Girlfriends who text nonsense and too many phone calls

ntlbell · 13-01-2009 02:54PM

Ikky Poo2 wrote: »

You trolling again....?

Are you some sort of troll detective?

Playing a blinder.

ntlbell · 13-01-2009 02:55PM

who007 wrote: »

I think some of you are actually completely missing the point - mostly the mods.. lucky people not to understand I suppose.

She's a psycho.

Trust me.

who007 · 13-01-2009 02:57PM

chin_grin wrote: »

Oh, I get it. Practicing a new observational comedy skit. Hmm, might want to work on it. Asking too many rhetorical questions may send the audience in to a frenzy.

*sigh* - no - but would have only expected people who understand where I am coming from to share experiences and advice rather than some patronising gits who want to prove how in touch with their feminiity they are trying to rip me apart. As for your post - it was done before in case you duidn't read all the replies. But yeah I get it - you are so cool and sarcastic I bow to your "insight" into other human beings.

who007 · 13-01-2009 02:59PM

ntlbell wrote: »

She's a psycho.

Trust me.

ah no - that would be a bit harsh! I have been with enough psychos to recognise them at 20 paces.
Just frustrating.

(and read back some posts before saying I should say it to her - to the one where I said that I already had)

Dragan · 13-01-2009 03:01PM

who007 wrote: »

I think some of you are actually completely missing the point - mostly the mods.. lucky people not to understand I suppose.

No AH Mods have posted here yet, and i am just another user in this forum, thankfully.

You are still stuck in "poor diddums" mode with me mate, sorry.

ntlbell · 13-01-2009 03:04PM

who007 wrote: »

ah no - that would be a bit harsh! I have been with enough psychos to recognise them at 20 paces.
Just frustrating.

(and read back some posts before saying I should say it to her - to the one where I said that I already had)

it's just insecurities man some are worse than others, this particular one seems to be veering on the side of psychotic.

but they're all like that to some extent some just tone it down as they get older but the under lying insecurities are still there and I'm sure all the secure successful women will be on blasting me out of it :rolleyes:

who007 · 13-01-2009 03:05PM

Dragan wrote: »

No AH Mods have posted here yet, and i am just another user in this forum, thankfully.

You are still stuck in "poor diddums" mode with me mate, sorry.

well then you've made your point and you have little reason to read any more of my "poor diddums" stuff then, do you?

togster · 13-01-2009 03:08PM

I agree it can get annpoying but instead of bitching on about it here, why don't you talk to her about it.

ntlbell · 13-01-2009 03:08PM

who007 wrote: »

well then you've made your point and you have little reason to read any more of my "poor diddums" stuff then, do you?

He's waiting so he can advertise more of his sensitive side.

Stand by.

dos30 · 13-01-2009 03:08PM

OP did you not realise you had to run all new threads past Dragan and chin_grin before posting??

I found in hilarious and can completely relate to it.

Just as I was reading it I got a txt off the girlfriend saying she was "at home eating Cashel Blue and crackers.

She'll probably read this now and kill me.:o

ntlbell · 13-01-2009 03:09PM

togster wrote: »

I agree it can get annpoying but instead of bitching on about it here, why don't you talk to her about it.

Don't mention the war...

togster · 13-01-2009 03:09PM

ntlbell wrote: »

but they're all like that to some extent some just tone it down as they get older but the under lying insecurities are still there and I'm sure all the secure successful women will be on blasting me out of it :rolleyes:

Wrong.

ntlbell · 13-01-2009 03:09PM

dos30 wrote: »

Just as I was reading it I got a txt off the girlfriend saying she was "at home eating Cashel Blue and crackers.

did she not send you a pic?

you have it easy....

ntlbell · 13-01-2009 03:10PM

togster wrote: »

Wrong.

Prove it.

togster · 13-01-2009 03:11PM

ntlbell wrote: »

Prove it.

Couldn't be arsed.

Dragan · 13-01-2009 03:12PM

dos30 wrote: »

OP did you not realise you had to run all new threads past Dragan and chin_grin before posting??

See, this guy knows the score.

_feedback_ · 13-01-2009 03:12PM

dos30 wrote: »

Just as I was reading it I got a txt off the girlfriend saying she was "at home eating Cashel Blue and crackers.

You should talk to her about it. But maybe talk to her about the other problems first. Priorities and all that!

dos30 wrote: »

She'll probably read this now and kill me.:o

S.I.R · 13-01-2009 03:13PM

who007 wrote: »

When will they realise we don't want texts to tell us they lost a contact lens/ate a pizza for dinner/ ask us how lunch was (in the middle of the working day)?
Why do they wonder if there's something wrong if, after a full day of e-mailing back and forth, we don't call them for a chat that evening?
WHY, do they call, talk for an hour, then when hanging up say they will call later to say goodnight?!
Why do they think we have any interest in the new dress they are going to buy?
What is this thing about having to be in CONSTANT touch all the time and why don't they realise it means we start to dread hearing from them and start thinking about breaking up?

smothered in love i see ??

better to have a clingy clunt then a avioding " only when she feels like it " clunt.

Wagon · 13-01-2009 03:14PM

I remember I went out with a girl like that. Was weird. I liked getting texts off her, then i started to get annoyed. Like when id be busy, and i didn't reply within 5 minutes, id get a bitchy text as to why im a useless **** for not texting back. When i said "whoa! bit harsh isn't it?" she said relax it was just a joke. It wasn't a joke. She ate children for breakfast. I prefered apple pie. It just wasn't to be.

who007 · 13-01-2009 03:15PM

togster wrote: »

I agree it can get annpoying but instead of bitching on about it here, why don't you talk to her about it.

See above post (again) where I stated that I already had!
NTL - you are prob right. But I don't think it's an insecurity thing. I work very long hours and I have other personal stuff to deal with in myy spare time plus a hobby that takes up a chunk of my time. She just doesn't seem to understand that after speaking on the phone for an hour, I want to go and get on with other stuff, not statr texting again or call again just to say goodnight!
Also, this thread wasn't started with just me in mind. I was thinking bout the other guys I know who have something similar to deal with who say they love their girlfriends/fiancee but their heads are wrecked by the fact that none of them can understand that they want some time away from them without texts to ask for example, what did you do today? (that particular one sent at 5pm when we were on nightshift and had all been in bed by 8am and asleep generally till 4 or 5pm).
If you catch my drift at all I would appreciate some constructive argument, not "you are a grumpy f*ck, I loooove MY gf, etc.

who007 · 13-01-2009 03:17PM

dos30 wrote: »

OP did you not realise you had to run all new threads past Dragan and chin_grin before posting??

I found in hilarious and can completely relate to it.

Just as I was reading it I got a txt off the girlfriend saying she was "at home eating Cashel Blue and crackers.

She'll probably read this now and kill me.:o

lol - we were talkin bouit it in work the other day, and only as soon as we had finished and I went back to work I got a text.. "just having lunch"

who007 · 13-01-2009 03:19PM

S.I.R wrote: »

smothered in love i see ??

better to have a clingy clunt then a avioding " only when she feels like it " clunt.

hhmmmm... dunno bout that - at the moment I am thinking neither seems appealing.

chin_grin · 13-01-2009 03:19PM

who007 wrote: »

*sigh* - no - but would have only expected people who understand where I am coming from to share experiences and advice rather than some patronising gits who want to prove how in touch with their feminiity they are trying to rip me apart. As for your post - it was done before in case you duidn't read all the replies. But yeah I get it - you are so cool and sarcastic I bow to your "insight" into other human beings.

Oh noes! Sarcasms! Yeah I use it. You got it but sought out to attack me. Well done and kudos to you sirrah.

"share experiences and advice" - me hole, you wanted to b!tch.

"patronising gits" - thank you.

"in touch with their femininity" - from someone who put "*sigh*" at the beginning of the post...hmm sure. Also are you coming on to me?

""insight"" - why the quotes?

So, in short quit being the alpha male we all know you're not.

ntlbell · 13-01-2009 03:22PM

togster wrote: »

Couldn't be arsed.

STFU comes to mind so.

who007 · 13-01-2009 03:23PM

chin_grin wrote: »

"in touch with their femininity" - from someone who put "*sigh*" at the beginning of the post...hmm sure. Also are you coming on to me?

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ha ha - I'll give you that one!

togster · 13-01-2009 03:37PM

ntlbell wrote: »

STFU comes to mind so.

lol

Dragan · 13-01-2009 03:38PM

who007 wrote: »

If you catch my drift at all I would appreciate some constructive argument, not "you are a grumpy f*ck, I loooove MY gf, etc.

If you wanted serious responses then you should have posted somewhere other than AH. Pulling the piss out of things is the way things are done in here.

For honest advice on how to deal with it, maybe check out The Ladies Lounge and see what those vipers have to say!:)

who007 · 13-01-2009 03:41PM

Dragan wrote: »

For honest advice on how to deal with it, maybe check out The Ladies Lounge and see what those vipers have to say!:)

lol - I had a sudden image of a colloseum and lions everywhere!

dos30 · 13-01-2009 03:46PM

Dragan wrote: »

If you wanted serious responses then you should have posted somewhere other than AH. Pulling the piss out of things is the way things are done in here.

For honest advice on how to deal with it, maybe check out The Ladies Lounge and see what those vipers have to say!:)

I think it's the other way around, he wanted to have a laugh about it but you're getting all serious saying you love your gf etc...

Dragan · 13-01-2009 04:03PM

dos30 wrote: »

I think it's the other way around, he wanted to have a laugh about it but you're getting all serious saying you love your gf etc...

Not really, i pointed out that talking about it with your partner normally helps in relationships, whatever the "it" may be, and i also pointed out that making bold generalisations about how men feel within relationships is silly.

Because it is.

He posted a serious question and initially i gave him a serious response and i stand by what i said.

I then proceeded to pull the piss because this is AH.;)

Girlfriends who text nonsense and too many phone calls

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