Ex Girlfriend cheated on me, but doesnt know that I know about it

TripleAce · 12-08-2008 04:21PM

Just tell her "You got too fat for me" and dump her.

faceman · 12-08-2008 05:39PM

tonyinuae wrote: »

Seems to me she had already pretty much broken up with you before she left on vacation, she just didn't want to scupper her chances of borrowing the dosh.

I got that impression too

AnonoBoy · 12-08-2008 05:46PM

Just leave it. Chalk it up to experience and move on.

Believe me - I found out a hell of a lot of lies I was told by an ex. Stuff that made me really really angry and I let it totally take up my time mulling over every little piece of info she had told me and whether she had done this or that or said this or that.

It can serve no real good. Mark her down as a bitch and a whore (in your mind) if you must. But just make sure you don't dwell on it because you'll regret it if you do.

LegacyUser · 12-08-2008 06:50PM

Hey, Im the OP again.

Just wanted to thank everyone for the comments and the input. I was kind of unsure about how to handle it, but will definitely just leave it alone I guess. As others have said, nothing good will come of it, and shes playing the victim role so much that if she did admit to it Im sure she'd spin it to make out that she was driven into the arms of this other man by my cruel negiligence or some crap, lol.

Just gonna try forget about it and move on. I havnt spoken to her at all over the last while, and despite all this crap, Im sorry to say I actually do miss her. Went out with her for just over 2 years, we're both in our early-to-mid twenties as well.

LegacyUser · 12-08-2008 07:02PM

Forget about it and move on.
Anything else would only be a bit of revenge.

As U said ( and this is the key to it ) :
"I thought I should leave this whole thing alone and not bring it up with her ; ... we both knew the relationship was in bits ... "

Ex Girlfriend cheated on me, but doesnt know that I know about it

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