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first date....help!!!!???

  • 06-04-2007 02:08PM
    #1
    smokie78
    Closed Accounts Posts: 69 ✭✭


    hey, met a girl recently and am going out with her next week for first date.....i have been on so many dates over the last year as single since then and i have not had a problem.....i just bring the girl to a pub and have a few drinks and usually goes really well, i date for a while and then end things.......but this time i already feel something.....she is GORGEOUS....but not just that, shes really lovely, happy, and great to chat to....i met her in a pub and asked for her no. ....QUESTION I HAVE REALLY IS......WHERE WILL I BRING HER AND WHAT SHOULD WE DO??? really appreciate any answers...i really want this to be THE ONE...!!!! thanks


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  • #2
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    What does she like to do?

    Why dont you bring her for a bite to eat - maybe tapas and then to a comedy club. You will soon find out if you have the same sense of humour....


  • #3
    Beruthiel
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 42,361 ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    No need for all the caps dude.
    I see nothing wrong with a nice dinner in a little restaurant followed by a drink or two in a pub.
    Do you live in Dublin?
    If so El Bahia is a nice little restaurant off Grafton Street, you can find it on the web.
    Or Chez Max beside Dublin Castle.


  • #4
    kittenkiller
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,433 ✭✭✭kittenkiller


    Just make sure you do something that you're both comfortable doing, otherwise things'll have a higher chance of being awkward and a weird atmosphere.
    The above suggestions are good, most people like to eat, drink and laugh!

    Relax, enjoy!


  • #5
    smokie78
    Closed Accounts Posts: 69 ✭✭smokie78


    yeah i live in dublin and so does she.....thats good advice lads keep it comin..... :) eating in front of a girl for first date??? ya think its ok to have crap in my teeth? just never did the meal thing for a first date...always pub....but sounds good.....any other ideas of like best date ever kind of thing?


  • #6
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    Well I think girls are impressed when the guy puts some thought and effort into the date.....

    No flowers / choclates etc but just have a plan for her when you are making the arrangements to meet... As for going for a meal its a nice idea but can create a lot of pressure hence the tapas suggestion. Its small portions of food and gives you something to talk about.

    See what concerts / bands are playing on that night and bring her to a gig. Its not rocket science its just about putting in some thought and effort - thats worth more than any money spent on the night.


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  • #7
    smokie78
    Closed Accounts Posts: 69 ✭✭smokie78


    thanks sarah.....i once brought a girl to the guinness factory for the guinness tour and it ends up in the bar upstairs....id like to do something like that....the gig thing sounds good!!! havent seen a good gig in a while...


  • #8
    um7y1h83ge06nx
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,029 ✭✭✭um7y1h83ge06nx


    I tend to reckon that one or two drinks in a quiet pub is good, maybe some food in a not too fancy restaurant.

    Sometimes I think women can feel that things seem too serious if you take them to some fancy, formal restaurant. A nice chilled out atmosphere helps make both people more relaxed and be themselves.

    Just do what you normally did with the whole pub thing, be comfortable, and have a laugh.

    Good luck ;)


  • #9
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    No worries - enjoy


  • #10
    BrandonBlock
    Closed Accounts Posts: 570 ✭✭✭BrandonBlock


    Surprise her with skydiving, it might be costly but ya can be pretty sure it'll be the most memorable 1st date she ever had. http://www.skydive.ie/


  • #11
    biko
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,060 ✭✭✭✭biko


    This is also already posted in Dub forum


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  • #12
    Gordon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,522 ✭✭✭✭Gordon


    You only need one thread on this OP.


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