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Girlfriend always wants hug,cuddles etc..is this normal or clingy ?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,725 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    Hi :)
    this may sound a bit strange but it's something that I've been thinking about over the last weeks or so i.e is my gf becoming needy or clingy ?? my gf always wants hugs and kisses and cuddles etc,like after sex she always wants me to hold her and cuddle her in my arms and when I get up to go the next morning she nearly always asks me to leave a tshirt or something with my scent on it.
    I've asked her why and she says she wants to be able to have something of mine with her later that night if we won't see eachother.
    She hugs the pillow I'd sleep on too as it has my aftershave/deodourant smell on it .
    Now don't get me wrong I think it's lovely that she does all this but I'm wondering if I let it go on and don't say anything about it will she become clingy or does she sound clingy as it is ?
    This is my first girlfriend so I've nothing to compare her behaviour to,anyway so I'm just wondering is this ok for her to do or is it weird ? :confused:
    Thanks for any replies ;)
    How I envy your situation. Go with it ffs! :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 165 ✭✭damienricefan


    god i envy this topic

    i'd settle for a thigh grope lol :P


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,730 ✭✭✭✭entropi


    It sounds like the girl is so into you, i'd be a very lucky man if i was in your position:) About the whole "why does she like to hug/cuddle after sex?" question, its mostly due to hormone differences in men/women not gonna bore you with reasons just be really happy it is there, along with the whole smelling your clothing. She is probably in love with you, i wish nothing but good luck there:)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 62 ✭✭primastar


    latchyco wrote: »
    It's when the hugs cuddles stop .....that's the time to worry :(
    oh boy god u can sing it!!


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