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attracted to a girl at work

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  • #32
    PCB
    Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭PCB


    you're single....that figures;)


  • #33
    ams
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,443 ✭✭✭ams


    pcb wrote: »
    ams And Hrududu What Age Roughly Are You Guys??


    25


  • #34
    RedXIV
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,525 ✭✭✭RedXIV


    PCB wrote: »
    you're single....that figures;)

    Welcome to the world of maturity my friend. Ridiculous as this may seem to you, being single does not imply an inability to attract women.

    I'm simply stating the facts of civilisation that you have remarkably missed in your youth. You can't goad me into an argument, if anything i'm only feeling pity for your gf. A real man would let her go if he was thinking of sleeping with other women. I'll let you decide what you want to be known as....


  • #35
    PCB
    Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭PCB


    here is a decent view across a nice range of ages and social situations. I play rugby with a Div 1 team. i train with about 40-45 guys during the year. they range from 18-35ish. some single, some married, some engaged, some with gf's. 100% of those men have cheated over the last 2 years and i mean 100%. Some of them will swear blue murder that they never have yet we have seen them with our own eyes. thye are exactly the type of guys that are on here trying to feel better about themselves by pretending they are little angels.

    i am not justifying this or saying it is ok i personally believe that two people especially where a man is one of those cannot stay faithful forever


  • #36
    forestfruits
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 572 ✭✭✭forestfruits


    Ill go back to what I originally said - you are just looking for someone to say go on ahead!

    you should just break up with your girlfriend, not that that is news to you, you already know thats what you should do and your basically looking for us to tell you that thats the right thing for you. It has nothing to do with this girl at work, your just bored you want to cheat, or be with someone else. The only reason i can see for you being so defensive about poor men and their testosterone making them do things they know they shouldnt, is that you have proviously been a cheater and are heading that direction again.

    Get over yourself, and go do the necessary


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  • #37
    aye
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    PCB wrote: »
    you're single....that figures;)

    :rolleyes:

    are you saying he's single because he doesnt cheat.
    this is getting ridiculous!

    why would you want to cheat anyway?
    whats the point in being in a relationship if your going to cheat?
    why would you want to hurt someone who you are meant to care about?

    i dont understand it, prob never will.

    maybe mate you should use all that testosterone and do some weight lifting or something, might calm you down a bit.


  • #38
    PCB
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    Red please don't try and condescend. your singledome by consequence is becoming ever more aparent


  • #39
    aye
    Closed Accounts Posts: 991 ✭✭✭aye


    PCB wrote: »
    here is a decent view across a nice range of ages and social situations. I play rugby with a Div 1 team. i train with about 40-45 guys during the year. they range from 18-35ish. some single, some married, some engaged, some with gf's. 100% of those men have cheated over the last 2 years and i mean 100%. Some of them will swear blue murder that they never have yet we have seen them with our own eyes. thye are exactly the type of guys that are on here trying to feel better about themselves by pretending they are little angels.

    i am not justifying this or saying it is ok i personally believe that two people especially where a man is one of those cannot stay faithful forever

    wow a rugby team. 22 guys, must mean all men cheat!


  • #40
    PCB
    Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭PCB


    aye wrote: »
    :rolleyes:

    are you saying he's single because he doesnt cheat.
    this is getting ridiculous!

    why would you want to cheat anyway?
    whats the point in being in a relationship if your going to cheat?
    why would you want to hurt someone who you are meant to care about?

    i dont understand it, prob never will.

    maybe mate you should use all that testosterone and do some weight lifting or something, might calm you down a bit.


    how on earth could i be saying he is single because he does not cheat? if you are not able to keep up don't bother replying


  • #41
    PCB
    Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭PCB


    aye wrote: »
    wow a rugby team. 22 guys, must mean all men cheat!


    once again i said 40-45 guys. do try and keep up. ill do you out little footnotes if you need it?


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  • #42
    RedXIV
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,525 ✭✭✭RedXIV


    PCB wrote: »
    Red please don't try and condescend. your singledome by consequence is becoming ever more aparent

    Very well, i'll leave you be after this post. As i've said many times before, i don't come here to judge, just to help. I'm trying to make you into a better person with a greater set of ethics and morals. I'm trying to teach you respect and above all, i'm tryin to stop you from ending up believing that the 45 guys you play rugby with are a shining example of humanity.

    If you fully believed yourself when you said you didn't condone cheating or believe anything justified it, it doesn't say much for your strength of character that you can't stand by your beliefs.

    Best of Luck

    Red


  • #43
    forestfruits
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 572 ✭✭✭forestfruits


    why so defensive??

    yet again, log off and go do the necessary!!


  • #44
    PCB
    Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭PCB


    what a muppet;)


  • #45
    aye
    Closed Accounts Posts: 991 ✭✭✭aye


    PCB wrote: »
    how on earth could i be saying he is single because he does not cheat? if you are not able to keep up don't bother replying

    thats how you implied it mate, with your "that figures" line.

    oh 40 to 45 guy ,i stand corrected, i suppose that does mean that every man cheats :rolleyes:

    the fact that people are completely disagreeing with you should maybe indicate that people aren't black and white mate.
    yeh some guys cheat, some women cheat too, then some, and i'd say most, dont cheat.


  • #46
    Karen_*
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,611 ✭✭✭Karen_*


    PCB wrote: »
    listen RED...maybe girls are not attracted to you and thats fine (q the '' oh loads of girls fancy me but i never would'') but any young attractive guy with a healthy social life will have found himself at one time or another eating over the fence!! i garuantee you if you walked down grafton street took a sample size of 50 young medium to good looking guys with gf and put them on a lie detector test not one of them would come out smelling like roses. Men are fuelled by testosterone that is why they cheat not because they dont 'love' someone


    Looking over the fence is alot different to actually cheating. Men might be testosterone fueled but they also have a brain and a choice and there are loads of decent men around. Not all men cheat. Not even the majority do. But you obviously would. Oh and by the way if all other men put their hand in a fire would you do same?


  • #47
    hockeygirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166 ✭✭hockeygirl


    PCB wrote: »
    what a muppet;)


    Sorry mate... looks like the consensus shows that the only muppet here is you....

    have a nice life.... I pity the fool who gets stuck with you she'll have a miserable life


  • #48
    PCB
    Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭PCB


    seriuosly i think you live a very sheltered life in Dawsons Creek or someplace if you believe that. just because a couple of guys on a board say they dont cheat (probably because they have taken a serous beating with the ugly stick or cant get near a girl) does not change the way of the world over. :D


  • #49
    Kitty_N
    Closed Accounts Posts: 35 ✭Kitty_N


    I think this thread should be locked since the OP seems incapable of heeding the advice of anyone.

    You came on here asking for advice and you were giving advice, very sound advice I think.

    Yet you continue to claim that people are wrong and you are right. You have more than a few people on here telling you that you need to review your way of thinking but you refuse to pay attention.

    You never wanted advice, you just wanted someone to come on here to tell you that you have a god given right to cheat on your girlfriend. Well you don't. And you never will have. Regardless of what you have done in the past (as it seems you have already cheated), it is not a free ticket to treat another person like they are worthless.

    You don't love your girlfriend because if you did then we wouldn't be having this argument. I have no doubt that she believes that you are someone you are not (say, nice, caring, considerate of her feelings). You are none of those things so I think you should show her your true colours and allow her to move on with her life.


  • #50
    aye
    Closed Accounts Posts: 991 ✭✭✭aye


    PCB wrote: »
    seriuosly i think you live a very sheltered life in Dawsons Creek or someplace if you believe that. just because a couple of guys on a board say they dont cheat (probably because they have taken a serous beating with the ugly stick or cant get near a girl) does not change the way of the world over. :D

    god, you sound so much like a little blackrock boy or something.

    i pity your girlfriend i really do.


  • #51
    ams
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    and your maturity continues to shine though.:rolleyes:


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  • #52
    PCB
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    look im not saying its ok, im saying i have not done it and im not saying you dont feel like a scumbag after but it happens and i have never done it to my current gf. however i can see how i could let it happen now. tbh i probably have made up my mind but after this i firmly believe that in reality this is no such thing as love just stages of lust that over a period of time eventually give you a form of emotional bond with somebody. that bond can be easily broken, just throw the right person into the equation


  • #53
    forestfruits
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 572 ✭✭✭forestfruits


    I totally agree your looking for a row, you have not answered one question that i have asked and have your mind made up already.
    You have also shown yourself to be a bit of a tool


  • #54
    aye
    Closed Accounts Posts: 991 ✭✭✭aye


    PCB wrote: »
    look im not saying its ok, im saying i have not done it and im not saying you dont feel like a scumbag after but it happens and i have never done it to my current gf. however i can see how i could let it happen now. tbh i probably have made up my mind but after this i firmly believe that in reality this is no such thing as love just stages of lust that over a period of time eventually give you a form of emotional bond with somebody. that bond can be easily broken, just throw the right person into the equation

    good you've made up your mind, off you go and do what you wanna do mate.
    you didn't listen to any advice given here.
    everyone here said that some people cheat and other dont, yet you continued to argue that 100% of men cheat.

    not much point in starting a PI if you arent going to heed any of the advice.


  • #55
    PCB
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    p.s f0ck blackrock


  • #56
    forestfruits
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    tool


  • #57
    PCB
    Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭PCB


    to be honest im just trying to kill the afternoon at work. i dont really care what any of you t0ssers think. its really easy to work you guys up. it was great fun though!!

    what will we talk about next? i have some really great views on homosexuality and abortion if you wanna hear them?;)


  • #58
    Beetlebum
    Closed Accounts Posts: 837 ✭✭✭Beetlebum


    PCB wrote: »
    p.s f0ck blackrock

    Ha ha ha...this thread has given me a great laugh as I wile away the last hour in work on this sunny Friday evening.

    You are cleary just trying to get a reaction little boy! ha ha...what a sad little life you must lead..go home to your 'girlfriend'..


  • #59
    PCB
    Closed Accounts Posts: 133 ✭✭PCB


    it was a pretty entertaining afternoon. actually flew by watching there losers getting all worked up.

    ill have to do it ag ain sometime. anybody wanna meet up for a drink tonight??:D


  • #60
    Karen_*
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,611 ✭✭✭Karen_*


    Don't think anyone should reply. Its just entertaining him


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  • #61
    valz_walsh
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    Kitty_N wrote: »
    I think this thread should be locked since the OP seems incapable of heeding the advice of anyone.

    You came on here asking for advice and you were giving advice, very sound advice I think.

    Yet you continue to claim that people are wrong and you are right. You have more than a few people on here telling you that you need to review your way of thinking but you refuse to pay attention.

    You never wanted advice, you just wanted someone to come on here to tell you that you have a god given right to cheat on your girlfriend. Well you don't. And you never will have. Regardless of what you have done in the past (as it seems you have already cheated), it is not a free ticket to treat another person like they are worthless.

    You don't love your girlfriend because if you did then we wouldn't be having this argument. I have no doubt that she believes that you are someone you are not (say, nice, caring, considerate of her feelings). You are none of those things so I think you should show her your true colours and allow her to move on with her life.


    Well said.


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