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Buying girls drinks

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  • #32
    Lump
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,984 ✭✭✭✭Lump


    I offered to buy a bird a drink last night, she said no! I cried :(

    John


  • #33
    Will
    Closed Accounts Posts: 19,183 ✭✭✭✭Will


    I usually buy my friends drinks, ive never even had the opportunity to buy a girl a drink in a club (i think, maybe i drakn too much) oh wait i have, i bought 2 girls some cocktails. i didnt expect anything at all. I just go out to have fun. I just chatted to them, then went on my merry...very merry way :D
    Yeah it is cheeky of a randomer to ask you to buy em a drink but theres not a man i know that cant be swayed by a cute face and the perceived promise of a kiss...unless shes a mong


  • #34
    scojones
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,230 ✭✭✭scojones


    Girls smell :(


  • #35
    ST*
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,735 ✭✭✭ST*


    Blisterman wrote:
    I was introduced to this very hot girl, by a friend f mine.
    If said friend doesn't have a wife or gf, he was trying to lose her. And probably because she tried the same tactic on him.
    Blisterman wrote:
    she asked me to buy her a drink.

    And that was it? no - "buy me a drink, and I'll get the next round in" ?
    You should have left the wretch there on the spot.

    Guys originally would have asked women if they would like a drink just to break the ice, have a chat and hopefully meet again. Their expectations have changed tbh, and want more for that drink. So it cuts both ways.

    I would never ask a guy to buy me a drink, it is just plain rude. Getting into a round is fine. That way, if I decide that I don't like my company so much after all, I can walk away guilt free.


  • #36
    Hobbes
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,264 ✭✭✭✭Hobbes


    I buy drinks if friends, rounds are expected but no one would get kicked for it unless they were abusing it.

    TBH all she was interested in was the drink. You should of walked over to other guy while she was still there and say "Don't worry, the roofies should kick in, in about 20 minutes" then wink at her and wander off.


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  • #37
    DOLEMAN
    Closed Accounts Posts: 850 ✭✭✭DOLEMAN


    As WWM said, if you got the shag, you'd have no problem buying the girl a drink!

    It's still cheeky though. Luckily I've found as I get older I can sense the scabby geebags a mile away...


  • #38
    sunzz
    Closed Accounts Posts: 969 ✭✭✭sunzz


    If I ‘am out with a good lot of people in a group and some girls who are friends of the group come over and I’ am heading up to the bar I’d often ask if anyone of them would like a drink, there is nothing sinister in my action it’s more or less out of courtesy if I get a drink back later on it’s cool, a chat or get to know the person is also fine, anything else I’d be refusing :D

    Don’t you just love being in a steady relationship :D

    I’ve often been asked by girls to get them a drink I kindly say, sorry student life is a killer and walk away.


  • #39
    Dizzyblabla
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,440 ✭✭✭Dizzyblabla


    I was in a pub once (well loads of times, but this particular time) and a guy started chatting to me, fine, talked away for a few minutes, then I went outside for a smoke and back to my friends.

    I went to the bar about 20mins later and went to give the person behind the bar the money for my drink and I was told that it was already paid for. I looked at her stupidly while asking who had paid for it, and she pointed across the bar at the guy I had talked to earlier that night.
    At this stage the bar person is gone and I'm still holding my money in my hand, embarrassed and flabbergasted (doesn't that only happen on the tv?!) but I smiled across and him and said thank you.
    Back I went to my friends and the night went on it's merry way and I bought myself a few more drinks.
    Suddenly, right next to me is the guy, jacket in hand with a pissed off look on his face, 'you could have come over'... I looked at him, my face going red with the embarrassment, and said excuse me? He said that I should have gone over to him as it was good manners I was dumbfounded, I couldn't even speak, but no.. he stayed there and it was like he was waiting for an explaination. So I said that I didn't want to give him the wrong impression and he said that I wouldn't have and walked off...

    I never asked for the drink (and would never dream of asking a guy to get me a drink), and the way the situation happened at the bar, there was no way of refusing it, and yet he made me feel bad.

    Normally the only time I let a guy buy me a drink is when we're in rounds, even at that I feel bad and will sneak an extra round in every so often cause I drink vodka and diet coke which is about €2-€3 more expensive than a pint.


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