Interested or not?

Maybe suggest that few of you from work (including her) go to the cinema, and if that goes well, maybe ask her to have a coffee or lunch (alone) sometime after?

That seems like a good idea, Jeremiah 16:1. However, I'm a little confused as to how sitting watching a film and not conversing for two hours or so could 'go well'... unless you try the penis in the popcorn trick. Get unsalted popcorn though. OP, after a hard days work you should casually suggest going somewhere to relax - just the two of you of course.

dceire wrote:

Ok so I like a girl at work, we get on great together and i get the since that the feeling is mutual. The thing is she has a quite flirtatious personality and I’m struggling to distinguish between her actual flirting and her just being herself.

Has anyone been in a similar situation or any general advice, not a big issue I’m mainly writing this out of boredom!

Yeah it's a tricky one seeing as you work together - you can't just avoid the person if it goes wrong.
I was in a similar situation with this girl who was a friend of mine, I went to college and worked with her also, and liked her quite a bit...
She would be really friendly towards me and giving me loads of attention etc.
I had an inkling maybe she liked me but couldn't work out whether it was just her friendly personality...

Anyway all of a sudden she just changed and barely notices me at all now!

Looks like she did like me after all but it's a bit late now.
So if you decide to "leave it and wait" you could end up in that situation.

Ah well I give up trying to figure out girls anyway. The batchelor life's not so bad.