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Hugs n snugglez n kisses{}

  • 16-03-1999 04:16PM
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 422 ✭✭


    a hug to a female is completely different to what yee men think of it...
    a hug is say eg ure boyf hugs ya its like ok i may be a bit biased now been engaged and not at the beginning of a relationship, but
    when i get a hug off cream its like "i'm safe smile.gif"
    like he protects me from everything bad just by putting his two arms around me and although we may not admit it but at times to get a hug means more than anything and nothing beats that feeling , i guess safety and comfort are the words i think of atm to describe how a hug feels , you dont have to love someone to hug them plus you wont get into any trouble for hugging someone wink.gif
    a hug from a mate is differnet in the way the love isnt there but it does show that someone cares enough for you to hug you when you're down or missing someone or lonely......
    now group hugs..... they RULE!
    a bunch of people hugging..... smile.gif

    what do i (as a female ) expect from a kiss...
    well for starters hopefully neither of the dredded hoovers or washing machine guys smile.gif
    that just makes it worse....
    first kiss i got off a guy was that dredded washing machine...
    kinda thought from then on all guys kiss like that...
    granted i *ahem* had to make sure wink.gif
    elexes you are right with your three "points"
    slow, gentle and sorry i can't remember the other one but i no it is right:}

    a kiss is meant to be used to show your affection for someone
    the best kiss is one....no matter what...(yes incl the hoover and washing machine) is when yee both enjoy it and respond, then when the kiss is over yee both smile smile.gif
    personnally, i dont really like it when a guy keeps his eye open when kissing..eyes even.....it's like his watching for something and inst invloved int he kiss and that kiss to him to just either shutting your one up or sticking his tongue back her throat for some other silly reason or else along that line....no what i mean?

    again, personnally to me one of the best feelings is lying beside him with his arms around me and a little kiss now and then lips OR tongue smile.gif
    kinda shows to me that hes thinking of me like checking if im still awake or anything realy its really the thought involved in just that little emotion

    k so thast me two pennis worth
    just remember a kiss and a hug are two differnet completely things and this is just my feelings/opinion on the topics yee raised
    everyone is different
    everyone feels differently
    the only way you will know how to kiss her/him or hug anyone friend or more than a friend is by knowing them..kinda comes naturally then

    hey mho&f feel free to disagree all yee want or agree or argue it more strongly or tell me to get a life or whatever...i dont care its how i feel and how i think....
    say what ye want

    Adra smile.gif



Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,264 ✭✭✭✭Hobbes


    I have a question. How can you tell if he has his eyes open unless yours are open? smile.gif



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 745 ✭✭✭SeP


    just a thought....

    your allowed check... just not stare tongue.gif


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,601 ✭✭✭Kali


    wow i bothered to read all that..
    and most of it made sense scarely enough ..
    cept for this:
    k so thast me two pennis worth

    you have two penis's? smile.gif

    hehehehe



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,264 ✭✭✭✭Hobbes


    It was a Freudian slit smile.gif



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,471 ✭✭✭elexes


    woho i got somthing wright my 3 points were right so i do know a little about the opisite sex then a well out this saturday see if i can find out a little more . but on with this disscussion . and ye my x gf felt well said she felt the same way with my hugs as u do with creams and comming from her and her background i took it as a comploment


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,275 ✭✭✭Shinji


    Ahh, my 0.02 Euros worth then...

    A hug is something very special, in ways more special than a kiss can ever be. It can be either sensual or simply platonic, or that bizarre mixture of both which frightens the hell out of so many fellas (possibly girls as well, I don't know). A sensual hug, holding the one you love, is something very deeply touching... Bodies pressed together, cheek to cheek (or therabouts!), and the scent of your partner filling your nostrils... Beautiful, and something very emotive for me. On a platonic basis, of course, hugs are something else altogether. Just putting your arms around a friend (either sex, unless you're one of these homophobic types that I can't stand...!) says "I'm here for you, and I'm not going away in a hurry". A shoulder to cry on, remember, is not just an empty platitude... on the couple of times that I've had the honour of being allowed to provide a shoulder for someone I cared for to cry on, it has quite literally been wet-shoulder time!

    A kiss is something different. There's no such thing as a platonic kiss (well, for us Irish anyway, the continentals have a different view of it) - although the "peck" on the forehead or cheek is not unknown on a platonic basis. A real kiss is just being comfortable with your partner, and enjoying your partners body, and their taste. Gentle, soft, and mutual are the keywords. All that porno story sh1te about "wrestling tongues" won't get you anywhere.

    God, I'm a soppy old romantic, amn't I?

    Mata ne!
    Rob


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 32 ChRoMe99


    hhhhhhm i might be just weird or someone might agree with me on this one (doubtful but here we go anyway). Does anyone else agree that something that is more powerful then a kiss or hug when lying with someone you love is their smell (not like farts or anything) but the mix of their sweat and perfume?

    MAybe I'm just weird




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 631 ✭✭✭Take it


    yep thats true your wierd ;p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,275 ✭✭✭Shinji


    Yah, you're weird.

    I do agree, sort of, but that's just cos I'm weird too....

    Mata ne!
    Rob


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 745 ✭✭✭SeP


    if i knew anythin bout this whole thing id agree too cos im wierd!!!

    take it seppy smile.gif (no offence take-it heh)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,275 ✭✭✭Shinji


    yeah sep...

    btw I don't like that deodorant you're using, could u change it? It's ruining my love making.... :/

    Mata ne!
    Shin-chan


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 745 ✭✭✭SeP


    ROFL!!!!!!

    /me falls over laffing
    ohh stop ur killing me!

    /me sees bubbles approaching at 6 o clock and runs a mile!!!!!!!!!


  • Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    ah such a cute post!:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,904 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    Its also 6.5 years old!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 752 ✭✭✭Lorax


    adra was a bitch


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,264 ✭✭✭✭Hobbes


    There is some **** that shouldn't be dragged up.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,804 ✭✭✭Setun


    Didn't have a ??? what was goin on there. Seems like a lovely lady.

    Couldn't understand a word she said though.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,904 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    Hobbes wrote:
    There is some **** that shouldn't be dragged up.

    hobbesgetsgirl.jpg ???


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16,392 ✭✭✭✭kaimera


    :v:


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