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Using a prostitute

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  • #32
    The Mighty Ken
    Closed Accounts Posts: 586 ✭✭✭The Mighty Ken


    [Jackass] wrote: »
    You don't know where those lips have been fella. I wouldn't stick me todger near those lips, never mind my own lips!!

    To be fair, most sex workers practice safe sex and, I would dare to say, most 'regular' people don't. You're just as likely to catch something off a receptionist from Baldoyle as you are a hooker from Bratislava.


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    [Deleted User]
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  • #34
    craichoe
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    The Scientist wrote: »
    Most Brassers wont do any 'normal kissing' anyway... so your probably not gonna get much luck.

    She may do a portuguese breakfast though ..


  • #35
    WilmaRidesAgain
    Closed Accounts Posts: 125 ✭✭WilmaRidesAgain


    "You don't know where those lips have been fella. I wouldn't stick me todger near those lips, never mind my own lips!!"

    Vast majority of street girls will not kiss punters OP, however I dont see anything wrong with getting an escort/call girl for the first time.

    Its all very well us all being idealistic about the "first time" and how it should be but I know if it was me and I was in my late 20's and still had got nothing, well something is better than nothing, besides OP if you save up you will be able to afford a girl you probs would not be able to pull in real life and how nice will that be for your first time. Use condoms of course.

    I think an escort would be nicer than a street girl for you especially if you are morally conflicted about it all. You can ask the escort to do "girlfriend experience" for you, if you pay enough some of them will stay all night, talk/kiss and all that.

    It could well be that once you break that ice and get that monkey off your back you will be away on a hack, a lot more fellas use protitutes than admit it believe me and loads of late starters like yourself.


  • #36
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    ASadCase wrote: »
    I am in my late 20's. I have never kissed a girl. While other posters here in lheir late teens & early 20's talk about their woes being a virgin, I have never even kissed a girl!

    Never worry about other people's experience, 9 times out of 10 people are lying/exagerrating. Being a virgin at almost 30's fine, when it happens it happens
    ASadCase wrote: »
    This is too old to have absolutely 0 sexual experience. Thats why I am thinking of using a prostitute, Not for sex. Just for kissing. But I have doubts about how right it is . Unfortunately, it seems I have morals. If I was to use one, I would choose somebody in their 30's from somewhere like England so that there is a good chance they are in the sex trade because of their own choice. But I am so torn... I dont think it is right. But then again, is it right that I have missed out on so much?

    Trying to get a hooker to kiss you wouldn't be wise, you may as well try and get her to put her shoe on her head.

    Find your local meatmarket disco, get somebody drunk and have yer wicked way with her! you'll gain confidence and be a stud in weeks!


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  • #37
    Swampy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,104 ✭✭✭Swampy


    caoibhin wrote: »
    Dont mind the kissing. If you pay good money, go straight for the good stuff. Loads of time for kissing.

    It may be a good boast too. That you had sex before you even kissed a girl.

    here here.

    Get your ass over to spain or somewhere it is legal first of all if your going to do it. Or else go to somewhere like Thailand. Trust me you will have a girlfriend in no time.


  • #38
    gogglebok
    Closed Accounts Posts: 696 ✭✭✭gogglebok


    caoibhin wrote: »
    I sort of wish my Da had brought me to a prostitute when i was 12 or 13. It would have gotten rid of a lot of stress about getting laid for the following 4 years.

    I wonder about that. Wouldn't it just have replaced it with a lot of stress about getting laid again? Now if your Da had brought you to a sequence of prositutes several times a week from the ages of 12 to 18 or so....

    OP, kissing is about intimacy. It's the intimacy you want to have, I feel, rather than the physical action. I don't think a prostitute is the answer.


  • #39
    Marksie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,395 ✭✭✭Marksie


    ASadCase wrote: »
    I am in my late 20's. I have never kissed a girl. While other posters here in lheir late teens & early 20's talk about their woes being a virgin, I have never even kissed a girl!

    This is too old to have absolutely 0 sexual experience. Thats why I am thinking of using a prostitute, Not for sex. Just for kissing. But I have doubts about how right it is . Unfortunately, it seems I have morals. If I was to use one, I would choose somebody in their 30's from somewhere like England so that there is a good chance they are in the sex trade because of their own choice. But I am so torn... I dont think it is right. But then again, is it right that I have missed out on so much?


    So what have you done that stops you actually getting to know girls? or what dont you do?

    This isnt about stress relief losing your virginity or any other such thing..by your own admission all you want to do is kiss!

    Morals have nothing to do with this..whatever is motivating you to not go and talk and go for a kiss at the end of the night is the issue here.

    That will not be resolved by the route you are taking. It would be in fact a waste of time, you may as well practice on the miirror fgopr all the engagement you will get and it still wont solve your underlying issues


  • #40
    Lucy Locket
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 84 ✭✭Lucy Locket


    HI OP,

    Nothing wrong with doing it if that is what you really really want to do. But do you also want that to be the memory of your first kiss??? When you get asked what was your first kiss??....errrrr.....

    It really is your personal choice, but I'm sure if you just put trying to get the kiss out of your mind and just go out and meet a girl, do a bit of flirthing and chatting up it will happen for you and it will be alot better that the kiss with a prostitute.

    Good luck with what ever you decide


  • #41
    geuro
    Closed Accounts Posts: 336 ✭✭geuro


    [Jackass] wrote: »
    You don't know where those lips have been fella. I wouldn't stick me todger near those lips, never mind my own lips!!

    hmmm.. if i cold put me todger near my own lips i'd have called in sick this morning and stayed at home in bed for the day.

    on a serious note op, i don't think being with a hooker is going to sort out your problem. You will still feel like you have never experienced your first kiss. The physical side of a kiss is great, bit it's all about who your kissing, about feeling wanted and about feeling affection.

    Just don't panic, try to keep your confidence in a decent shape, and try to talk to women a little more. Feel no shame and don't feel you need to hide your inexperience. Don't obsess - i know it's easier said than done, but try your best.. and good luck


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  • #42
    cocacola
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭cocacola


    Definitely get a prostitute. I dont bother just kissing. Have sex - you paid for it! Make sure she teaches you ... I'm sure she'd had loads of experience! :D

    Dunno how much they cost but rip-off ireland means you would probably be
    better off getting one in Amsterdam or something. 100% legal! While you are
    there have a hash cake as well. It'll make you (and the prostitute) more relaxed!.

    And seriously - copper face jacks - is the place if you just want a girl.
    You definitely don't want to stay with her but it's good for building up
    experience.

    Once's you're not a n00b you'll see ... the beetches, they love the cheddar!:pac:


  • #43
    Irishcrx
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,861 ✭✭✭Irishcrx


    I don't know I think this is being looked at the wrong way, OP I wouldn't go the route of getting a brasser for your first kiss or first time, your forcing yourself far too much and in the long run when you look back you will most likely regret it. Imagine your future girlfriend or wife asking you about your first time you'd be mortified telling them about it.

    As said get the book "The game" and have a read of it, maybe have a look at www.okcupid.com which is a dating website chating to a few girls over it may help you practise your confidence, put yourself out there, go out with friends, try to spark even the simplist conversation with a girl and see how it goes and I guarentee you it will happen with a bit of time and effort and will get easier and you will look back and be glad you went that route.

    Also maybe join a gym and lift some weights, work out may help your self confidence you'd be amazed what you can do in a few weeks when you put your mind to it, life won't show you the path unless you walk it. good luck.


  • #44
    Wagon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,119 ✭✭✭Wagon


    I'm thinking a prostitute isn't a bad idea. But keep it under your hat. At the very least, you can overcome this fear you seem to have of intimacy and once that mental block is gone you'll have enough self confidence to get out there and meet people (be prepared to be rejected though, it happens to all of us). It's entirely up to you though. There's a lot of people saying it's a bad idea and i can see where they're coming from but if you really want to go for it then do.


  • #45
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I wouldnt kiss a prostitute.

    However my first sexual experience was with a prostitute.
    I was in a similar situation as yourself,but this wasnt planned.

    A group of us were on holidays and went to the red light district.
    Few of the lads were paying for sex and being a little drunk I decided to go along.

    It was quick,easy and purely physical. I thought I would feel strange afterwards that my first time was with a prostitute but its just a physical thing. And I dont feels nervous about sex anymore.


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