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Euthanasia and assisted dying.

  • 20-06-2025 07:46PM
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,049 ✭✭✭


    In the light of the majority of the House of Commons voting to permit assisted dying in cases of terminal illness in England & Wales, the BBC's Europe digital editor Paul Kirby wrote in a post at 16:20 on the following page, that the Netherlands and Belgium legalised euthanasia in 2002.

    https://www.bbc.com/news/live/cg4ry0pge4kt

    In the cases of 86% of people who chose euthanasia in the Netherlands in 2024, the reason was a physical condition but the law there also permits euthanasia in cases of psychiatric disorders.

    Also in the Netherlands, children under 12 can request euthanasia under stringent conditions. Last year in that country, one minor died that way because of unbearable physical suffering. Dutch law changed in 2023 to permit doctor-assisted death for terminally-ill children aged 1 to 12.

    In Belgium, euthanasia has since been extended to under-18s in exceptional circumstances, with terminal illness and with the parents' consent.

    Last November, James Mates reported:

    'The Belgian example looks like a classic ‘slippery slope’ a well-intentioned law being stretched and expanded way beyond the intentions of the original framers. Many Belgians accept that is what has happened, but by and large, they are happy that things have worked out this way. Indeed a mainstream opposition party, Open VLD, are pushing for legislation to make the law even more flexible, especially for those suffering from dementia. “We start from the liberal principle that you decide for yourself about your life,” they say.'

    Usually, in a democratic country, the abuse of vulnerable people causes a public outcry.

    So how can so many Belgian and Dutch people be OK with the euthanising of children and people who have mental illness or dementia?

    Have they forgotten about what happened in a certain dark period in Western Europe in the 20th century?



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,134 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    Linking assisted dying to "a certain dark period in Western Europe in the 20th century" is an absolute stretch.

    And that aside, as you say in your post, the law in Belgium permits this course for children "with terminal illness" i.e they are going to die anyway and this is to allow them to choose the manner in which they do so.

    There's vastly more pertinent ways to be outraged about the abuse of mentally ill people (children or otherwise) than choosing this as being the trigger to say something.

    In the netherlands, where assisted dying for mental health reasons is permitted, the figure for people who choose assisted dying is about 15% of those who died by suicide in a given year. So you could argue that it helped ease the suffering of some people who may have chosen to die a different way if this wasn't available to them.

    Personally, I am conflicted by the topic. In principle I agree with it for severe cases of suffering (physical or otherwise) but I am also wary of some people being manipulated in to choosing this path. I understand some of the people who voted against the bill in the UK today felt that there weren't sufficient safeguards being proposed to mitigate against this and that would concern me.

    As a global society, I feel we've already cheapened the value of life too much in how we expect people to struggle and suffer and in that scenario, it's a bit hypocritical for some people to insist everyone has to stick around.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,246 ✭✭✭Photobox


    Very well put. Exactly how I feel about it..conflicted too, can see both sides.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,746 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    Usually, in a democratic country, the abuse of vulnerable people causes a public outcry. 

    So how can so many Belgian and Dutch people be OK with the euthanising of children and people who have mental illness or dementia? 


    You answered your own question in the same post -

    “We start from the liberal principle that you decide for yourself about your life,” they say.'


    iIn order for there to be public outcry about children and vulnerable adults being abused, it would have to be established that there are children and vulnerable adults being abused.

    Have they forgotten about what happened in a certain dark period in Western Europe in the 20th century?

    I don’t think anyone’s forgotten about the decades of abuse of children and vulnerable adults perpetrated by the Catholic Church in Western Europe in the 20th century. It’s why in most countries in Western Europe they have since leaned more towards becoming liberal democracies, with the result in the UK being indicative of a shift towards a more liberal democracy. For a while there it was touch and go with the Conservatives in power making an absolute balls of everything and just generally making people’s lives more difficult and miserable.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,049 ✭✭✭political analyst


    Actually, this is what I was thinking of when I used the phrase "dark period".

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aktion_T4

    But since you've referenced clerical sexual abuse of children, have you not considered that, since some children have been groomed by adults who went on to have unlawful carnal knowledge of them (to use old legal terminology), some children could be groomed into being euthanised or taking their own lives?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,049 ✭✭✭political analyst


    How have we cheapened the value of life?

    Here's an example of the dark period that I was thinking of.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aktion_T4



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,746 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    I can’t say I have to be honest, because as TMH points out - that’s a hell of a stretch!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,134 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    I don't think anyone was wondering what was the dark period you were referring to, I know I wasn't.

    With respect to cheapening the value of life, have a look around you, the flippant manner in which the treatment of the palestinians has been viewed by much of the west, the blase conversations that are happening right now about another potential war in the Middle East. How little meaningful action is taken to reign in climate damage. How people are viewed as commodities who must add monetary value above all else. Look at the impact AI is going to have on people going forward, the wellbeing of our societies is very far down the list of priorities of the people pushing that technology.

    I don't think anyone could argue that the overall quality of life has improved in the West over the last 20 years or so, irrespective of what the life expectancy values have been.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,049 ✭✭✭political analyst


    None of the things in the second paragraph of your post is anything to do with euthanasia or assisted dying.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,134 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    I don't look at things through a singular selective lens. Sorry.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,185 ✭✭✭✭Frank Bullitt


    Usually, in a democratic country, the abuse of vulnerable people causes a public outcry.

    This is really quite a disgusting thing to say.

    People who are terminally ill, and of sane mind, are making a very brave and noble decision, and a very hard decision at that.

    You trying to route this into things that happened in Europe is equally disingenuous, and really quite awful as well. This has nothing to do with that, it is about giving very ill people a choice, and also a say on how they would like to see how their final days, and not just to save themselves pain, but also their loved ones.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,200 ✭✭✭✭fritzelly


    Don't see any reason why a person of sane mind undergoing intense suffering with a medically confirmed life expectancy and no possible hope of a cure should not be allowed to end their suffering under their own terms instead of being forced to live to their dying breath wishing they were dead every second of their existence



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 42,351 CMod ✭✭✭✭ancapailldorcha


    It's both disgusting and disingenuous to compare voluntary euthanasia and assisted dying to Nazi atrocities.

    I don't see why someone shouldn't be able to avoid years or decades of living in absolutely misery just because it offends some people.

    The foreigner residing among you must be treated as your native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the LORD your God.

    Leviticus 19:34



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,208 ✭✭✭prunudo


    Like another relevantly recent societal referendum, if and when it is brought to us to vote, it will be marketed as only happening on rare occasions and having plenty of safe guards. But as we always see, this is a lie to win over the middle ground. It will be a sad day if this is voted in imo. Life certainly is cheap in this so called modern and progressive world.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,073 ✭✭✭Floppybits


    This is such a hard topic, on the one hand I can understand someone who is terminally ill and in pain wanting to end the suffering on their terms and on the other you could see people coercing people into making that decision.

    Also then you will have other people who will also want to have the choice of ending their life so where does the line get drawn?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 703 ✭✭✭HazeDoll


    Anybody who has ever had to sit and watch somebody slowly and painfully die would support this, as long as they're not the sort who gets a kick from the suffering of others.

    A diagnosis, a few years of ineffective treatment, a slow decline. One day you realise that this will probably be the last time we'll go for a walk together. This might be their last trip to the shops, it took too much out of them. You watch as they resign themselves to the loss of privacy, independence and dignity. They try to hide pain, their medication is making them drowsy and confused. And still, it could be years before the end.

    When somebody dies there's often a lot of stupid talk about how bravely they bore their illness. As if they had a choice.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,564 ✭✭✭circadian


    Equating a heavily regulated process to a Nazi scheme to kill off people with disabilities and other minorities is preposterous.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,564 ✭✭✭circadian


    Yes because your political misgivings on this topic completely override the autonomy of people you don't know. Let me guess, repealing the 8th was a mistake?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 74 ✭✭AugustRain


    Personally I would prefer to have the autonomy to end my own life at a time of my own choosing.

    However, in countries where this has been legal for some years now, the evidence is very worrying.
    A disabled man in Canada who was in serious dispute with his local civic authority about his need for increased assistance in order to remain living at home had it pointed out to him, in written correspondence, that euthanasia was an option for him.
    There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that some elderly or disabled people will feel pressured into ending their lives rather then continue to be a burden on their family.
    These countries all started out with very stringent conditions too but verified reports of people suffering mental health conditions such as anorexia being approved, or more recently a widow of 2 years being approved in order to end her grief would tell us that there’s always ways around this.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,907 ✭✭✭eightieschewbaccy


    Pretty sure most people would happily vote for repeal again. Forcing people to do something against their will doesn't tend to work.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 703 ✭✭✭HazeDoll


    I wonder if the reluctance to end somebody's misery is connected to some notion of the sacredness of suffering. If you walk in the front door of most schools in this country you are greeted with some form of representation of an instrument of torture. Jesus, gaunt and bleeding and bearing an expression of beatific agony, demonstrating that the path to heaven is through prolonged pain.

    Lots of faiths seem to feature some variation on the same idea. Self-denial - things like fasting, asceticism and self-inflicted pain - are what elevate the sacred above the ordinary people.

    Is there still some deeply-held belief that suffering is purifying? That it brings you closer to some idea of an afterlife? Is that why some would prefer to postpone the inevitable and prolong the unendurable?

    I suppose that's fine if they want to put themselves through that but to suggest that everybody else has to die a horrible death too is psychotic.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,746 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    Anybody who has ever had to sit and watch somebody slowly and painfully die would support this, as long as they're not the sort who gets a kick from the suffering of others.


    That’s a hell of a ‘no true Scotsman’ fallacy you’re setting up there that is not remotely reflected in reality. There are many people who have had to watch loved ones dying in pain who didn’t perceive euthanasia as the answer, rather they seek to alleviate the person’s suffering and are frustrated with the fact that social, medical and scientific knowledge has failed to provide an adequate answer. Euthanasia is not the answer.

    The premise of the opening post is a mish-mash effort to conflate voluntary euthanasia with involuntary euthanasia using the suffering of children and vulnerable adults in the same way as you’re doing. The issue then was that children and vulnerable adults were portrayed as a burden on society, a barrier to social progress, an ideology which facilitated seeing children and vulnerable adults as non-persons, unworthy of being treated with dignity and respect which was a right only afforded to individuals who promoted the pervasive ideology which led to the circumstances the OP is referring to in Germany, a bit more specific than their original claim of public outcry regarding the abuse of children and vulnerable adults in Western Europe.

    The fundamental premise of their argument is no different than yours in that it has a fatal flaw - it relies on people making the connection between children and vulnerable adults suffering, and portraying legislating for euthanasia as the slippery slope toward abuse of children and vulnerable adults, when in reality one has nothing to do with the other. It’s an emotionally laden argument designed to elicit a feeling of wanting to be on the right side of history which serves as a distraction from coming up with solutions to understanding why people are suffering in the first place, and in second place how to alleviate their suffering. Mercy killing sounds like the right thing to do in those circumstances, but that’s only because it’s the logical conclusion of a solution that has it’s foundation in liberal principles - We start from the liberal principle that you decide for yourself about your life


    Characterising anyone who doesn’t share those values as someone who gets a kick out of the suffering of others only provides an insight into your own individual philosophy which informs your perception. It’s not an objective observation based upon reality.



  • Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 29,891 Mod ✭✭✭✭Podge_irl


    I would be broadly in support of assisted dying. I do have to say the process undergone in the UK seems far from ideal though. The initially proposed safeguards have been fairly watered down and the general tone of the debate - which started out very well - has become more fractious.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,743 ✭✭✭✭Igotadose


    I'd say you have it. The RCC has made a business promoting suffering and paying them is the only way to mitigate it - not relieve it, but be able to assuage yourself before you die that you did everything they groomed you to believe would be right, including of course contributing money, time and energy to promulgating the beliefs and business model of the RCC.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,917 ✭✭✭✭BorneTobyWilde


    Can see this becoming normalised, probably end up as a reality TV Series in time. One week of bliss with those they love, followed by a final episode of goodbyes.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,746 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    you did everything they groomed you to believe would be right


    That word too will lose its barb through over-use, but not before it’s appropriated by those who wish to portray anyone who supports euthanasia as being groomed to believe it’s the answer to address any and all of life’s struggles.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 703 ✭✭✭HazeDoll


    I think there are plenty of people who think dying is a picturesque business. White-haired and frail, you'll lie in your bed surrounded by loved-ones who will say touching heartfelt things and promise never to forget you. Then you'll peacefully close your eyes and breath your last.

    My experience was nothing like this. I watched a strong man in his sixties in one of the best hospitals in the country suffer pain that no medication could touch. He couldn't lie still but it hurt to move. He couldn't sleep, couldn't use the bathroom unassisted, couldn't eat more than a few mouthfuls. Couldn't watch telly or even really follow a conversation because he was out of his mind on drugs.

    Terminal agitation isn't just a brief phase of anxiety. When you google it you'll see it defined in very clinical terms and it doesn't sound so bad. In reality it is a prolonged nightmare. I would give anything - absolutely anything - to go back in time and rescue my dad from those few days. All my worst nightmares are of being back in that hospital room, helpless and bewildered. I have terrible guilt because I watched and did nothing. He wouldn't have let me suffer like that.

    I wrote a whole paragraph here full of gory detail and then deleted it because it was just too awful.

    Eventually they sedated him and he didn't open his eyes again. It took him seven full days to die after that. Four days of death-rattle. No matter how often they tell you the death-rattle is normal and he isn't suffering you know it's wrong to drag this out.

    I don't for one minute think our experiences were unique but for some reason this is a process nobody talks about. Certainly, nobody warned me. Maybe they don't want to discuss it because they're trying to preserve some shreds of dignity for the departed. More likely it's because they can't bring themselves to relive it. Just writing this has been very difficult for me.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,853 ✭✭✭SuperBowserWorld


    I find it amazing that people go on about the sanctity of life and will quite happily eat pork or chicken from an animal whose entire life and death was abject cruelty.

    Also, they are quite happy that someone in another country leads a cheap, hard, short unhealthy life making their clothes or Christmas decorations.

    Or they think people who follow speed limits or vaccinate themselves to prevents the spread of disease or death in society are idiots.

    Or that's it's ok to have shares in companies that destroy the planet that is necessary for life, or that sell products and services that promote addictions, fear, self hate, and suicide in society.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,614 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    Why did it take so long for him to be sedated? That the real question here.

    Palliative care in this country has a lot of catching up to do, and it won't be helped by allowing people to require doctors to kill them.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 703 ✭✭✭HazeDoll


    Yeah, thanks for telling me what the 'real question here' is.

    Such insight.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,134 ✭✭✭✭Tell me how


    None of the things that No voters were concerned about in the last 2 major societal referendums (Repeal of the 8th and Same Sex Marraige) came to pass.

    There wasn't a rapid increase in the use of abortion as a contraceptive nor was there negative outcomes for children because of the supposed undermining of the family that the SSM was said to initiate.

    And in the divorce referendum, which conservatives were again staunchly against, ot was argued that divorce would lead to the destruction of society because people would split at the first argument.

    Recent history would tell is that Scaremongering around societal issues has rarely, if ever been found to have been true.



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