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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,395 ✭✭✭✭suvigirl


    Its been explained numerous times why they were banned on one specific thread. It didn't work, it just became a thread of posters arguing about whether something happened or not. It was brought in to stop that and allow actual discussion. It makes life a lot easier for mods then try to and deal with a thread of bickering posters. It won't be changed.

    You can relay your lived experiences in every other thread I believe.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,471 ✭✭✭✭odyssey06


    My "lived experience" is that the far right deliberately use invented anecdotes\relatives to peddle lies and it is entirely valid for social media forums to take measures against that.

    "To follow knowledge like a sinking star..." (Tennyson's Ulysses)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Yvonne007


    There have been plenty of instances of people being banned, warned and sanctioned for not accepting lies about biological facts.

    Anecdotes have their place in conversations. I do like to learn from other people's experiences. Do I believe every anecdote? No. Do I hold them in the same regard as verifiable provable fact? No. But they do lend to human discussion and they do matter.



  • Registered Users, Subscribers, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,657 ✭✭✭hometruths


    Love it. Even the feedback forum is not immune to the pervasive "prove it, source, citation etc" nonsense!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Yvonne007


    And I have heard your anecdote, and I have weighed it up in my mind that I can discount it because I don't find it reasonable or plausible. And now we can move on. See? That was easy. Don't think you should be banned for it.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Yvonne007


    I am aware. Perhaps a solution would be to allow the anecdote, allow it to be refuted and then move on.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,471 ✭✭✭✭odyssey06


    So it was pointless because you're only agreeing with your own previous perspective as to what is "reasonable". It won't shift anything. Did you go away and research it and you claimed should be done earlier? Nope.

    So you have very quickly proven as to how pointless and useless they are on a discussion forum. It can only be made "plausible" with reference to actual facts and evidence.

    So yes, you should be banned for it when posters use it to push lies because it makes any kind of real discussion impossible.

    If you want to just hear anecdotes, as has been pointed out multiple times, go to Facebook.

    If you just want a platform to push our anecdotes unchallenged, start a blog or a Facebook page.

    This is a discussion forum.

    "To follow knowledge like a sinking star..." (Tennyson's Ulysses)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,395 ✭✭✭✭suvigirl




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,614 ✭✭✭Quantum Erasure


    The last time I tried responding to a post similar to this, I was banned for a day...



  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 6,984 Mod ✭✭✭✭Irish Aris


    People are often warned/banned for not peddling lies, but for being uncivil, for personal attacks and otherwise breaking the forum charter.

    And, Yvonne, in regards to the anecdote aspect, I'm not sure I understand your point of view. It comes across as advocating that people can claim anything they want, not challenged for these claims and not face any consequences. In my opinion, this kind of makes a case that the no anecdote rule is actually a good rule and if anything it should be tightened further, as this is not how a discussion should work. But again, I might be getting your point wrong.

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Yvonne007


    I counter that with "if you want to only deal with verifiable facts, stay with google or ChatGPT and discount actual discussion"

    I like to hear both sides of arguments, why they believe that they do and discount what I believe to be incorrect. THAT is discussion.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,471 ✭✭✭✭odyssey06


    That's not a discussion. It's just two soapboxes \ two opposing platforms. You can read them separately and independently if you want on a blog, or facebook or party website.
    In a discussion, posters respond to points made by others, challenge and rebut.

    And the reason why they are making claims \ statements of fact is to support an argument. It is not just about verifiable facts. But they are the foundation of a position, it is "why they believe what they do".
    And anecdotes can be used as a weaselly way of making false claims that cannot be scrutinised, a way of peddling scurrilous rumours and lies.

    If you are just going to discount "what you believe to be incorrect" without regard to the facts and evidence cited to support that argument, you will only be agreeing with what you read within the bounds of the position you started with. Pointless.

    "To follow knowledge like a sinking star..." (Tennyson's Ulysses)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Yvonne007


    Indeed it was. Some people believed, for example, that the asylum seeking claims were incorrect and were pushing for change to stop it being abused. But you are technically correct. People coming here without documentation is not illegal immigration.

    Bur by the same rationale, do you accept that transwomen in the UK are not actually women and then become women when they cross a border?

    To extrapolate further, would you now consider trans individuals from the UK should be classed as valid refugees due to persecution from their homeland?

    yes or a no.

    and do you think referring to a trans person as their biological sex should be sanctionable if you were being consistant?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,584 ✭✭✭eightieschewbaccy


    If a poster is just pushing nonsense though then that's not gonna be a very productive discussion.... So yep there absolutely should be limits in terms of what kind of unfounded claims can be pushed. Even the conspiracy theory forum expects some kind of source for a claim. Current Affairs should obviously be an even higher bar.

    And in the case of the immigration thread then falsehoods or made-up stories are frankly dangerous so simply not allowing random anecdotes that are unverifiable seems like the best option TBH.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Yvonne007


    If I live in an area with a high level of immigrants have been housed and I have witnessed a lot of crime carried out by those people, that is an anecdote. But is important to hear. Some need to be discounted, some need to be believed.

    The bizarre press release from Ireland's most prominent mosque is the strangest thing I have seen in a long time. Thankfully, I do not reside anywhere near there but there should have been a clear and concise explanation but for some reason there wasn't one.

    I get that some poeple lie. And those people are idiots. I don't tolerate liars on either side of the "belief spectrum".

    But again, no speculation is tolerated unless it fits in with what the terms and conditions allow. Yet we have more than a thousand pages on a thread that talks about having a ****.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Yvonne007


    I again, disagree.

    I know I have spoken to you on many an occasion and it was far from productive. We just seem to be diametrically opposed as to where our beliefs lie. Rather than just discard me as a "bigot" "nazi" or any other silly names you throw out.

    It would be productive if I learned why you believe what you do, and why it differs from where I am coming from. But unfortunately, that seems to not be the way people think. You just want to hear your opinion parroted back to you and me similarly. I'd love to hear my voice shouted back. I disagree with people that disagree with me. I don't disagree with people on "my side".

    I am more open to hear unabashed opinions, even if I find them offensive.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,395 ✭✭✭✭suvigirl


    I think there are threads for all those topics.

    Also, your first point isn't an anecdote.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,584 ✭✭✭eightieschewbaccy


    And people are free to cite articles about crimes post conviction if they want... However posters vaguely claiming crimes is somewhat dodgy. It's a bit reminiscent of how historically groups have been unfairly tarnished. Eg historically you had rumours about Jewish poisoning wells or more recently Donald Trump claiming Haitians were eating dogs, it's outright dangerous and ends up with minorities targeted. If a poster is claiming to be a witness to crimes then they report it to the Gardai.

    In terms of other kinds of speculation then it's far more wide open for defamation.… So once again probably a not good thing to be occurring on the site.

    I also don't believe I've ever called you a bigot or a Nazi, in relation to your other post in response to me. This just sounds a bit like personal grievances tbh...



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Yvonne007


    You aren't getting my point wrong IA.

    But what I am saying is that peoples personal experience is really important as to how they formed opinions.

    Obviously they should be taken with a pinch of salt because there are many here who are using boards to forward their own agenda.

    But we are all grown ups and should be allowed the grace to either engage or disregard an anectote. That is when I think a mod should intervene. If it is not furthering the debate, then intervene.

    I think you people call it "derailing the thread".

    But not allowing anecdotes on contentious subjects is silly.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Yvonne007


    I never claimed it was.

    You've proven that you refuse to answer a direct question (or three!)

    You don't need to engage with me, but forgive me if I don't engage with you after ignoring 3 direct questions.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,395 ✭✭✭✭suvigirl


    Did someone say something about spamming??😁



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,584 ✭✭✭eightieschewbaccy


    Except a lot of posters don't behave like grown ups. I can think of posters that absolutely make things up and other posters happily lap it up because it suits them. So at a certain point in certain discussions, a line needs to be drawn and that's effectively what's been done..



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,395 ✭✭✭✭suvigirl


    This is why feedback threads get closed down. If you want to engage posters on those topics, there are threads on them all. Engage me there



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Yvonne007


    If this was a government website and not a collective of people discussing topics, I would agree.

    The site should shut down anything that would get them in legal trouble, that is undisputable. But to think that you have the same political or social sway as donald trump is silly at best.

    People should be free to say what they wish, but should be respectful and at least listen and respect other people. This is the main thing lacking on this website. People aren't willing to accept they are wrong.

    I am not sure if you have ever pointedly called me a bigot or a nazi ECB, but from people with views that align with you have certain implied it. I accept the fact that you do not believe that, and apologies if I was incorrect. I may have misjudged you.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Yvonne007


    I had some time free between meetings today. Apologies. I do think most of my posts had genuine nuance.

    And when I am responded to by 3 or so posters, I may have to post repeatedly in order to respond to each one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 841 ✭✭✭Mr Disco


    not sure why the Prison forum was discontinued tbh



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,584 ✭✭✭eightieschewbaccy


    I never said anything like having the same sway as Trump. My point is that sharing nonsense with the intent of tarring specific groups doesn't tend to have a good history and a rumour can end up being incredibly harmful.

    In terms of being free to say whatever. There are other corners of the Internet that allow it and I wouldn't view them to be aspirational. In terms of allowing random anecdotes in the immigration thread that is guaranteed to act as an invitation for posters to share whatever crap they've seen on telegram.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,245 ✭✭✭Yvonne007


    I again, disagree. No surprise I guess.

    I think it's a little bit of a superiority complex to believe that YOU and people that believe what YOU believe in are the righteous and the lesser people are susceptible to propaganda they see on social media and can become harmful.

    So social media should shut them down so the only people that should see media on the internet in the mainstream think exactly like you do to avoid what you deem as harmful…….

    Hmmm…..

    The immigration thread is a shitshow. And I will both sides it. One side is "dem immigints" and the other side is "no, they are purely asylum seekers and we should believe them"

    Anyway guys, I think I made myself clear. I will only respond if anyone has any specific questions or need clarification.



  • Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 7,445 Mod ✭✭✭✭pleasant Co.


    ditto that, absolute idiocy by whoever made that call.



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  • Administrators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 15,583 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Big Bag of Chips


    @Yvonne007

    I am not sure if you have ever pointedly called me a bigot or a nazi ECB, but from people with views that align with you have certain implied it. I accept the fact that you do not believe that, and apologies if I was incorrect. I may have misjudged you.

    This is not the first time you've falsely attributed something to somebody and then apologised with a half-arsed "if I was incorrect".

    Next time it happens will trigger a temporary siteban.

    Please be more careful in what you accuse others of.



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