How to change life around, anyone?

I went through what you did a couple years back, hopeless with women, couldn't talk to any of them. Things changed when I moved house in with strangers with a couple girls, one of which ended up to be my gf (now ex). Now I don't really think about the whole girl thing. I don't really pass any remarks with regards to chatting them up. It's not that I find it easy, it's just that I don't care. I act natural, if they don't like it then it's their tough.
What you need is a good dose of hobby/group activity, some sport with women involved. Get to know them more. Biggest thing is to not worry about it so much. I know that's easier said than done, but the more you think about it the worse it gets. It's always hard to meet a girl anywhere, you can't always rely on meeting one in a pub or club.
Or else do what I did, move in to an aopartment somewhere with females, make good friends with them and see how your social skills work.

sorry if this is useless advice, don't worry mate you'll be fine. We all go through **** in our lives, guess that's part of the fun. life wouldn't be interesting if it was easy.

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