Single Mother Relationship Dilemma.

i can completely empathise with the op
my bf has a child from another rel. & i have struggled with the same feelings
many of the ppl posting here are being way to harsh on this guy

any updates on the situation?

OP You were given the opp to walk away on the 1st 'date'

I think you are entitled of course to make your own choice.. However sh***ging the girl for 2 months and giving her false hopes is pathetic and spineless. Best of luck finding the perfect girl for mummy and daddys approval

As Thaedydal said , Not all single mothers are psycho bunny boilers looking for a new daddy for their numerous offspring by the ten different fathers etc.. Most women give serious and thorough thought to a mans character before letting him into what is a very sacred space with their kids. And here is a thought for some of the posters .. Some women actually do not want a man NEAR their kids and are just happy to casually date while they get on with their lives .... !!

And lads .. remember .. Women generally do not get pregnant alone..They may end up parenting alone or co-parenting for many many reasons .. But i think we are all know that NO CONTRACEPTION IS 100%[/B . 2 people are responsible for a baby and each time anyone has s** the possibility is there that a conception will occur..

Scarlett letters indeed Thaedydal