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Security Guard Following me

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,444 ✭✭✭✭John_Rambo


    I’ve seen Irish people mistake Indian women in sari’s for Roma people. 



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24 needsanswers


    Sorry to hear that :( the feeling you're suspected of something is awful. Hope you're Mam and Dad didn't notice, you'd hate for them to be made feel bad - our of nowhere for nothing. Anyway sounds like you're doing great - so good on you :)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24 needsanswers


    😂😂 thanks



  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Arts Moderators, Entertainment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 16,665 CMod ✭✭✭✭faceman


    This is the dumbest advice I've read all year.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,850 ✭✭✭gameoverdude




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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,393 ✭✭✭ZX7R


    Do you use self checkouts all the time



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,470 ✭✭✭...Ghost...


    I had this before in Tesco once. I don't look like, or dress like a scummer and there was no reason for suspicion I was aware of. I was a security guard years ago for a while. The industry is full of wannabe Garda and lazy fcuks.

    I was in Tesco about 10 minutes and noticed I was being eye-balled and followed by one of the security guards. I had no basket, so maybe that was something which he found interesting. To make sure I wasn't being paranoid, I tracked back a few aisles and there he was again watching from the end of the aisle.

    I approached him and asked directly why he was trailing me. He said he wasn't. I said great, so I won't see you following me again, thanks. I didn't see him again…ever. Sometimes it takes only a few seconds to fix these things. OP, you need to approach the security guard and ask direct questions, being firm and polite. If he acts the thick, then you can follow the advice above regarding ID and GDPR. You've let it carry on and there is some reason you are being targeted repeatedly. Either deal with it, live with it, or shop elsewhere.

    Stay Free



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,946 ✭✭✭JVince


    ask him - in a jolly manner - "what makes me look dodgy that you follow me everytime I'm here"

    "Can you give me tips and what to wear so that I don't get your attention?"

    Make it light hearted, have a laugh, but also then ask seriously if there's a reason you feel like you are watched everytime you are there. It should break the ice and sort things out



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,773 ✭✭✭kowloonkev


    I won't be able to sleep tonight now that I haven't impressed faceman



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,027 ✭✭✭endofrainbow


    My way to handle it would be to politely ask him ' can I help you ?' that wayhe knows you know he suspects you of something. He'll either back down or explain himself.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24 needsanswers




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24 needsanswers


    Interesting to hear others with a similar experience - thanks for all that. I will deal with it :)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 860 ✭✭✭csirl


    Funny story.

    Ive a friend who has a strange sense of humour. He was once followed by a security guard. So he went back to the store with a couple of friends and some walkie talkies and they started 'stalking" the security guard in a very obvious way - pretending to hide behind shelves and talking very loudly on their walkie talkies about "the targets" movements. Security guard eventually lost his temper and started shouting at them to stop..... . They broke theur sides laughing as he made a show of himself on front of everyone.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,520 ✭✭✭Pauliedragon


    Did they steal the walkie talkies from another shop to conduct this elaborate prank



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 860 ✭✭✭csirl




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,391 ✭✭✭Oscar_Madison
    #MEGA MAKE EUROPE GREAT AGAIN


    I’ve experienced the exact same in a Tesco and a Dunnes food shop - I’ve a feeling this is just what they “do”- they pick a customer and follow them around the store - it does actually feel creepy- not sure is someone speaking in their ear or do they just randomly pick a customer - I can’t be 100% I was followed but security guards in the two stores I’ve experienced this in have never done this kind of thing before - I reckon this is a new tactic and it’s obviously freaking out some customers



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,027 ✭✭✭endofrainbow




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,820 ✭✭✭Xterminator


    First up, a security guard following a customer around the shop is not 'doing something wrong'. There is no suggestion this is someone harassing for sexual or race/religion reasons. If they make a customer (you) uncomfortable, then speaking with the manager of tesco would seem a good route to go. Or politely asking the security guard, with a witness nearby.

    This could be something as simple as OP looks like someone who shoplifted in the past. Doesnt have to be a conspiracy, or require OP taking the nuclear option. Nor do they have to stop following you if you are a suspect. But you can ask them to justify their actions.

    @OP if you are uncomfortable you should address it. I suggest you may have a better chance of resolving this simply if you do it in person. Just politely ask why you are being followed and that you feel you are being singled out and feel uncomfortable. To either store manager or security guard. Which ever you prefer.

    They are often trainjed to look for customers who look nervous and are watching staff etc. As you are now nervous about being followed you may actually be displaying the very behaviour they are trained to look out for.

    If you dont want to do so in person go via the 'contact me' route and let tesco know your concerns. How do I make a complaint to Tesco Ireland?Visit tesco.ie, or call 1800 248 123 from Ireland, or 0080000225533 from outside Ireland.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,850 ✭✭✭gameoverdude


    What on earth? You look like someone who shop lifted in the past and make you feel uncomfortable whilst buying dinner?

    That's not on. I'd be unimpressed being followed by a security guard when doing my weekly shop. It's intimidating for some and don't they have camera's? It's useless. What can they actually do?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,538 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    Their very presence discourages people from shoplifting.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,850 ✭✭✭gameoverdude




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,820 ✭✭✭Xterminator


    so in your world they cannot follow suspects to prevent shoplifting. how nice for the shoplifters. I suspect it is you that may be an ex shoplifter - if you think they shouldnt have the power to do so.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,850 ✭✭✭gameoverdude


    I'd ask them to push my trolley to insure i don't steal stuff. Win-win?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,385 ✭✭✭✭Mellor


    A supermarket is a public place. Accessed by the public, in full view, there’s no expectation of privacy.

    Whether something is “public” or “private” has nothing to do with the ownership of the property, it’s a common misconception.

    I don’t think it’s a good idea to record him, and don’t see the point. Just pointing out the above.



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