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Girls asking out Guys?

  • 10-11-2005 08:44PM
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 148 ✭✭


    How would you guys out there feel about girls asking you out?:)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 29,130 ✭✭✭✭Karl Hungus


    Ragazza wrote:
    How would you guys out there feel about girls asking you out?:)

    I'd like that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,727 ✭✭✭✭Sherifu


    If they're not minging. :v:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,730 ✭✭✭✭simu


    No - it's evil. :v:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,277 ✭✭✭✭Rb


    Has happened before tbh and is a welcome change to the norm of guys asking girls out.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 148 ✭✭Ragazza


    simu wrote:
    No - it's evil. :v:
    explain!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,380 ✭✭✭pred racer


    Its great!
    :)


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 3,750 Mod ✭✭✭✭The Real B-man


    Probably suffer cardiac arrest the fact that a girl would want to go out with me:D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,060 ✭✭✭✭biko


    Ragazza wrote:
    How would you guys out there feel about girls asking you out?:)
    Stop beating around the bush and just PM me baby :D

    I have actually been asked out and was just happy that she was a go-getter :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,380 ✭✭✭pred racer


    Ragazza wrote:
    How would you guys out there feel about girls asking you out?:)


    What do you think of this?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,013 ✭✭✭✭eirebhoy


    Happens just as much as us asking them out where I live anyway. :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,163 ✭✭✭✭danniemcq


    don't mind at all, in fact i'm a little bit on the shy side when it comes to actually askin ppl out so it's nice!


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 98,142 Mod ✭✭✭✭Capt'n Midnight


    simu wrote:
    No - it's evil. :v:
    aren't we a little biased ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 408 ✭✭Blondie86Star


    I've never asked a guy out. I judt wouldnt know what to say. I've never told a guy I liked him first. How would u tell a guy u like em?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 284 ✭✭Rantorama


    I've done it a couple of times,good results :v:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 148 ✭✭Ragazza


    pred racer wrote:
    What do you think of this?
    I have asked guys out. I am all for it. You couldn't rely on a man to do it. Some guys can get funny about it. (I don't think I am a 'minger')
    I am well able to take rejection, its not that, Guys are strange.:confused:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,727 ✭✭✭✭Sherifu


    Ragazza wrote:
    (I don't think I am a 'minger')
    Pics pics pics!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 408 ✭✭Blondie86Star


    My friend reallylikes this guy she's scored a couple of times (its pretty obv he likes her) but hes really shy, hasnt asked her out yet, i told her 2 ask him out. So what the best way for her 2 do this? your advice v greatfully received...shes been jus on the phone to me!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,730 ✭✭✭✭simu


    Lollers! This is the best thread ever! :v:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 148 ✭✭Ragazza


    She should ask him out!!
    My last fella was really shy so I asked him out for a pint. Best thing I ever did. Was with him over a year. we made eachother very happy.:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,941 ✭✭✭✭Supercell


    My friend reallylikes this guy she's scored a couple of times (its pretty obv he likes her) but hes really shy, hasnt asked her out yet, i told her 2 ask him out. So what the best way for her 2 do this? your advice v greatfully received...shes been jus on the phone to me!

    If he and her have snuggled more than once, likely is he's to shy to ask her out...if she asks him..he'll prolly faint with the joy/shock/relief.

    Make two ppl happy Blondie86Star, tell her to go for it.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,380 ✭✭✭pred racer


    Ragazza wrote:
    I have asked guys out. I am all for it. You couldn't rely on a man to do it. Some guys can get funny about it. (I don't think I am a 'minger')
    I am well able to take rejection, its not that, Guys are strange.:confused:

    I dont like rejection meself and it has stopped me asking out women before, who I heard some time afterwards were hoping to go out with me, so I think it
    would be great if it wasnt the blokes job(in general) to do the asking.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 408 ✭✭Blondie86Star


    Longfield wrote:
    If he and her have snuggled more than once, likely is he's to shy to ask her out...if she asks him..he'll prolly faint with the joy/shock/relief.

    Make two ppl happy Blondie86Star, tell her to go for it.


    I hope they do get together, theyve scored twice in the past 2 weeks afaik


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 148 ✭✭Ragazza


    Twice in two weeks??? she has no worries so.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,519 ✭✭✭RobertFoster


    I've never asked a guy out. I judt wouldnt know what to say. I've never told a guy I liked him first. How would u tell a guy u like em?
    Try saying "I like you" and see what happens.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 148 ✭✭Ragazza


    pred racer wrote:
    I dont like rejection meself and it has stopped me asking out women before, who I heard some time afterwards were hoping to go out with me, so I think it
    would be great if it wasnt the blokes job(in general) to do the asking.

    I wouldn't/haven't let fear of rejection stop me!! You only live once, and really what have you got to lose? I think its worth a red face for a few minutes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 408 ✭✭Blondie86Star


    Try saying "I like you" and see what happens.

    would that not be a bit forward, considering he could say no


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,767 ✭✭✭Hugh Hefner


    So what you really want is a way to force him to say yes? Strip.

    But anyway...

    Yes, girls asking out guys more often would be great. And I don't mean girls dropping hints or being very flirty or any other crap, I mean doing the proper thing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 148 ✭✭Ragazza


    [QUOTE=Yes, girls asking out guys more often would be great. And I don't mean girls dropping hints or being very flirty or any other crap, I mean doing the proper thing.[/QUOTE]
    I agree, I am not a beat about the bush kind of girl.:D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,819 ✭✭✭✭g'em


    would that not be a bit forward, considering he could say no
    lots of guys appreciate the whole being a little bit forward thing. it helps them not to think too much :p

    worst thing is he'll say no (which sounds highly unlikely)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 408 ✭✭Blondie86Star


    I'm not asking for me!
    Bare in mind she's kinda shy too. Apparently there's been flirting for a while. They get on well etc, theyre not texting, but i told her to get a bit of dutch courage into her n tell him.
    Don;t knoe what exactly she should say?
    Please...kinda doing my head in atm, since im NOT a guy i dont know wat he'd like 2 hear! I know when a guy tells me he likes me i usually go off him...


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