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Dressing Up

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  • #32
    estar
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 801 ✭✭✭estar


    i often have cleavage in tops and have often worn low-ish tops

    i dont show a lot

    but i most certainly dont have people throwing things down my top

    as if i did, it would be the last thing they did with that hand for a very long time.

    what kind of male friends would do that? very dis-respectful ones.

    tell them to have manners the next time, and refuse to speak to them
    until they do.

    you dont go along commenting on their endowments do you???


  • #33
    neuro-praxis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,184 ✭✭✭neuro-praxis


    I'm quite big on top and often wear tops that are a little low-cut (nothing drastic) and I am absolutely not looking for male attention.

    I usually wear a v-neck or straight-across style because these are the only kinds of tops I can wear without making myself look uneven and top-heavy (polo-necks, high collar blouses etc. make me look hefty). I watch my posture though, and sit up straight rather than slouching and giving the person in front of me an eyeful. Actually why am I even justifying why I wear low-cut tops?

    It also should be noted that what appears low cut on a chesty girl does not appear low cut on a girl with a flat chest. Tops can go really quite low on tiny breasted women and nobody would even notice.

    We've all had the strange guys leering experience OP, but I have only had one similar experience to yours, when a guy threw something (a peanut maybe? :)) down my top from across the table in the pub. He was an acquaintance in college. I made it quite clear in front of everyone that he was never to do this again to me and that it was pathetic schoolboy behaviour. He stopped, and he didn't do it to anyone else after that either.

    Don't laugh it off. Don't put up with it. Stick up for yourself. If this doesn't work, cut yourself off or remove yourself from people and places that make you uncomfortable. The vast majority of my friends are blokes and they would never disrespect me that way - in fact most of my male friends would be protective about that kind of thing. You want friends who'll look after you OP, not make you feel like crap.


  • #34
    bug
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,204 ✭✭✭bug


    ok...
    who or what sort of weirdo father trys to take a picture down their daughter's or son's mates top?
    Seriously, who are you hanging around with???

    Tosser's by the sounds of it.

    Personally I'd have to see a picture of your garb to see what way you dress.
    A little cleavage is nice, a lot of cleavage on a big boobed woman isn't.
    That's just my opinion. You kinda get lost in the cavern.

    Technically one should be able to dress what way one wants, and if we were all a size 8 and in complete proportion that would be fine, but were not, and we dress accordingly to suit us.
    Sometimes what we like to wear isn't what suits us, - just making that point.
    In the same way a pear shaped person shouldn't wear ruffles according to Trinny and Susannah...


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