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  • 21-02-2007 11:57AM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,005 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey,

    Any advice on what to say to a friend who really hurt me, but doesnt seem to realise it or even care.

    She said I was bad mouthing her and questioning her. When she was questioning if I really wanted to be friends with her. It really hurt I have always stood by her.
    this was going on for a while, I have tried numberous times to talk to her about it, but to no avail.

    I am driving myself mad, any conversion trying to fix it was started by me, I feel I am the only one who cares enough to do anything.

    I told her I want to start over but if I dont let her know what I feel I am afraid that all this effort is for nothing.

    I know this is only my side of the story but
    Any advice would be great


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  • #2
    free2fly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 565 ✭✭✭free2fly


    Maybe you can write your feelings down in an email or a letter and send it to her? If she won't talk to you about it then perhaps if she reads the way you are feeling it will sink in. If she doesn't react to that then perhaps she is not worth keeping as a friend?


  • #3
    Ruu_Old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    How long has it been since you both were talking on normal terms? Maybe give her some space for a while as you have been trying hard to make amends.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,005 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    hey

    I hav given her space, tried to just get on without crowding her to much.

    Its been just befor xmas when all was ok


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