Would you go to a concert on your own?

One More Toy · 16-03-2026 07:24PM #1

Death cab for cutie are playing in the olympia in September. My missus isn't available and I don't think any of my friends are into them. Thinking of going on my own, though that makes me quite anxious. Open to any thoughts

adaminho · 16-03-2026 07:32PM

https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058435988/would-you-go-to-a-concert-on-your-own

Perfectly normal. It's not like going to a play on your own. It'll be a roomful of people who all are into the same music as you.

Aglomerado · 16-03-2026 07:34PM

I was at David Byrne the other night in the 3 Arena. Not a bother! I've also gone to gigs in Cyprus avenue, vicar Street, academy etc. plenty of solo gig goers. Don't miss out because no one else wants to go!

Big Bag of Chips · 16-03-2026 07:44PM

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What's wrong with going to a play on your own?!

I've been to a concert on my own and enjoyed it. It can feel a bit awkward because it's generally a social thing with people hanging out together, chatting and singing along. But I'd have no issue going alone if it was someone I really wanted to see. Nobody there is going to know you, or take any notice of you.

cj maxx · 16-03-2026 07:45PM

Looking at Dcfc I'd go on my own⁷

SuperBowserWorld · 16-03-2026 07:47PM

I go to concerts alone when I can't find people interested or available. It's easier when your standing and go near the front as it's easier to mix in with the fans.

If your seated alone it's probably more awkward.

Just do it.

adaminho · 16-03-2026 07:48PM

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Nothing really wrong with going to a play on your own but it's not like you could strike up a conversation with the person next to you about what's happening. A gig is a lot more laid back and even if you go in a group you usually end up talking to other groups.

artanevilla · 16-03-2026 07:50PM

Absolutely. Often do.

HildaOgdenx · 16-03-2026 08:02PM

Yes, I would. I refuse to miss out on stuff I know I would enjoy just because there's nobody else interested / available to go. Go for it.

Mo Ghile Mear · 16-03-2026 08:02PM

Go!!… I’ve often gone to gigs on my own and there’s always a few like me there. Especially somewhere like the Olympia where you’re seated.
You can get a (v expensive) glass of wine to feel chilled.

Say Your Number · 16-03-2026 08:05PM

And have everyone there pointing and laughing at the sad pathetic friendless loser.

Not a hope.

Dial Hard · 16-03-2026 08:05PM

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It's not like you'd be having the chats with your companion of you went with someone either, in fairness. In many ways a play or film is the perfect thing to do on your own.

Go for it, OP. Doing things alone is vastly underrated. I'm out for dinner on my own as we speak!

One More Toy · 16-03-2026 08:06PM

Thanks guys, I'm going to pull the trigger when the presale opens. Couple of beers and I'll be content!

Mother Shaboobu · 16-03-2026 08:08PM

Never did until New Order in 3 Arena 2023. I went there with my brother and his friends, then wandered off to meet some people I know. Couldn't find them though so ended up in a crowd of like-minded strangers. Had a brilliant night - I was only focused on the music. It didn't matter what company I was with.

Last summer I went to The Waterboys alone - great evening. Went to The Wedding Present alone in Autumn (met someone I knew there though). Nobody even notices.

Do it!

Everlong1 · 16-03-2026 08:09PM

https://www.meetup.com/dublin-gigs/

HeidiHeidi · 16-03-2026 08:12PM

I often go to concerts, cinema, theatre on my own - sometimes I nearly prefer it!

pgj2015 · 16-03-2026 08:31PM

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🤣 dont forget taking videos so they can send it to their friends so they can laugh as well.

I did solo gigs lots of times, its easy especially with a few drinks to drown out the laughter. 😉

nice bit of green · 16-03-2026 08:36PM

Yes, it’s like exercise. Don’t wait for others, just do it. Sure, things can be better as a shared experience but doing things solo can also be great.

Ken Tucky · 16-03-2026 08:43PM

Only downside for me if you are standing and have to go to the jacks. Only if its a packed gig have I had that wee problem.

You instantly lose your position. Its floor space and not a seat so I just roll with it.

Quite enjoy solo gigs once I did it the first time

Strumms · 16-03-2026 09:04PM

Have done it, I have a reasonably eclectic taste in music and I am not going to miss one of my favourite bands or artists because X person(s) just aren’t available or aren't interested. The only sort of weird bits is before at the bar or at the barrier waiting but once the gig starts focus is on enjoying. I’d do it again..

I know one other person who does the same , I met her when I was buying a spare ticket from her on toutless. Ended up we got on became friends on FB, realised we had very similar music interests … we never ever just casually socialise but one will message, “ ohhh im going to X do you like them? Ok check out X on spotify, great we’ll go..” found out bout a year into knowing her that she knew a work colleague of mine who I’d go to gigs with occasionally so that was kinda nice…

Mr. CooL ICE · 16-03-2026 09:27PM

Have done it plenty for bands that none of my friends like. Sepultura, Big Business, Bongzilla, Cryptopsy/Atheist, and maybe more.

Went to see Roger Water's The Wall with friends, but my seat was a good bit away from theirs (bought separately). Ended up having great craic with the people seated either side of me.

L1011 · 16-03-2026 10:38PM

Done it loads of times. Gone to gigs abroad on my own too, not as often though.

Not having another persons entertainment / issues / timelines to deal with is a joy sometimes.

If you have mates going to the same gig, the best thing is to not tie your plans to them. Won't be on your own at the gig, can do what the **** you want before and after.

sammyjo90 · 16-03-2026 10:43PM

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Aww I was waiting for the "and we've been married ever since"

Gone to a lot of gigs solo, you get over the initial apprehension. Hope you enjoy it and start to go more!

lucalux · 17-03-2026 12:19AM

Glad to hear youre doing it! It's the sort of thing I haven't the balls to do myself anymore, but wish I did!

Wouldn't mind it once I'm there but the whole travelling to Dublin (usually, for gigs) and home on my own would be a lot

I used to find the aftermath of a gig a bit of a low after the high

Wompa1 · 17-03-2026 12:24AM

I do it all the time. Is that weird!?

cena · 17-03-2026 12:32AM

Yup, just went to one, going to Metallica two nights by myself

Elliejo · 17-03-2026 12:54AM

I don't go to concerts but I go to plays and musicals regularly on my own. I even fly to London and take in a few shows in the West End a couple of times a year solo.

never_ends · 17-03-2026 01:20AM

the stigma would kind of ruin it a bit.

Hippodrome Song Owl · 17-03-2026 01:59AM

I've done it a few times but am reluctant to do it again in Ireland. It's better if standing imo, just less awkward and more fun. I'm someone who happily goes to the cinema and the theatre alone, but I'm not sure about concerts anymore. I've found bumping into people I know who are then not so subtly judgy about being there alone a negative - has happened twice. I also no longer feel completely comfortable getting back from the 3Arena alone, but other venues are OK generally. Gigs abroad though, definitely.

TyeTO · 17-03-2026 02:16AM

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I like my own space and company to enjoy certain things , nothing wrong with it

I doubt I do it when I was younger but older I am more open to alone time

andekwarhola · 17-03-2026 02:35AM

Death Cab For Cutie has to be the worst band name of all time.

I'd go solo to a band with a less explicitly bearded moniker no problem though.

Would you go to a concert on your own?

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