinking and some pretty wild times.

    Lows have to my ma(cue yore ma jokes :pac:) getting cancer. But I tend not to dwell on the lows and just keep on keeping on.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,217 ✭✭✭✭m5ex9oqjawdg2i


    I'm 25, waiting for my life to start really. Lets hope it starts soon, yea?

    Lowest point was 2006, worked in AIB, hated it. Girlfriend left to Australia, was in massive debt due to college loans, lost the will to live, most depressing year of my life.

    Highest point. 2008, new girlfriend, new apartment, got my BA and got the idea to start a new business.

    Lows, moving house back in 2000, not being able to see my mates when I wanted, eventually speaking to 1-2 out of about 40+ of us. Pretty sad.

    Highs, 2001 joined the RDF, one of the best things I ever done in my life, great experience. However when I wanted to join the PDF I was too old :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 41,926 ✭✭✭✭_blank_


    so go me, i am amazing :D

    :rolleyes:

    I'm 29.

    Lows : erm....can't remember. Some football related stuff

    Highs : Leaving UCD after 1st year.

    Seeing Australia, NZ, SE Asia and West Coast USA.

    Some football related stuff.

    Getting off the gear.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,225 ✭✭✭JCDUB


    Am 30.

    Lows: My Dad recently dying of cancer.

    Bit of a mis-spent youth, drinking and soft drugs for a few years, great craic at the time though:D

    Highs: Been made redundant recently, and feeling very positive about changing career path to something which I will actually find fulfiling.

    Year and a half travelling the world and broadening my horizons - recommend it to anyone.


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